挽回咨询：离婚想挽回婚姻怎么挽回

　　lihunxiangwanhuihunyinzenmewanhui，fangshiyouqianwanzhong，jintianjidajiafenxiangsanzhaohenzhongyaode。

　　ruhewanhuiyigenanrendeneixin

　　一、挽留以前调整自己的心态，控制好自己的情绪

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　　二、思考大家亲密关系中，存不存在这三大使用价值：在精神上、经济效益、性价值

　　zaixinlixuelibianjiang，hunyindeyiyibianshiyiyidehuhuan，hunyinshenghuodexingfukuaileshuiping，zaiyubicisuotigongzheisandashiyongjiazhidaxiao，zaijingshenshangjiushizhidaijirenmenyiqiemeihaoganzhideshuiping，nengyinqizhenglianqingxudenengli，jutishizhinidexingge，shanjierenyi，xindishanliangtinghua，xiangyaoweibicitouru，weibierenzhexiang，yushibuzuo，lianggerennengyouxiaodegoutong。juyoujingshenshangdegoutongjiaoliu，gerenaihao，sanguanyizhideng;jingjixiaoyi，jiandandeshuojiushiniweizheigejiafengxianleshiduoshaozijin，xueli，gongzuozhong，shouyi，fazhanjihui，lvjufangche，jiashideng，zaizheiyigainianlibian，jingjifazhanxinshidainvxingkendingshibizuoquanzhimamadenvxingpengyouyouyoushide;erxingjiazhishiweixifuqiganqingdejiben，nidemeimao，shenxing，chuanzhedaban，jiqisexhemududengdengdoushixingjiazhidefanwei。ruhecongzheisangefangmianqutishengzijidejiazhibianshiniyidingyaokaolvdewanliumiji。

　　三、运筹帷幄百战不殆

　　lihunxiangwanhuihunyinzenmewanhui，gaohaoyishangjidian，houlaijiubixulejiezijizhangfuchuguijutiyuanyinshisha，jiqidisanzhedeshijiqingkuang，zhiyoulejielezheizhongcaikeyiyunchouweiwobaizhanbudai。kandaidisanzheyidingyaocongrongdanding，bukeyiyiezhie。duiyulaogongweishenmeyaowaiyu，niyidingyaoquanmiandelejieqingxi，shiganjuegongzuoyalitaida，jinjinzhishizuoweiyizhongyalishifangchulai，haishizhendeaishangledisanzhe，huozhejiuhoushitai，zheixiedoushixuyaokaolvqingchutadexiangfa，caixingzuochujinyibudexiangfa。