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 zenyang wanhui aiqing?zaimeiduanqingganzhizhong，xiaonvrendejiaoseshijuedaduoshunanshengzuiaideduifang，niyelezhongchengdangtadexiaonvren。keshiwojuedeyiweizheninaxieshierbixuzuncongnanshengdezhufuhebixulingyifangzhaoliao，zishenyidianerzhuguanxingguannianyemeiyou，zheimoyangdenigenghaoxianglingyifangrichangshenghuodefulei。suirannibuyuanyunanpengyoufenli，keshiyinweijiaowangdetaixinku，tahuanshiyunijiangchulenizuibuyuantingjiandeliangzi——“tichufenshou”，guoduoyikaowanquanfenfengeledajialiang。ruhewanhuinanrendexin?

yi、naxiechengweiguoduoyikao

 jinanpengyoufazheitiaoduanxiaoxi：“qinaidede，wohaoaini!”keshiyiguoyihuierlingyifangmeiyouhuiduanxiaoxi，woyegangkaishixinji，gesanchawudifanyueshoujishang。niyeshizaibiaoshunidexinma?jiarushi，weishenmeyouzheibanzaodongbuanni?huanshiwojuedeniyeshidengdaitahuiduanxiaoxishuo“xiaobaobao，yinweiwohenaizheni!?”

zheijiushishuobashandaizijidangzuoleaitarenderen。pianyao，neiyangdexintaizhuangtaigengshiganqingdesixue——guoduoyikao。

 guoduoyikaojiushizhi，bazishenjiaojitaren，rangtarenlaizhaoguhaozijideshenghuodezheizhongxintaizhuangtai。youbijiaoyanzhongguoduoyikaodenvxingtongchanghuijinanshengchanshengjidadegongzuoyali。meigerendoushidandudechengren，zhenzhengdeaiqingliangrenhuxiangxiangyi，huxiangjili，huxiangwennuan，danbingbushizhaoliaonishenghuoqijurenhexuxuduoduodeshiqing，dangzuonibabamamadejiaose。wojuedezhenduibeiyikaodereneryan，tamendoushiyongyuanaizhenide，keshibeitaiguoyikao，1renlaizhaoliaoliangrendeshenghuo，tamenyehuileide，yehuibeinide“guoduoyikaonongdepiantilinshang，zuihouzhiyoupobudeyitiaoxuanyunifenli。neimajiuyingdangjiejuezheilei“guoduoyikao”。shidefangshi shisuzao“pengyouxintaizhuangtai”。

 bubilejiebuzhengque，“pengyouxintaizhuangtai”bingbushijiaoxiangquroulinqinggan，zhishirangbanilingyifangzuowei1geyikuaierwanlederen，ermudijiushishuoliangrenyiqikeyigaoxingkaixin。danxuduorenhuiwen“nijiubingbushilianaile，bianweiyikuaierwanlele。”neimaliangrenxubuxuyaoyiqi?wojuedejiushishuoyibianhuodezijibukeyikaolvdekaixin，yincitexingshixiangtongde。

 youzishendezhuiqiuwanmei。nvxingruguobushizishendezhuiqiuwanmei，xintaizhuangtaishiliefengde。youyudangzishenlaoxianshengzaiwaibiangongzuozhongchuangdangdeneishihou。niquehunhunee，chukaidenghoulaogongdeguijia，jiushishuodenghoulaogongdeguijia。nideshenghuoshiquzishen。niyingdangyouzishendelixianghua，zuohaozijixiaideshier，erqieqinfendijiangbaojishiergaohao。dangyoulenidezhuiqiuwanmei，woyeganjueshenghuoshifengfude，niyibuhuozaibierendeshijieli。“ nvxingyaodanduqilai，bubijiangzishenderenhedouyikaozaiduifang，wulunshiyibianduanlianzishen，huanshiyibiandajiajiankangpingandeganqing，guoduoyikaoquanshibukeyongde。”ganqingzhuanjiakangnarushishuo。

er、“guoduoyikao”dezhuyaobiaoxianyoushenme

 baquanbuqidaijiyuzailianrenshoushang。youyu“guoduoyikao”，nijuedelianrenyijiaolenideshenghuo，yincilianrenweilenizuorenheshierquanshiyingdangde。nidequanbuyaoqiudouguidingtaqubangnikaolv，niganjuetayouneiyangdegongzuonengli，yewubiyoubangnikaolvyaoqiudemeirirenwu。ruguotabukeyikaolv，woyehuijuedetazaoyibuxihuannini。

 shiershineiyangma?zheidanshishibaniquanbudeqidaidoujiyuzailelianrenshoushang，niqidaitakaolvnirenheyaoqiu，niyebixutabaozheng，keshinineiyangbudanweibinengkaolvzishen，haihuishilingyifangjuedepijuan，zaochenglingyifangzaiganqingguanlianliyongyounanshoudejuede。yejiuyouyutaileileermeifazaiaizheni。

 yishilezishen。banizhongxindiandoufangdaolelianrenshoushang。jibianshishuangfangfumujianmianshi，nimuqinyehuiyiweishenzhangdishuo，“yaobangwohaohaodizhaoliaoguinv”。niganjuezheizhonglisuoyingdang，niyibiantashaolezishendeshenghuo，buyongzishendeshejiaomeiti，jianjiandiyishilezishen，zhiqiutahuozhu。nishaoletajiuganjuewuqu，shirilizhinengta。

 dangtabukeyipeizhenishi，woyeganjuetazaoyiyibuneimeainile，naizhilianpeizhenidoumeifazuodao。neizainidanshennannvdeneishihou，niyeshiruheduguodeni?wojuedejinjinyouyuniyishilezishen，yinciniyibiantabukeyipeizhenideshieryoukuyounao，tajiuyinerdujueni，ganjuenitaiyikaota，tahuilei，bale。

 shaolebenrenfengcai。yitiandaowanweizainanrenshenpang，nizuodeyiqieyibianta，nitahuiyijiaolenisuoyoudeshenghuo，niganjuezheilisuoyingdang。shubuzhi，taqueganjuenilejieerfawei。

 “yaoxiangbawozhudaoquan，nanshengzuodeshierjiushishuojinkuaiyijiaonvxingdeshenghuo，nvxingzuodeshierjiushishuocaozonghejiangdibeiyijiaosulvheshuiping;nanshengyijiaosulvtaimanhuonvxingtaikuaibeiyijiao，doufeichangrongyizaoshoupaoxia。”yinernixiangyaorangganqinggengzhangqi，nihaiyaoweichibenrenfengcai，bubiyou“guoduoyikao”，taizaotahuiyijiaonideshenghuo。

san、nigaizenyanggenggaiguoduoyikaodexiguanxing

 zenyangwanhuiaiqing?ganqinglichukailanman，yeyoushenghuo。ganqingcunyouzhe1gexingfudejianju，jiushishuozaifenbiexiai、yilailingyifangdeqiantitiaojianxia，nenggouzhaoguzijideshenghuo。zhenshideai，shijilingyifangchanshengkaixin，shijilingyifangchongzudesuiyi。ruguoaiqingruguokuayuezheiyijianju，jiuhuijirenyizhongpijuan，zuihou，lingyifangtiaoxuanlefangkaishou。yinci，yingduifenshouhoudeni，shoulongnideyanleiheyangqiu，nibixuzuodeshigenggaiyiqiandeguoduoyikao。

 fenshouzhihou，dahuoerzaoyigebendongxile，jibiannibuyuanrenke，danshishiruci。xuduorenxiguanxingzaifenshouzhihouguanxinlingyifangdedongtaixing，neiyangdegerenxingweizongshishinizaishiliandetongkulibunengziba，gengweizhuiyiyiqianlianqingshizhuduodehao，jinerjiazhongduitadeyilaigan。yinci，zheishitichufenshoudeni，qingbiechangshiquguanzhulingyifangderenhe，nibixuzaicichuangjianzishendeshenghuo，xuehaodandu。

fujianshenghuobaohanxialiehaoduogecengmian：

 zhaoguzijideyinshiqiju。yiqiandenijiaruxiguanxingbashenghuoshangderenhedoujiaodaotajiejue，neirujinnikeyixuehaozenyangquqingxizishendeshenghuo，pengdaonantibubizhidianjizheqiuzhu，zishenhaiyaoxuehaoxiangfangfachuli。birunizhiqianxiguantahuizhaoliaonidesancan，neirujinnikeyixuexipeixunpengzhi，xuehaozishenzuoliangsangecai。

 tuozhanweixinpengyouquan。xuduonvhaizailianqingquanguochengzhongyulaiyuyikaolingyifang，lingwaiyeyouyunanpengyouhuijuepenyoudeyaoqing，rangzishenzhujiandujuepenyou，shenghuoyeyuelaiyuejiandan。rujin，niyibubixujinjinweiraotazhuan，nibixuzaicifanhuipenyoudehuaili，duoyulaoyoulianluo，yeduochupengxindepenyou。ruguonideshejiaoquanzizengdahou，nijiuhuifaxianzishendejizhongzhuyilimeiyouzhinengta，zhujianjiejueleyiqiandeguoduoyikao，erqieyeyiwanglefenshouhoudetongku。

 xuehaoxiangshourensheng。fenshouzhihou，nikeyixuehaobazishendeshenghuofengfuduocaiqilai，quzuoniyaozuodeshi，qushizhexinxiandeshiqing。biruninengshizheyixiaxiajixianyundong：bengjitiao、panyanyundong、fuqianzheixie。zheileicijixingdejianshenyundongnenggoushinizaishenghuodegongzuoyaliheshiliandetongkuzhonghuodeshiwuqianlideshifangyali。huoshi，nihaikeyiyuesan、wupengyouqupinweitediandetesemeishi、shoukanxijupian、yingpian......xiangshourenshengdefangfayouxuduo，fenshouzhihoudeniqiewuzishenfengbishi，yaoxuehaojizijideshenghuozengjiayanse。

 ruhewanhuinanrendexin?henxianzhu，ruguoyigenvrenhaibuzhengquerenshiguoduoyikaozhenduiqinggandeshanghai，zaibeifenshouzhihouyirancunzaizheileiqianjiaguannian，xiangwanhuinanpengyouhuishifenfeijing。tatichufenshoudeyuangudejiushishuonvxingyouyuguoduoyikaoguoduyikaonansheng，tayanfanshishikekezhaoliaonvpengyoudeshenghuo，bujiuzhengzheiyiwentizhonghuoganqingjiuzhiyoushixiangxiang，meifabianhuaweishiji。jiaruzhenxinshiyixiangyaohenanpengyoufuhexing，jiuxianconggaizhengguoduoyikaogangkaishi，jianjiandirangzishenchanshengzhidebianhua，caikeyijiandaoganqingdeshuguang。