挽回一个男人，我该做些什么？

 fenshoushinannvqinglvzhonghenchangjiandeshiqing，neimeruguofenshou，nvrengairuhewanhuinanrenni？wanhuiyigenanrenxuyaotishengziwo，yexuyaobaochiqingxingderenzhi。

一、知道自己错在哪

henduonvshengshilianhoubuzhidaoruhewanhuinanren，yaoxiangwanhuiyigenanrendexin。nibixudetuoxiehegaibian。

 henduorenbumingbai，dangchumingmingshuohaodezaiyiqi，bicihuxiangbaorong，ranerduifanghaishihuitichufenshouzheiyiqingqiu。shenzhihenduorenbaoyuanbugongping，weishenmezaiyiqixuyaolianggerendoutongyi，erfenshouquezhixuyaoyifangtongyijiukeyi。daolihenjiandan，qishijiushixuqiupipeidejieguo。rendexuqiushihuisuizheshitaibianhuade，renzuikaishikenenghuiyinweiduifangshenshangdeyixieshanguangdianerbeixiyinzaiyiqi，danzaiyiqizhihou，yeyoukenenglejiedaonishenshangdebuzu，manzubuleduifangdexuqiulinierqu。

 niyaoyishidaoweishenmenihuishiquta，fansizijidecuowu，tongshibuyaobasuoyoudeshijiandoufangzaihuainianzheiduanganqingshang，nulitishengziji，rangzijibiandegengjiayouxiu。

二、不要有压力

 dangnijuedingyaowanhuiqiannanyoudexin，yinggaizenmezuoni？zheigeshihoushenmebuyaozuo。zhuyiqianwanbunengbutingjitadadianhua，faweixin。zheiyangzuozhinengrangtaliniyuelaiyueyuan，dangnanyouxianghenifenshou，shuomingwaimianyourangtaxindongdenvsheng，sichanlandazhihuirangtajuedenihenwuqu，henifenshoushizhengquede。

三、花时间疗伤

 renhenannvshilianhouzheidianhenzhongyao，jizijiyixieshijianliaoshang，yejiduifangchuanxideshijian。buyaodadianhua、bufafaduanxin，wulunduoxiangta，douyaorenzhu。yinweinideshangkouhaimeiyouyuhe，jipoxiangyaowanhuizhihuirangtaliniyueyuan。xiangxiangzaizheiduanganqingli，zijishizhenaitahaishitaiyilai，suoyinishiyingmeiyoutadeshenghuo。jianyihuayixieshijianxiangqingchu，zheigenanrenshizijiaidema？zhideniquwanhuima？ganghaoliyongzheisanzhoudeshijian，chenjinzaizijideaihaoshang，meishijianzuodeshi，yongzheigeshijianlaizuoba。ruguoniqiannanyoulianxinile，youlimaodihuiying，buyaoshuodeshijiantaizhang。

四、自我重塑

 xuehuiyiwang，xuehuishenghuo，shiyigerenshengshiyingnenglideduanlian。zhongxinkaishinidexinshenghuode，tuikaichuangziwaimianshicanlandeyangguang，shijieshimeihaode。yaoxuehuiaiziji，cainengyounengliaibieren，huozhebeibierensuoai。dangniyoulezheiyangderenzhihexintai，bingbuxuyaokukudiwanhuiyigenanren。dangtazaicikandaonishi，huibeinishenshangdeduteqizhisuoxiyin。zhengruneijuhuasuoshuode：“niruoshengkai，hudiezilai。”