挽回男友的关键不是时间，而是方法和真心

 fenshouzhihoudeganqingkefoufuhe，guanjiandianbingbushiqujueyushijian，zhishiniwanhuiaiqingdefangshishibushiyongmeicuo。xuduorenfenshouzhihou， wanhui nanpengyoujiuxihuanjiuchan，wojuedejieguozhiyoushideqifan。wanhuifenshouhenjiudenanpengyouzuidebanfa，nvhaiyaozuodejijibingbushijiuchan，zhishizaitigaogerenjiazhidejibenshangchuangjiannengtahuitihuihuodedelianxidian。xiangyaowanhuinanyoudehuayinggaizenmezuo?

yi、yaoqupouxidajiafenshoudeyuangu

 zheiyidianershishifendeguanjiande，youyupouxifenshoudeyuanguzheiyiguanliandaonikeyizenyangquwanhuitade1gefangxiang，jiaruzhishideyouyu2gerendegexingyouwenti，changchanghuiyouyupingshisuosuierzhengzhi。zheizhongzhuangkuangxiangduieryanshifeichangjiandande。neimazheiyineishihouninengshizhejijilianluoyixiaxialingyifang，taruhedoushiyouyidianerfanying。keshidangniganlemouxieqingkuangyanzhongdeshiererzaochengdajiafenshoulingyifangshifendeyuanqini。neimazheiyineishihoujiuqianwanbiequjiuchanta，qudajiaolingyifang。tiyizheiyineishihoucaiyonglengzangchuliguocheng，yaoburandajiadefenqidianzongshijiazhong。

二、思考本身难题

 zaochengmeiduanfenshoudeyuangushibicishoushangdouchuxianlenanti，yincizaifenshouzhihoububizongshiyiweilingyifangpaoxialeni，yiqingbielianjiushishuolingyifangdecuo，yaolejienizishenshoushangyeshinanti，buranweihebeishuaidejiushini?kaishijiugaisikaoxiabenshennantile。kanyixiazishenshibushizhiqianguodunanchanjiaozong，kanyixiazishenzhiqianshibushibuzudandutaiguoyikaolingyifangtishenggongzuoyali，kanyixiazishenzhiqianshibushishenghuoguodujiandan，kanyixiazishenzhiqianshibushibuzhongshizishendewaizaizheixiedenanti。jinguanzaifenshouzhihoucaichajuedenantishiwanledian，keshiyaoshimingbaisikaozishennantibingjiuzhengdehua，wanhuilingyifanghuanshihaiyoujihuide。xiangyaowanhuinanyoudehuayinggaizenmezuo?

san、xintaidiaozhengweiwanhuizuotiqianzhunbei

 xintaidiaozhengshuoqilaijianyi，danqueyouxuduonvshengmeifazuodao，tongchangtamende“xinlaixintaizhuangtai”huishibenshenyaoqiuganguogaojinerzaiwanhuizhongshishichuchujiyulingyifanggongzuoyali，bidetaijinzongshijianglingyifangtuiyuan。yaoqingchu“xinlaixintaizhuangtai”shidefangshi jiushishuosuzao“pengyouxintaizhuangtai”,shixiangbingbushijiaoxiangquroulinganqing，zhishijianglingyifangshizuowanledexiaohuoban，neiyanglingyifangzaiyingduinideneishihoucainenggoumeishenmegongzuoyali，jiejinquanlizijintouruyunidexianliaozhong。cizhi，yeyaoduizishendewanhuimanhuaixinxin，zaidabufenbuchenggongdeshilizhonghenjuedaduoshuyuangujiushishuoyouyutamenzixinxinbugoudaozhi，jiandingbuyizishendezixinxincainenggoushinizaiwanhuidaoshangzoudehenyuan。

si、tishengzijideyouhuoli

 meimeiduanguanliandeliekai，quanshiyinweinantishuhudayierliuyouanquanyinhuan，anquanyinhuanjishaochengduo，kucunjiyadaolingyifangmeifazaiquhelixingzheizhongshier，ganjuemeiyouqidaile，caizuihoubaofa。”youyudajiazhongjiandefenqiguoduo，cushidajiaganqingzhengzhongjianjiazaleqitachengfen，xiangduixingyingdiniduitadeyouhuolidaziranyehuijiangdi，yincizhenshidewanhuiaiqingshixiangyaonixuehaozaicixiyinzhunanpengyou。

 youhuolishituiyindajiazouyiqidequdongli，doushibaochidajiaganqingdeguanjian。yikaishiniduininanpengyouyouhaogandu，jianghuiyouyulingyifangderongmao，zerengan，wenrou。fanguolai，nanpengyouzhiainijianghuiyouyunidetaorenxihuan，wenrou，kailang，zheizhongquanshiyouhuolidezhuyaobiaoxian。danshidanglianqingfazhanqushidaofaweiqideneishihou，nidejiaomanguanzongzhegailenidetaorenxihuan，nidemanbujianglizhegailenidewenrou，lingyifangjiuhuijianjiandiduinisangshixingquaihao，daziranniduilingyifangdeyouhuoliyehuimanmanjiangdi。

 xiangqudechenggongwanhuinanpengyoudeqiantitiaojianjiushishuoxiufunideyouhuoli。niwubizaicichuangjian1gejiagou。zaicichuangjianjiagoudemudijiushishuoyibiannenggouzaicixiyinzhunanpengyou。huoxuniyizhizailianqingdeneishihouyouyulingyifangmeiyouchaoguonidelingrenmanyishuiping，woyehuinaoxiaoxingzi，huoxulingyifangmeiyoubaguoduoshijianzijintourudaonishoushang，woyehuiyoukuyounao。wotiyinigaizhengzheileibuliangxiguan，bubishiwudaxiaojiugangkaishiluannaopiqi，chedibujilingyifang1gebiaoshudejiyu。huoxugaiyouxingzideneishihou，huanshibixuyouxingzi。

wu，gaibianxianzhuangdepinpaixingxiang

 bulunshizainaxiehuanjie，nvhaibixuxuedaban。duanlianshenti，caizhuangmaixiezi，laigepinpaixingxiangdabianhuan。yaolejie，nigenggaibuwanquanshiyibianzaiciyingdelianren，yeshirangzishenqingxuyukuaiqilai。taiyangxinxindenvxingcaizuipiaoliang，dandudenvhaicaigengweijirenyizhongxiyinzhu。jiaruoxia，zai1geyanyanggaozhaodeqingchen，nichuhuyiliaodichuxianzaitadeshiyefanchou，xinxinyousuibiandigentahanzhezhaohu，huishiruhedemeihaodeqingjing?jianxingengxingaizaozhihoudenihaowuyiwenhuitahuiermuyixin。danshiliuyideshibuyaozaitahuiganjuejinishifenqipanhuiguotoudemoyang，nanshengquanshizhuiqiuwanmeixinxianshierdexiaodongwu，nichongzushenminenggouchongzudizaochengtadexingquaihao。