分手后悔之后如何挽回男友

 chunjieqianyunanyounaofenshou，guanxipoliehoucaizhidaohouhui，erqiexiangyaowanhuiaiqingderenyouxuduo。tebieshizaishizaichunjieqijianjiandaotarenyishuangyidui，huoshibeiqinpenghaoyoucuihunshi，weicengxiangdaodewangrizhuiyiyouhuizaicishanguozaiyanxia。rentongchangquanshineiyang，duifangduizishenhaoshiqiaokelibumingbaiaixi，shiqucaizhidaohouhui，chunjieguohouxiangyaowanhuiaiqing，zuixiandezhidaozishenbeifenshoudeyuangu，suihouduiyuyuanguqugenggaihaozishen。xiangyao wanhui nanyoudehuayinggaizenmezuo?

一、想着本身的难题

 xiangyaowanhuinanyoudehuayinggaizenmezuo?aiqingyigangkaishideneishihou，huiguoderujiaosiqi，danshijianjiandi，relianzhihou，shirifanhuiyiqiezhengchangdepingdandeshenghuo。turanmouyitianduifangjiugennixiangfenshoule，weihetayaoshuofenshou?wojuede，fenshoudeyuangushibixucunyouerqiechixujileide，jinjinnishizhongmeiyoufajuebale。

 duifangyukuaidujianshao。shenmeshiyukuaidudi?hanyijiushishuodajiazhongjianzaochengdeyouhaoduzaoyimeifajunhengchongjixingdule。liangrengangzaiyikuaierdeneishihou，nvhaitongchanghuijiaoweijiaogui，dancikenizhenduitadexiyinzhuzhishide，yingxianglidoushide，nanhaizihuibuduanrenshounidezhuduoquexianbaopiqi。danshishijianzhangleyihou，tahuizaochengyanjuanganhepilaogan，yexudouhaimeifenhaofaxian，haibuduanmaiyuantafashengbianhua。qinggandashikangnacengzaikechengneirongjiangguo：“zailianqingshiyaoshoulongnidegongzhubing，gaijiaozongdeneishihounenggoujiaozong，keshiruguonifajueduifangdexintaizaoyizhuyaobiaoxiandexinbuzaiyandeneishihou，woyebixushoulianxingle”。fouzedehuadaozuizhongzheileiweimanjiuhuijianjiandijilei，zongsuanbaofa。manyilvguogao。nvxingdoushihuozaiqiannvyoudeheiyingli，jiaruzaishangmeiduanqinggannihuanshigebeizhaoliaozhe，neimaxinlijiuhuibuyouzizhudijiangerzhekaizhanjiaowei。shaoyoubulingrenmanyijiubanliqiannvyoueryan，tazuoyaoyou duohao，zenyangchongnini，buduanzhaocha。gangkaishitatingjiannizheizhonghuajianghuijinjinyixiecujing，danjianjianditaxinlijiuhuishifendichu，dangnibuduanyongzheizhongjuzicijixingta，henjianghuijiuhuishifangtadexintai，jinergennixiangfenshou。

 tiaoxuanduguoda。xianggebanfazaipingshirichangshenghuo，niyuyixingpengyouchupengdeneishihoushiruhelakaijulide。zaifajuetamenbinanyoubiaozhunhaodeneishihou，shibushihuijinbuzhuxiangchuguihuoshibuzhudongxiangtamenaijin。zairichangshenghuozhong，henduorendoushiyouguoneiyangdeniantou。zheiyidianershinanxingbukeyijienade，nitahuiquefaanquangan。guishuganbingbushinvxingdezhuanliquan，jiarutagenniyizhizaiyikuaierqueshikeyaoxintengnihuijitamendaidailvmao，ruhejianghuibutifenshou?yincishoulongnidelanqing，xuehaozuo1geshanjierenyidedanvren，xuehaoguanchahefuweitadexinlixintai，suanshibaochiqinggandeshimiaofang。

er、lianluoshibudezuidichu

 henduorendaofenshouzhihoushangxinyujue，yixinyiyizhidianjizheduifangnenggouganjinfanhuizishenshenpang，yinciyongzishenjuededuidewanhuifangfaquwanhuiduifang，danshiquefajueduifanglizishenyuezouyueyuan，wojuede，wanhuizijibingbushijijuhuajiunenggoude，zaiwanhuishiruguofangshi yongbudui，duifangzongshitaochu，yulaiyudichunibale。yinerzaiwanhuishiyaoqiewuxialiecuowuzuofa。

 zhaoyouyuegan，quedingduifangshibushihaiaini。ruguonijuededaoduifangduiniyulaiyulengmodeneishihou，ninenggangkaishibuduanzhaoyouyuegan，xianggenjumouxiegerenxingweilaizhengshi，duifanghaiaini。jiaruduifangmeiyourangnishezhidedeyuguzhizhongdedafu，nidegerenxingweihuiyulaiyumenglie，youyunidechongdongzaizuoguai。liru：buduanwenduifangshibushihaiaini、manbujiangli、henzuo、xiangzaochengduifangdeliuyi，xiangduifangrenkeni、guanzhuni、duiniyouyidingdezijintouru。wojuede，zheizhuduodegerenxingwei，nijinjinzaizhizaomaodun，dangtaxiangyaoyunifenshoushi，fenqidianyuelaiyueda，duifangzongshiyulaiyudichuni，xihuanni。

 jingchangditongdianhuafashoujiweixinjiduifang。dangtayaoyunifenshoushi，niyouyudanxin，youyujiaolvduifangcihoujiulikaini，yincinideyaoqiuhuibaozeng，huibuduanxiangxunzhaoduifang。pubiandejiushishuotongdianhuafashoujiweixin，jiarutameiyouhuini，woyegengxinjifengkuangditishengzhaotadepinlv，naizhiduifanghuiniyaohaipashibubaxiu，yaotarangnidedafufeichanghaocaiganyuan。zheizhongzuofawojuedejiushishuozaisaoraoduifang，zongshizaochengtaxianglinihenyuan，naizhiyibianbikaininengjiaruheimingdanni、banxinjianaizhitiaocao。nizheibingbushizaiwanhui，zhishizaizaochengduifangzaochengfourenxintaizhuangtai，gengweipingdingyunifenshoushiduide，nizuoyipiankongbaiyong。

 buduangaozhiduifangniaibuaita。mingxiandixiangyaowanhuiduifangderen，huibuduangaozhiduifangaibuaita，yibiantaniyiqianganleshenmegerenxingwei，xunzhileshiduoshaozheixie。ruguoniyuexiangyaozhengshijiduifangkanzhenishiaitade，niyeshiyibiantanulixuduo，zuigaitazaiciquaizhenideneishihou，niyizhizaitishengduifangduinidedichushuiping。shijishizheileibiaoshugerenxingweimeirenhuijuedeniyeshiaitade，zhishiganjuezheileiyiaiweimingshifangdegongzuoyalijirenyizhonghenbushufu，zheizhongaichengshoubuzhu。ruguonichuxianzheizhongzuofadeneishihou，nizaoyibeichongdongcaozong，duifangzaoyilinihenyuanle。

 xianggenjulianminlaidedaoai。fenshouhourangzishenyuelaiyuefeichangcanhenkeling，shijuedabufennvxingdoushizuodeshier。tamenmailigaozhiduifang，shiquleniyihou，niyuelaiyuezheibanbukanrumu，yuelaiyueshizaitaidekeling，xiangjiqiduifangdezerenxinlaiwanhuiganqing。zheizhonggerenxingweishijidishiyongjiazhigerenxingwei，lingwaiyehenjiduanhua。najiarenxiangyaoai1gehenkeling，henmeishiyongjiazhidenvxing?lianminhuandedeai，bushizhangqide，bushibeizuigaiaixide，nijinjinrangduifangganjuezheiyiduanqingganqueshiaicuorenle，xihuan1gehendijianderen，fenshousuanshituolikuhai。

三、柔和地說話

 zaiwanhuiquanguochengzhongzishenshuohuahaiyaoliuyimouxieshiyi，nijiarushuocuohualejiuhuibaoluzijiguodadeyaoqiu，neimaduifanghuiduinizaidudichu，neimawanhuizhongdeshuohuayounaxiefangfa。

 butiqingganyouguandehuatitaolun。zaidajiafenlihouxianliaoganwanyaoliuyifangzhiqinggandehuatitaolun，nirangduifangbujiujienaquanxindeni，duijinilejuede，dangnitashiduitatanjiqinggandeshier，neimajiushishuobazishenzaiduifangxinlidepinpaixingxiangdahuiyuanxing，huihuailezishenyiqiansuonulideqinfen。zainizaicihuodeyuduifangdelianluo，duifanghuanshihendanxinde，lingyifangduiniyaocunyouqinggan，lingyifangyoudanxinninengfanhuizhiqiandeqingkuang。niyizhizaiciketijiqinggan，huijiduifangdaozhitingdadegongzuoyali，huizaochengzaidulikainidejuece。

 buzhenglun，yaozhongshiduifanghelingtingduifangdeniantou。dajiayiqifenshou，zishenjiushishuoyouyufenqidejiqierfenshou。ruguoninhaizairenweijianchibuxiezishendeniantou，zhizhe，neimameirenhuihaixiangyaoyunixianliaode。meigerendouyaobeilejieherenke，jinizishendeniantou，nenggou，keshihaiyaomingbailingtinghezunzhongtarendeniantou。neiyangdehuaduifanghuiganjuenihenyouwenminglimao，gengweixiangyaoyunizaicixianliao，mingbailingtingderenshizuixiyinzhurende，neiyangdoushijibenjianshezishendefengcai，zaixuehuiqingtingtarenhezunzhongtaren，nideweixinpengyouquanyehuikuozhang。

 tanhuaneirongqineibuduankaiduifangdehuatitaolun。zaitarenshuohuadeneishihoububiduankaitarendeyuju，tashizuijichudewenminglimao。nibutaikenengzaixiangzhiqianneibanwujuwushu，xiangzenmeshuohuaqueshuonaxie，niyeshizaiwanhuiduifang，yaoheduifanglizai1gexiangtongfangmianshang，neiyangcaihuiyoudajiadegongtongyuyanhaoliao。yaobaozhengbuduankaiduifangdeyuju，lingwaiyaozhangwoduifangzaitanhuaneirongzhongdeshenghuoqingkuang，jiaruduifangxiangyaoyuniqingtudaliang，neimabiaomingtaduiniderongbeineixinjiuxuehuifangxia，zheihuiyuniwanhuitashihenyouxiezhude。

 wanhuinanyoubudanyaocaozonghaobenshendeyaoqiugan，zaizaiciqudelianxishideyujuhaiyaobawohaofangfa，haodelianluoyouzhunizaidujinzhuduifangxinli，duiniwanhuitayehuihenyouxiezhude。