挽回男友需要绕开的禁区有哪些?

 shijiezheimedanengpengdaojiuyichengyuanfen，jiaruhainengyiqijiugengbuyile;liangrenyiqimianbuleyoumouxiemocazhengzhi，xinqingyumentichufenshou;lianggerenjiaowangzongyoujianjie、niantoubuyiyangdeneishihou，mianbuleyouzhengzhi;yiqijiule，nijianghuiganjueganqingdanle，cikejianghuihuixiangfenshou，dangfenshouzhihouniyouhuixiangdaolingyifangdezhuduohao;enaidequanguochengzhongzaisuonanmianchuxianmouxiepijuan，neijinjindajiadeganqingpijuanqi;zhizhiqueshifenshouzhihou，cailejielingyifangdeguanjian，xiangyaowanhuinanyoudehuayinggaizenmezuo? wanhui aiqingyoushenmemijue?

 xiangyaowanhuinanyoudehua，shouxianjiushishuoyaolejiecuozainaerle，jingxialaixixinxiangxiang，pouxiyixiaxiadajiadeqinggan，zaiheshidajiadeqinggangangkaishixiajiangjiqixiajiangdeyuangu。jiaruxiangqudechenggongwanhui，zishenbixumingbairangbuhegenggai。

 zhinengqingxileshijishizenmehuishizaochengzuihoudetichufenshou，caiyoujianghuiduizhengzhiliao，cainengchenggongwanhuiaiqing。danshibuguanshizenmehuishizaochengdetichufenshou，zhuyaozuodeshigaibianxianzhuangdepinpaixingxianghegerenxingwei，shiyaowanggengqiangdefangweigai;jiarushibenlaibuliuyiyizhedeni，huoshibuxiangcaizhuangdeni，huoshibuxiangweihubaoyangzishendeni，nijiubixuxuexipeixunzenyangweizijipeidaheshizishenqichangdeyifukuzi，xuexipeixunruhehuazhuangheweihubaoyang;jiarubenlaiqingxubuwending、jiaozong，neihaiyaoxuezheguanlizijidexintai，duokaolvdaolingyifang，shaozuomouxiejiaozongdeshier。

 zaigaibianxianzhuangdelingwai，nenggougenjuweixinfapengyouquanzhanxianchuzishenfanmiandeqingkuang;zhanxianzishenxindewaimao，zhanxianzishenfenshouzhihoujianchibuxiedemouxiexihao，liruyundongjianshenlianxiyujia，zishenzuoyingyangshanshi;zhanxianzishenhexiaohuobanmenqudengshan、yecandeng。fenshouzhihou，xinlihaowuyiwenshitongchude，danhuanshiyaojianchibuxiezhanxianzishentanrandeshenghuoqingkuang。

 jiarufenshouzhihoudeni，youbiedenanhaizihuilaizhuiqiuwanmeini，duiniguanxintitie，songcansongxianhua。jiarunishixiangwanhuinanyou，qinghaijideyaoherujinzhuinidenanhaizilakaijuli，dannenggoucongweixinpengyouquanbiaoluchuzishenbeinanhaizizhuiqiuwanmei;mudijiushishuojininanpengyouzaiciliuyidaoni，lejiefangqinishitadesunhai。

 jiarufenshouzhihoudeqitianhuoshibangeyue，ninanpengyoujijilianluoni，neiwanhuidegailvhuitingda;danshiyikaishiyingyiyixingpengyougentajiaowang，weichizishendezishi，bukeyijiaoaoziman。dandangninanpengyoushizhonghuanshimeilianluoni，bixujijilianluota，dangninanpengyounenghuiyingni，bingqieyudiaoyebiyiqianhuanjie，yuzhaoyouwanhuidejianghui。

wanhuiweinengyichengbubian，bixuyouqianrushennenggouyouhaodexiachang，wanhuiquanguochengbixuraokaimouxiejinqu，baozhengsanbu：

1.不增加工作压力

 tichufenshoudaduoshuzhuangkuangxiashitongchude，danqinghaijidetichufenshouhuoshifenshouzhihouqianwanbiejilingyifanghendadegongzuoyali，lirufenshouhaiheguoquxiangtongduiqiannvyouguanxintitie，gesanchawusongzheisongnei，zheishizheizhonghaoxindegerenxingweizongshizengjialingyifangdegongzuoyali，jiakuairanglingyifanggengweifanganhedujueni。

2.不死皮赖脸

 youjulaohua“yikuernao sandiaosi”，neiyangdegerenxingweiqieji，zongshitishenglingyifangduinidedichu，duinideyanfan，neiyangzuokanqilainizishenshishizaitaidedijian，lingyifanggengweiburongyiquzhenxi。

3.不反映高要求感

 yinle《hongsemeigui》youjugequgeci“shiqudezhongjiuzaizaodong”，zijisangshidehuoshishiqude，jiuhuifeichangxiangyaozhaodaoyishidewupinhuoshihuodezishenqipandewupin，zaizheilizhaodaodequanguochengzhong，tongchanghuitaiguofanyingchuzishendegaoyaoqiugan，zuochudemouxiegerenxingweihuijirenchanshengdichu，erzishenquebuzhidao，zheizongshitishengwanhuidenanduxishu，buliwanhui。