挽回前男友该付出些什么?

 meiyiduiqinglvdouqidaizishennengyouzheifenxingfukuailezhangqideaiqing，keshikeguanshishitongchangbingfeineiyang，xuduoneishihouyinweirenmenbumingbaizenyangyunyingqinggan，quefalianaijiqiao，kenenghuidaozhidajiadeaiqingjingbuzhushijianjianjudemolian，tebieshizaishiwaidideganqing，zaoshoujianjudeyueshulibukeyizhangqideyiqi，shijianjiulenantidaziranyezengjia，kenenghuidaozhidajiadeqingganchuxianliefeng，zuizhongyitichufenshoujieshu。fenshouhouzenme wanhui ?ruhewanhuiqiannanyou?

一、恢复自身的心态

 fenshouzhihouyuefatongchu，jiuyingdanghuodeyuehaokan。bukeyiyouyushilianhentongchu，woyeyizhixiaochen，meiridoubushuzhuang，lalilatachenlundegengehongyinvguixiangtong。zhaozhaojing，kanyixiarujindezishen，xianghulijieyixiaxia，zuoweinanshengninengjienaneiyangdenvrenma?jiarulianzishendoumeifajiena，doubukeyizhushidehua，nitannaxiequwanhuitaren。zhengliqingxu，erqiejingmeidedaban，huandiaonanpengyouzuiainidefuzhuang，zuixianzaishenkeyinxiangzhongjiubukeyirangzishenchuyuxiafeng，yaoranglingyifangtihuidaorenmendexinxin，tongchangxinxindenvxingdoushizuiyoufengcai。

 wojuede，lianqingzhongjiuchanshihenyiqiezhengchangdeshier。lianrenjianzaisuonanmianpengdaomouxiefenqihemoca，meifachuliwufadiaohe，daduoshuneishihouyaoshixianghuzhijianrenrangyixiaxia，nenggouzaicihehao。zhenduinanpengyouxiangfenshoushibushihainengwanhuidenanti，wojuedejiaodadejuecequanqujueyuzishen。youderenxiangwanhuiyongbuduifangshi，youderenxiangwanhuiquelenglengmomo，zhinengzheixiexiangwanhuierqieyouxinxin，yongduifangshidenvhai，cainengzuodaozhenzhengkeyiwanhuiqudechenggong。