好久没联络如何挽回男人？

 ruhe wanhuiqiannanyou ?fenshouzhihouyouyiduanshijianmeilianluo，hainengwanhuinanyouma?yaoshilingyifangdouhaimeixinnvyou，quanshinenggoujiancewanliudegailv，shenhuacaiyongwanliuxingdongde。ruhewanhuiqiannanyou?

一、检测联络

 jiancelianluoshiwanhuiganqingquanguochengzhongguanjiande1gejieduan，jiancelianluodemudishiyibianzhangwolingyifangxianjieduandexintaizhuangtaiheduinidexintai，yeshigenjujiancelianluogengqiangdezhangwowanliujihui。ruhewanhuinanren?

 ruhewanhuinanren?danjiaruzaibuzhengquedeshijianyonglebuzhengquedefangfakaizhanjiancelianluo，zehuishishixianzuodetiqianzhunbeidoufuzhudongliu，duiwanliudaozhizulan，yincijiancelianluodeqiadangshijicaozuoyouweizhongyao。

二、复仇者联盟后想以盆友真实身份交往

 jiranzaoyifenshou，neimadajiajiubingbushilianrenle，dajiajinjinyixingpengyou，neimawoyewubiyingyi1geyixingpengyoudexintaizhuangtaiquyingduilingyifang。

 jienakeguanshishi，lianghaodexintaikandai。yixierenjuedeguanlianconglianrenbianweiyixingpengyou，neixinhuiwufajiena。wojuedebianweiyixingpengyou，shiyibianercixiyinzuotiqianzhunbei。

 jiranshiyixingpengyou，neimawoyebuyongquhonglingyifang、xianglingyifangbiaoshu，tongchangbiaoshuzongshiyuemiaoyuehei。buguandajiashidianhuahuanshipengmian，doububipulunidexinliqingkuang，nikeyizhuyaobiaoxianchuyifubuzaihudemoyang，danglingyifangweizheigeqingkuangershuxin，xuehuifangxiafangbeideneishihou，dajiadeguanliancaiyoushenhuafazhanqushideshineikongjian。

三、减少自身的要求感

zenmewanhuizhangfu?　jianshaozishendeyaoqiugan，linshidelengzangzishendeganqing，qianyizishendejizhongzhuyilile。

 bubiyizhiguanzhulingyifangzaiganshenme，bubiyizhizhuyaobiaoxianchunihenzaihulingyifangdejuede，zheizhongquanshibenshenyaoqiuganguogaodezhuyaobiaoxian。dajiarujindeguanlianjinjinyixingpengyou，guogaodeyaoqiuganzongshiranglingyifangyanjuan，buliganqingdewanliu。zenmewanhuizhangfu?

 shangjueceleniyizhizaimeiduanganqingguanlianzhongdeyingxiangli，hexinhuobeilingzhe。yaoqiugandi，bawozhudaoquan;xiangfan，xintaihenrongyibeilingyifangtuidong，chuzaipugong”。