挽回前男友沟通交流是很重要的

 fenshouhouzenme wanhui ?renherenzhijiandegoutongjiaoliubujinjinjinpingshihuihuazheimejiandan，ruguonixiangyaowanhuibierenshi，xuehaoqiadangdegoutongjiaoliufangfajianghuijinishibeigongban。yaoxianghelingyifangkaizhanhelidegoutongjiaoliu，zuixiannikeyirangzishenpingjingxialai，pingwenzhuzishendexintai。danglianggerenfenshouzhihou，zaiqizhonglingyifangjianghuiyouyuxinliyouyuanhen，huozhechuziyuduiganqingdeshebude，huijijizhaolingyifangxuanxieweiman。neiyangdeshixiaogoutongjiaoliuzongshirangdajiadeguanlianyulaiyucha。ruhewanhuiqiannanyou?

沟通交流的功效：

1. 激励另一方

2. 信息传递

3. 表述情感

4.提升联络

jirandajialianggerenzhongjianzaoyichuxianlefenqi，neimayinweiwohenshaokonghuale，gongxianghaoduogehelidegoutongjiaoliufangshi ba。

yi:tigaogoutongjiaoliuzhongdeganqingganshou

 dajiadouxiaihekeyirangzishendeganqingganshoubiandaderenmanweihuanwanglai，zheinengrangdajiadeqingxubiandeyuelaiyuekaixin，jinerzaochengzheizhongchengjiugan。zheixieyizhijitarenchanshengfumianqingxuderen，chufeishitakeyijishenpangderenchanshengwuzhiliyihuoshibiededequanyiyuanchaoyuyouliangdeganqingganshou，burantongchangdouburongyixuduorenxiangyaohetamenguoduochupeng。

renmenhuihenyuanyibazishenyoushandeyibianchengxianjiluren，keshiduizishenzuiqinmijiechuderenquehenyanke。

buhaotingdehuajiurutongyibingliren，henhencitengzhedajiadexin，tebieshizaijiushinizuiqinmijiechuderen。

 qidaibubiyouyuniyulingyifangdeguanlianchongzuhaojiunenggouzaihelingyifanggoutongjiaoliushidanshitounao。ganqingguigenjiedijiushishuoxianghukeyizailingyifangdeyanlijiandaozuijizhidezishen，zaihelianrengoutongjiaoliushi，bubikoumennidezanyangheqingyi，jiangnideshentizishihelianbuqingxuyunyongqilai，jinisuobiaoshudeqingyigengweidezhenxinshiyi。

 jilao，bixuyaoxuehuiqingtinglingyifanghezhongshilingyifang，erqieyaoshidudidafulingyifang，ranglingyifangcongnishoushangtihuidaorenkehezhongshi。

er：ruhewanhuiqiannanyou?zhangwolingyifanghezhengqueyindaolingyifang

zaiheqinglvgoutongjiaoliushi，niwubiyaochongzudizhangwolingyifang，zaizhengqueyindaolingyifangzhangwonizishen。

yaoxiangzhangwolingyifang，niwubizaihelingyifanggoutongjiaoliushihuodedaoyouxiaodexinxineirong。

caozuobuzhouyouxialiesanbu：

1：zaiduojicizhongzhongzhizhong，zheinengranglingyifangzhuanxinzhizhijingquedihuodeguanjianxinxineirong。

 2：jiashangyouxiaodebiaoshu，jinguanshushuojiushinijiangnideniantougaozhitaren，danyebixuxiangzhezishenchangshuodetarenkefoulejie，jiarubukeyijiubixugenjubiaoshuranglingyifanggaoqingchu。

 3：tianjiabenrenganqing，ruguonihelingyifangdegoutongjiaoliushencengcishi，lingyifangdejizhongzhuyilitongchangbujinxianyunideyuyan，yehuigangkaishilejienidetihui。

 yingyongzheijizhongfangshi qugoutongjiaoliu，budankeyijinkuaizhangwolingyifang，gengnengxiezhulingyifanglejiezishenzhenzhengdihanyi，jiangdiduoyudewujie。

三：了解另一方

 ruguonijuedeniyulingyifangzhongjianjiangyaobaofazhanshishi，zheiyifangshi keyihelidifangzhilianggerenfenqidebaofa。huanjuhuajiushishuoruguonixiangyaowenzelingyifangdemouleigerenxingweihuozheyixiehuashi，niwubiyaoxianjiadingchuzuishaoerzhongyijulaisisuoweishenmelingyifanghuiyouzheileixingweihuozheyaoshuozheileihua。

 julishuoming，niyizhizaijiazhongdenghoulingyifangxiabanlexujiu，danlingyifangfanhuijiashiduinidexintaihenlengmo，nizhaolingyifangshuohualingyifangyeduiniailibuli。

 zhengdangxingnixinlidexiaohuoshanjijiangbaofashi，bixudeyongjincunhenshaodelixingyazhizhu。ninengshitanxingdiwenyiwenlingyifangweishenmemeihua“shizaigongzuofangmianpengdaolenaxiejiannanma?”“jiushiwonaerzuodebuzuhaorenifahuolemeiyou?”

 jilao，zailejiedeneishihouxintaibixuyaorouhe，ganwanbukeyixiangshenzuifanxiangtongquwenlingyifang，neiyanglingyifanghenjianghuibuxiangyaoduinishuozhenxiang。

bawozheileifangshi ，keyifangzhilianggerenjiaowangshijuedaduoshufenqidezaocheng。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?herengoutongjiaoliushizheizhongzaoxingyishu，xuehaozenyangherenjiaoliujinidewanhuibiandeyuelaiyuefeichangrongyi。yigaozhiliangdegoutongjiaoliuquchudonglingyifang，wanhuiduinieryanyezhishishijiannanti。