挽回男友千万不能使用消极行为

 dangnanrenshuobuxihuannile，jiushishuobuxihuannile，bubizhaoneiyanghuoneibandeyuanyinlaichangshimamuzishen。nizuixianyaozuodejiushishuojienazheiyikeguanshishi，bubisheqiukaoqiqiuhejiuchanlailiuzhuneigeyijingbianxinderen。neima，xiangyaowanhuinanyoudehuaqiadangdeshijicaozuoyingdangruhelaizuoni?xiangyao wanhui nanyoudehuayinggaizenmezuo?wanhuiaiqingyoushenmemijue?

1.yaoqiuganbubineimamingxian，gerenxingweibubineimajiduanhua

 zuixianrangnijianggezhenshidegushi，youduilianrenzaijieshangshangchanshengleyidianerxiaofenqi，liangrenchaoleqilai，nvshengyinuzhixiaxiangfenshou，ernanhaierqueshishougoutawuyuanwugunatichufenshoushuoshier，baqinggandangerxi，cicijiumeiyoulijihongta。zheiyixianvshengkehenhuaidiao，rengdiaoshoulidebao，turanzhijiantangzaijiaotongliuliangbuduandedamaluzhongyangzhengfulaidao。zheiyinanhaierhehuaile，gankuailianladaibaodebanvshengtuohuilai，zaizheiliquanguochengzhonghaichixubeiwanglaidejiashiyuanmajingshenbing。

 getiannanhaierjiuhenvshengwanquanmingquetichuletichufenshou，yihourenhelianxidianhuajiaruheimingdandeganjingzhengjie。nanhaierzhihouyuwoshuo，tawojuedeshifeichangaineigenvrende，neiyitianlianggerenzhengchaodequanshimouxiexiaoshier，guohoulianggerenzaihaohaodigoutongjiaoliuzheiyiduanxiaozhutiqujishiguoqu。keshinvshengneiyitianbupasidezhuyaobiaoxianqueshiheshaleta，tahaipaxiangxiangjianglailianggerenzaichanshengmaodunshi，nvshenghaihuizuochunaxiejiduanhuadeshierlai，tahaiparangzishenchuaizhezhelingyirendexingmingheanquanxingdeshengshadaquan，neiyangshengsilijiedenvpengyou，taqueshibuganzaizaicixiangchuxialai。

 yiner，zaiwanhuiaiqingshiyaoxuehaodiaojiezishendexintai，guanlizijideyaoqiugan，bubishishichuchuzhuyaobiaoxianchu：wolikainijiubuxianghuole，nipaoxiawoyegaixiashibacengdiyu，neiyanghuijiqiannvyouchanshengtingdadegongzuoyali。shuoshihua，qingganyuanbenjiushishuozheizhongbupingwendexieyue，liangrenkaoenaierronghe，kaobuxihuanerjiechuhetong，zheizishen jiushishuozheijianhenyiqiezhengchangdeshier。pajiupayixienvhaijienabushangzheiyikeguanshishi，benlaiyijingfenshou，quehaisipilailian，haichangshiganyulingyifangdeyiqiezhengchangshenghuo，batadequanqiunongdejifeigoutiao。

 wojuedeshuozhenhua，jiarushiqiannvyoujijixiangfenshou，tongchangchuziyuduinideneijiuganheshiminggan，tashixiangyaoyunizuoyixingpengyoude，erqiezainipengdaokunnanshijiejinquanlibangni，nichedinenggoutongyi，zuishaoyouyuzheicengyixingpengyoudeguanlian，niyesuanzuodedaolezaicidaizaitashenpangdetexuquan，zheiduinijianglaifuzhuxingdongquwanhuishijiweiyouyide。keshipianyaoyixienvhaizhuanbuhuilaineitiaowan，juedecengjingdewojiushinidenvyou，nihaiyaoxiangzhiqianneibantaoxintaofeidizaiciduiwomenhao，duinaxiewoxiangbazishentuijidaopenyoudezhenshishenfen?

 baituonvhai，zanxiannongqingchuzhuangkuanghaome，dajiarujinyijingtichufenshou，niyuqiannvyouyibushiqinglvguanlian，bingqietichufenshoushitatide，shitabuxiangyaowomenzaiyiqi，niyijingchuzaipugongyingxianglile，bierenshuozuoyixingpengyou，xiangdangyujileni1gelouti，nizishenzhaoxiajiujiuxingle。yexuni，pianyaobumaizheiyizhang，haixiangfanquguidingbierenneiyangneibande，zheibuyidingzishenchaoqiangkoushangzhuangma?taduinijincundeneidianqingganmanmanbeinixiaoshidaijin，zheiyixiatazongshiwanquanlikaini。yincia，jiaruqueshixiangwanhuilingyifang，bubizhangzhedajiayiqiandeneidianxirilianren、bubizhangzhetayiqianduinidehaojiumukongyiqie，dangtaainishi，nidezuojiushishuotaorenxihuan，dangtabuaizhenishi，nidezuojiushishuomanbujiangli，jiushishuomeifarenshoudesipilailian，zheijiushishuorenqingxizishenxianrujinrenwujiaosedeyuangu。

2.xixindenghou，taburongyineimakuaijiubeitarenduozou

 fenshouhou，xuduonvhaidequexianjiushishuotaizhejile，laoxiangturanzhijianjiuchulidiaoquanbushi，jieguohuzimeimaoyibazhua，banshilinbuqingzhongzhongzhizhong，zuihouwanhuiyidabaijieshude。liru，nigaozhitashidudeduanlianshinenggoukaolvdaode，tamenyebuxiangyaole，buhaodea，woruguohetaduanlian，tamanmanjiubawanglegaizenmeban，tabeitarenqiangqugaizenmeban，tayouxinnvyoulegaizenmeban;zailiru，fuchouzhelianmenghuanjie，woxiangtamenzaidenghouyiduanshijian，dengqiannvyouduitamendefumianxinxiyinxiangwanquanxiaochule，suihouzaiqutiqinggan，dantamenhaibuxiangyao，yizhidanyouwanshuomouxietianhuicuoguolewanhuidejinzijihui，yincimaomaoranranshangqiantitiaojianfuhexing，jieguoxianeryijian，suibiantiqinggandefuchouzhelianmengbisihaowuyiwen。

 yinerfenshouzhihouzuozijidexintaizhuangtaijibenjianshejiuhenguanjian，yaolejienideqiannvyoushigedahuoren，taburongyiqingyijiucongyuzhouhuifa，yeburongyiqingsongdijiubeitarenganzou，niqianwanbiezishenzaojiuchuneimaduobubianchuquhezishen，qinggandeshiqueshijibudao，tarutongwozaishoushangdesuishizi，nizuandeyuejin，tayejiuwailiudeyuelaiyuekuai。

 youshihounvshenghenanshengtitichufenshouguanjianyuangujiushishuonvpengyoubazishenguandeguojin，zishendeshashinvpengyoubixuwenyici，dianhuashibukanchanghebudingshizhixingchagang，shoujiweixin、qq、xinlangweibozheizhongjiaoyouruanjianyeshixiangfanjiufan，shijianyizhang，pinciyiduo，tajiuhuijuedezishendesimikongjianbeiqinhai，tashiquzishenxiangyaodeguishugan，jiuhuixiangqiyunitichufenshou，laizaicibaochizishendesuiyi。

 yiner，jirandajiayijingfenshou，liangrenjiushishuoquanxinshengjihedandude2gegeren，niyingdangbabenguishuyulingyifangdeshijianheshineikongjiandouguihaita，qingbieganyutadeshenghuoqiju，bubichangshiweihaitazuojuece，huoxugengbubisipilailian，duilingyifangkaizhangezhonggeyangweizhuijiedu，zheizhongqinhailingyifangsimikongjiandegerenxingweidoushiebiandajiabenjiumeineimayouhaodeguanlian，yejiangnidewanhuisongrunankandechujing。

3.让自身更出色

 yaolejie，quanbudetichufenshouquanshiheganqingnongduzhidejiangdituobukaiganxide，renmenfeichangshaojiandaoyounaduilianrenzailianaihuanjiejiunaobai，youyuneigeneishihou，bicizhongjiandeganqingnongduzhishifeichangmingxiande，lingyifangweizijichushideneileimeihaodexintaiganshou，shikeyixiaochuhuoshizhezhulingyifangshoushangrenhequexianhewentide，yincineishihoudajiameiyouzhengchao，meiyoufenqi，yemeiyoubukaixin。

 yinerrujinnanpengyoutiaoxuanyunitichufenshou，jinjinyouyunikeyijitamenchushidexintaiganshoudefazhi，yaoyuanyuandidiyutayaodujuenidezheileixinyuandefazhi，jianyanzhishinidebenrenfengcaizaijiangdi，nimeifaduitachanshengyanxuxingdeyouhuoli，tadoumeiyouqudonglihereqingquzaicikuanrongni，yincitazhinengzhunbeidaowaibiandefanhuashijiequchuangyichuang。

 zheishihoujiaruniyaowanhui，liangzhezhijiansipilailian，liangzhezhijianhezishenzaojiuchudejiaxiangdizhengquyusiwangpo，haiburubashijianhehuolihuaxiaozaitigaozishenshangbian，rangzishenyuelaiyuegengyoufengcai，neiyangsuanshixiyinzhuqiannvyou，tahuizaicihuidaonishenbiandezhongyao。

 yaolejie，jiranqiannvyoucengjingaiguoni，jiubiaomingnishoushangcunyouguoyixiexiyinzhutadegexingtezheng，jinjindajiapingchangjiaowangquanguochengzhongdezhuduomoca，xiaoqianmeilezheileigexingtezhengjitamenneixinchanshengdeqifuhechongjixing，zheishihouniyaoshizaicizhaodaozheixiegexingtezheng，erqierangtayuelaiyuegengduomu，qiannvyoucaishicongnishoushangxunzhaozheixierangzishenxindongdedian，dajiazhongjiandeganqingcaihuijianchixiaqu。