挽回老公有效的技巧

　　wanhuilaogongyouxiaodejiqiao，zaiganqingzhanghezhong，dajiananmianhuichuxiandafengdalang，youshishenzhihuijuedehunyinshenghuodexiaofanchuanjijikewei。dangganqingchuxianweiji，fuqijianfashengzhengzhihejiedishi，henduorendouhuishenxiantongchuhemimangdangzhong，buzhidaoruhewanliuzheiyiduanyiqianzhenxideaiqing。shijishang，ruguozhangwoyidingdefangshi，fuchuganqingyunuli，jiuhenyoukenengranghunyinzhongxinhuanfashengji。xiabian，weidajiajieshaowanjiuhunyindewuzhongyouxiaotujing。

　　方法一：深度交流，调整情绪

　　hezuoshihunyinshenghuodechuangkou，shihuajiemaodunhewentidehexin。dangganqingchuxianwentishi，xuduofuqiyibanhuixuanzelengbaolihuoshizhengzhi，zheifanerhuirangfenqijinyibuehua。ershendujiaoliuzeshiyizhongnenggoushenrulejielingyifangxinlixiangfaheganshoudexingshi。

　　zhaoyigeshiyishijianhedidian，baozhengshuangfangkeyixinpingqihedezuoxiagoutongjiaoliu。keyixuanzeyigejingmidekafeiting，huoshizaijialibuzhiyigewenxindefenwei。zaigoutongdeguochengzhong，yaofangxiazijidepianjianhexintai，naixinqingtingduifangshushuo。buyaojizheqieduanlingyifang，yebuyaojizheweizijibianjie，ershiyinggaijiduifangchongzudebiaoshujiyu。

　　liru，keyixianchengkendishuo：“woqianjitianjuedebicizhijianhaoxiangyouxienanti，woxianghenihaohaoliaoyiliao，kanyixiakebukeyiyiqijiejue。”suihou，nengrangduifangjiangchutaxinzhongqiangliebumanhenanguo。ruguoduifangshuowan，ninengbiaodazijilejiehetihui，liru：“wozhidaonideqingxule，woyiqiankenengqueshimeiyoukaolvnideguandian，rangnishouweiqule。”ranhou，zaijieshaonizijineixinniantouhedanyou，nengrangduifangguanzhunideguandian。

　　zaigoutongdeguochengzhong，xuyaozhuyiyuyandeyunyongfangfa，jinliangshiyongpipinghegongjixingyuyanbiaoda。deyong“wo”dejuxinglaibiaodazijideganshou，liru“wojuedeshangxinyujue”“yuanninengduozhaoguwo”，erfei“nizongshizheiyang”“nicongbukaolvdaowodeganjue”。genjushendujiaoliu，tamennenggoukaiqiduifangdexinjie，tigaobicidelijiexinlai，weiwanjiuhunyindiandingjichu。

　　方法二：反省自我，更改不够

　　ganqingchuxianwenti，bingbuyidingshidanfangmianyiwu。fenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhong，womenyinggaishenshizijigerenxingweihexingwei，zhaochuzijizaihunyinshenghuozhongcunzaidewentihekunhuo。

　　huiwangdajiazhijiandehudongquanguocheng，shenshizijizainaxiefangmianzuodebugouhao。shifouchangchanghushibierendeganshou?shifoutaiguoziwo，meiyoukaolvduifangdexuqiu?shifouqueshaogoutongyulijie?zhaodaowentihou，yaoganyudichengrenzijidecuowu，erqiexiajuexinlaigaibian。

　　liru，ruguoniganjuezishenjingchanghuiyinweigongzuofanmangerhushilelingyifang，neinikeyigaishanzijishijiananpai，duochouchulaiyixieshijianshouhoulingyifang。nenggouyiqiqukanyichangdianying，huoshiyiqizuoyidunwancan，tigaolianggerendeganqing。ruguoniganjuezishenxingzijiaoweikuangzao，feichangrongyigenduifangfashengzhengzhi，neinikeyixuexiyixiexintaiguanlicelve，lirushenxiqi、zanshigaobiedangchangdeng，rangnizaiqingxujidongdeqingkuangxiakeyibaochilixing。

　　gaibianxianzhuangbingbushiyijianrongyideshiqing，xuyaodajiayouchongzudeyongqihexinxin。keshi，weiyoutongguogaibianxianzhuang，caihuirangduifangkanjiannidechengxinyunuli，caikenengranghunyinzaicihuiguizhenggui。

　　方法三：浪漫惊喜，追忆甜美

　　wanhuilaogongyouxiaodejiqiao，hunhoushenghuochangchanghuiyinweirichangdesuosuizhujianbiandepingpingchangchang，qianquereqingyulangman。fenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhong，womennengzhizaoyixielangmanshishikeke，nengrangduifangzaicitihuidaolianaidemeihao。

　　yekeyigenjulingyifangdexihao，jitazhunbeiyifenteshudeliwu。liru，jiarutaxihuanhuashu，womenkeyizaitashengrihuoshiliunianrishijitasongyishumeilidehuaduo;jiarutaxihuanzhubaoshoushi，ninengjitasongyitiaojingmeidejinglian。lipinbuyidingyaohenzhengui，zuizhongyaodeshiyaorenzhen，nengrangduifangkanjiannideqingyi。

　　chukaisongli，hainenggouanpaiyixielangmandeyuehui。nenggouyiqiquyiqiantanlianaideshihouquguodechengshi，zhuiyizheixienanwangdehuiyi;haikeyiquyigemoshenghuanjinglvyou，chuangzaogengduozhuiyi。zaiyouhuideguochengdangzhong，yaozhuzhongxijie，liruweibicidakaimen、lazhuoyi，nengrangduifangkanjiannidetiexinyuguanhuai。

　　yekeyizairichangrichangshenghuozhizaoyixiexiaolangman。liru，zaitaxiabanlehuijiashi，jitatiqianzhunbeiyidunmeiweijiayao;zaitaleideshihou，jitaanmoyixiajianbu。zheixiexiaoxiaodexingwei，keyinengrangduifangkanjiannidewennuanyuqingyi，ranghunyinzaicichongchizhetianmei。