挽回男友要先调整心态和目标

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一：先有心态状态和总体目标

 xiangyaowanhuinanyoudehuayinggaizenmezuo?zheiyinanti，duiwoeryanjuedegenghaoxiangwencuotijiruhedingzheng，neima，wogaishijishuocankaodaanshisha，huanshijinigaoqingchuzhishijiegoutu?

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 zheijiushishuoweihexuduorenbenlaixuelexuduodaoli，yiranguobutaihaoyibeizi，youyukanshangqushimingbaile，wojuedemeizhenshigaoqingchu。yexuyaogaoqingchuzheizhong：shierweishenmeni、xubuxuyaowanhui、yingdangzenyangwanhuiaiqing。nizuibixudeshibixuyoumubiaodezhongyaoxing，bingqieweizhiqinfen，youzishendeshangjinxin，zishenchongzuchuse。zheiyishizonggang，renhefangfadegenbenyuanyinbuju，kanqilaijianyiqishifanza，youjishaoshuzixunwodenanren，zhihouwoyutamendoufajuele，wojuedezishenbingbushixiaxiangfuhexing，jinjinyouyushuyingyu、xiaomoshiguang、ganshouaiqingdeziweizheixiemeiyoushijiyiyideyuangu，cuimianzishenhenxiailingyifang，qushizishenqufuhexing。ninengshizhebuduanziwenshibushixiangyaohuahenduodeshijianhehuoliquwanhuita，tayoushibushizuigaixiangquwanhui。