挽回男人不可以盲目跟风

 aiqing，meiyouyifanfengshundeshihou。liangrenzhangshijianxiangchuzaiyiqi，douhuiyouchanshengmaodun，zhengzhi，naizhixiangyaofenshoushi，neima，ruguonijuededaoqingganhaoxiangyaoxianrujuejing，nanpengyouduinixindan，naizhiyibuaizhenishi，nvhaigai=ruhewanhuinanrendexin?wanhuidezuofabukeyitaimangmugenfeng，bixuyaoqingxizaixiangchuquanguochengzhongzishendenanti，suihouduiyunantiqugaibianxianzhuang，neiyang，wanhuicaihuiyoushijixiaoguo。zenyang wanhui aiqing?

yi、zaochengnanpengyouxindandeyuangu

 weihetabuhuiainilei?huoxutajiushishuodianxingxingdewaimaoxiehui，nibingbushitaxiaidezhonglei，yincitataoyanni;huoxushitaxinliyeshiwangbudiaoderen，yincibukeyizaikongchushineikongjianlaizhuangxiageni;huoxujiushinideyixiecengmian、quexiantahuijienabushang...neimeduoyuangu，wojuedenenggouyongyiduanhualaixiaojie：niyouhuolibugou。youyuyouhuolibugou，zaigangkaishiwoyebukeyijitamenliuyoukegumingxindeyinxiang，nibukeyijitamenchanshengyuzhongbutongdeganshou，yincitabuhuiaini。zenyangwanhuiaiqing?

 weihetabuxihuannini?dajiayiqianzaigongdu，queyouyulingyifangdejijuruguobuaileerfenli。ruguobuaile，tongchangbaokuozheduizheixieqinggandewukenaihe。huoxushireliandetianmeizhujianbeifaweitidai，zhengzhimanmanqudailegoutongjiaoliu，zhengchaorangdajiadoushiquxixin;huoxujiushinizongtahuitihuidaogongzuoyali，lirujingchangtongdianhua、faxinxixiangyaozhidaolingyifangdexingji，tahuimeilegerenkongjian;huoxushiwaibudeweihairangdajiafenlile，lirubabamamadizhi...zheizhongdounengxiaoqiandiaotaduinidexiai，yincitabuxihuannini。

 quanbufenshouliyouquanshijiade。sanguanbuhe、xintaibutaihao、meiganjue、babamamabuyuanyizheixiequanshituoci，tichufenshouyuanguzhineng1ge，jiushishuoyouhuolibugou。jiaruoyixiaxia，dangnichongzuyouyouhuoli，nideyiyanyixingduitaeryanquanshitaorenxihuande、zhixingyouyade，nidequexianzaitayanzhongquanshishanshanfaliangdeshanguangdian，neitahaihuifouaizheni? qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan!

er、rangnanshengdichudexiangchufangfa

 yixielianrenzailianqingzhongyizhiyibuchenggongjieshude，weishaqinggandefazhanqushihuanjie，yixielianrendeqingganyulaiyuxingfukuaile，suihouzuyijieguoshi，eryixielianrenyizhipanghuangzaiqingganweijidebianyan，lianggerenzuihouyuelaiyueyuan，zaochenghunyinpoliedegerenxingweiyoushenme，zenyangdujuezheizhongbuzhengquedexiangchufangshi?

 yizhizaizhengchao。ruhewanhuinanrendexin?nannvpengyouchaojiabingbushichedishicuoshi，youshinannvpengyouchaojianengrangqingganzhongdefenqihuodelijidejiejue，danglianggerendoubazishendexinlixiangfashuochuqu，nengranglianggerenleijichulaideyuanhenhuodeshifangchulai，lingwaihuodelingyifangdeyuanliang，rangqinggangenglaogu。keshilianggerenyizhiwujiezhidizhengchao，tashiqingganxiaoshideyuzhao，youshitiaodongshiduandelingyifangjinjinxiangranglingyifang“beitaotai”，nikeyifenbianzaochengqingganbuduanzhengzhideyuangushisha，conggenbenyuanyinshangchuli，fangzhiqingganmaixiangbunengwanhuidechengdu。

情感的努力错误等。

 guofenyikao、guofendandudoubuliqinggandefazhanqushi。yixierendaolianqingzhongxiguanxingyikaolingyifang，naxieshierbixulingyifanglaijiejue，zhangqixingneiyanghuiranglingyifangjuedetinglei，eryixierendaolianqingzhongzhuyaobiaoxiandetaiguodandu，youhuiranglingyifangganjuenibingbuzaiyizheixieqinggan，yincilianqingzhongdeqingkuangshishidangyikao，weichidandu。rutongshuoguo：“shidangdeyikaonengranglianrenjuededaoniduitadegaoduzhongshi，erxiangduixingdedandunengranglianrenlejieniyeshi1genengduizijifuzederen”。

三、如何修复关联

 zhenduiaiqing，yiwangerenzongyouyiqianbaizhongdeniantou。keshi，yaotanqiuchuzuiheshibicideaiqinghexintainianqueshishifenjiannande。renquanshiduomianxinghuisisuodexiaodongwu，bingqierenmendexintaiqifuzaishenghuozhongzhuanbiandetingda。neimazainannvzhijian，renmenyaoruhequkandaibici ruhequxiangchunenggoubaochipingwenhezhangqini?

 xiangyaozhangqixingfazhanqushi，jiuxiandiuqicaiji。jianxinxuduonvxingchangyouduinanpengyouchiguocu，youxierenjianghuihuixinliananqifen burongyizhuyaobiaoxiandeguoduxianzhu yehaipashuochuqu;neiyangbushikeyongde，zheileiniantouhuizaochengnizishendanfangdexinfanyiluan naizhihuiweihaidaonizishendeshenghuohelingyifangdeguanlian，caijishilianqingzhongde1gejihui。

 zhangwohaozishende“du”。 yeshixuduonvhaizaixianmubuzhideshihouhuihuomaosanzhang，bashoujishang diannaoshangfangebian yaoshiyouyidianerzhenxiangjiulikecheshangguanlian tongma。zheileiniantouzeshihuibaqingkuangyuelaiyuejilie，badajiadejianjuyuelaiyueyuan。wojuede，xianmubuzhishinanrennvrenxianyoudezhipeiquan keshizhongyaoshiyaokanzheniruheshiyong，qianwanbietaiguodimanbujiangli hubianluanzao，yebubibiezhubuyongshuo。ninengshidudidiaozhengzishendexintai，zaizhaogejiyuhaohaohelingyifangliaoyiliao liaotianer，xintaibubiguoduqiangshi，helixingdijiejuenanti，zhangwohaozishende“du”。

 mingbaixianghudeyaoqiu，shizhangjiufazhanqushidejishi。youderenjianghuixiangchule10nian，20nianhuanshibukeyichedimoqinglingyifang，zheiwojuederenzuiquweide1getexingqiyi bianhuamoce。keshibingbingbuyidingderendounengjienaneiyangxiangchufangshi，niyuelaiyueyueda lingyifangjiuganjueniyuenanxiangchuxialai zheiyejiyoukenengbianchengdajiafenlideyuangu。yinci，mingbailingyifangdeyaoqiushihenguanjiande，jiusuanjinjin1gebudadeguanjiandianlingyifangdoushiganjue;niruheneimezhangwowoya!neixinmianhuijuedehengaoxing。rutongganqingzhuanjiakangnachangshuo;“yaoqiuganshinenggoushijicaozuode。”yinciyoushiguanjiandiannenggongxianziji，yekeyihuileziji guanjiansuozainijiujingdongbudonglingyifang lebuzhangwolingyifang。

 xiangyaogenggainanpengyouduinixindandejuede，nvhaizuixianyaozuodejiushishuoyaolejiezishendenantizainaer，suihouduiyunantiqugaibianxianzhuang，tigaozijideyouhuoli，erbingbushiyangqiu，sichan，huoshishibaoyuan，yifushouhairenzishi，neiyangzongshiranglingyifangganjuenideshiyongjiazhigengdi。