挽回一个男人，我该做些什么？

 tichufenshoushinanrennvrenlianrenzhonghenpubiandeshier，neimajiarutichufenshou，nvxinggairuhewanhuinanrenni？wanliunanrenbixutigaozishen，yebixutounaoqingxingderenzhinengli。

一、了解自身错在哪儿

xuduonvhaifenshouhoubuqingchuruhewanhuinanren，yaoxiangwanliu1genanrenxin。niwubiderangbuhegenggai。

 xuduorengaobudong，dangshibenlaidayingdeyiqi，xianghuxianghuzhijiankuanrong，shubuzhilingyifanghaihuixiangfenshouzheiyikenqiu。naizhixuduorenmaiyuanbuheli，weishayikuaierbixuliangrendouyuanyi，ertichufenshouquezhibixulingyifangyuanyijiunenggou。dadaolifeichangjiandan，wojuedejiushishuoyaoqiupeiduidejieguo。rendezhuiqiushihuisuizhishitaibianhuade，renzuichujianghuihuiyouyulingyifangshoushangdemouxieliangdianerbeixiyinzhuyiqi，danyiqiyihou，yeshijianghuizhangwodaonishoushangdebugou，kaolvbushanglingyifangdeyaoqiulinierqu。

 nikeyiguanniandaoweiheninengsangshita，fanshengzijidebuzhengque，lingwaibubibaquanbudeshijiandoufangdaohuailianzheiyiduanqingganshang，qinfentigaoziji，rangzishenbiandeyuelaiyuechuse。

二、不必有工作压力

 ruguonijueceyaowanhuinanyoudexin，yingdangruhezuoni？zheiyineishihounaxiebubizuo。liuyiganwanbukeyibuduanjitamentongdianhua，fashoujiweixin。neiyangzuozhiyoutahuiliniyuezouyueyuan，dangnanpengyouxiangyunitichufenshou，biaomingwaibianyoutahuidongxindenvhai，sipilailianzongshitahuiganjuenihenfawei，yunitichufenshoushiqiadangde。

三、花時间治病

 yiqienanrennvrenfenshouhouqishihenguanjian，weizijimouxieshijianzhibing，yejilingyifangchuanqideshijian。bubitongdianhua、bufafaxinxi，buguanxiaxiangta，bixubiezhu。youyunidechuangkoudouhaimeiquanyu，poqieyuanyiwanliuzongshitahuiliniyuelaiyueyuan。xiangzhezaizheiyiduanqingganli，zishenshizhenaitahuanshitaiyikao，yincinirongrumeiyoutadeyishizhuxing。tiyihuamouxieshijianxiangqingxi，zheiyinanshengshizishenaidema？zuigaixiangquwanliuma？qiahaoyunyongzheizousanquandeshijian，chenjinyuzaizishendexihaoshang，meikongzuodeshi，yongzheiyishijianlaizuoba。dangninanpengyoulianluonini，youwenminglimaodidafu，bubishuodeshijianguozhang。

四、自身重构

 xuehaowangque，xuehuishenghuo，shi1gerenshengdaolushiyinglideduanlian。congtoukaishinidemeihaoshenghuode，lakaichuanghuwaibianshicuicandetaiyang，quanqiushixingfude。yaohaohaoaiziji，nenggouyougongzuonengliaitaren，huoshibeitarenzhiai。ruguoniyongyouneiyangderenzhinenglihexintaizhuangtai，bingbuyidingqianxinwankudiwanliunanren。dangtazaidujiandaonishi，huibeinishoushangdeyuzhongbutongqichangsuoxiyinzhu。rutongzheijuhuachangshuode：“niruoshengkai，hudiezilai。”