shijiezheimedanengpengdaojiuyichengyuanfen,jiaruhainengyiqijiugengbuyile;liangrenyiqimianbuleyoumouxiemocazhengzhi,xinqingyumentichufenshou;lianggerenjiaowangzongyoujianjie、niantoubuyiyangdeneishihou,mianbuleyouzhengzhi;yiqijiule,nijianghuiganjueganqingdanle,cikejianghuihuixiangfenshou,dangfenshouzhihouniyouhuixiangdaolingyifangdezhuduohao;enaidequanguochengzhongzaisuonanmianchuxianmouxiepijuan,neijinjindajiadeganqingpijuanqi;zhizhiqueshifenshouzhihou,cailejielingyifangdeguanjian,xiangyaowanhuinanyoudehuayinggaizenmezuo? wanhui aiqingyoushenmemijue?
xiangyaowanhuinanyoudehua,shouxianjiushishuoyaolejiecuozainaerle,jingxialaixixinxiangxiang,pouxiyixiaxiadajiadeqinggan,zaiheshidajiadeqinggangangkaishixiajiangjiqixiajiangdeyuangu。jiaruxiangqudechenggongwanhui,zishenbixumingbairangbuhegenggai。
zhinengqingxileshijishizenmehuishizaochengzuihoudetichufenshou,caiyoujianghuiduizhengzhiliao,cainengchenggongwanhuiaiqing。danshibuguanshizenmehuishizaochengdetichufenshou,zhuyaozuodeshigaibianxianzhuangdepinpaixingxianghegerenxingwei,shiyaowanggengqiangdefangweigai;jiarushibenlaibuliuyiyizhedeni,huoshibuxiangcaizhuangdeni,huoshibuxiangweihubaoyangzishendeni,nijiubixuxuexipeixunzenyangweizijipeidaheshizishenqichangdeyifukuzi,xuexipeixunruhehuazhuangheweihubaoyang;jiarubenlaiqingxubuwending、jiaozong,neihaiyaoxuezheguanlizijidexintai,duokaolvdaolingyifang,shaozuomouxiejiaozongdeshier。
zaigaibianxianzhuangdelingwai,nenggougenjuweixinfapengyouquanzhanxianchuzishenfanmiandeqingkuang;zhanxianzishenxindewaimao,zhanxianzishenfenshouzhihoujianchibuxiedemouxiexihao,liruyundongjianshenlianxiyujia,zishenzuoyingyangshanshi;zhanxianzishenhexiaohuobanmenqudengshan、yecandeng。fenshouzhihou,xinlihaowuyiwenshitongchude,danhuanshiyaojianchibuxiezhanxianzishentanrandeshenghuoqingkuang。
jiarufenshouzhihoudeni,youbiedenanhaizihuilaizhuiqiuwanmeini,duiniguanxintitie,songcansongxianhua。jiarunishixiangwanhuinanyou,qinghaijideyaoherujinzhuinidenanhaizilakaijuli,dannenggoucongweixinpengyouquanbiaoluchuzishenbeinanhaizizhuiqiuwanmei;mudijiushishuojininanpengyouzaiciliuyidaoni,lejiefangqinishitadesunhai。
jiarufenshouzhihoudeqitianhuoshibangeyue,ninanpengyoujijilianluoni,neiwanhuidegailvhuitingda;danshiyikaishiyingyiyixingpengyougentajiaowang,weichizishendezishi,bukeyijiaoaoziman。dandangninanpengyoushizhonghuanshimeilianluoni,bixujijilianluota,dangninanpengyounenghuiyingni,bingqieyudiaoyebiyiqianhuanjie,yuzhaoyouwanhuidejianghui。
wanhuiweinengyichengbubian,bixuyouqianrushennenggouyouhaodexiachang,wanhuiquanguochengbixuraokaimouxiejinqu,baozhengsanbu:
1.不增加工作压力
tichufenshoudaduoshuzhuangkuangxiashitongchude,danqinghaijidetichufenshouhuoshifenshouzhihouqianwanbiejilingyifanghendadegongzuoyali,lirufenshouhaiheguoquxiangtongduiqiannvyouguanxintitie,gesanchawusongzheisongnei,zheishizheizhonghaoxindegerenxingweizongshizengjialingyifangdegongzuoyali,jiakuairanglingyifanggengweifanganhedujueni。
2.不死皮赖脸
youjulaohua“yikuernao sandiaosi”,neiyangdegerenxingweiqieji,zongshitishenglingyifangduinidedichu,duinideyanfan,neiyangzuokanqilainizishenshishizaitaidedijian,lingyifanggengweiburongyiquzhenxi。
3.不反映高要求感
yinle《hongsemeigui》youjugequgeci“shiqudezhongjiuzaizaodong”,zijisangshidehuoshishiqude,jiuhuifeichangxiangyaozhaodaoyishidewupinhuoshihuodezishenqipandewupin,zaizheilizhaodaodequanguochengzhong,tongchanghuitaiguofanyingchuzishendegaoyaoqiugan,zuochudemouxiegerenxingweihuijirenchanshengdichu,erzishenquebuzhidao,zheizongshitishengwanhuidenanduxishu,buliwanhui。
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