hunyinwanhuinanrenhuayuzenmeshuo,hunyinjiushiyimenshenaodedaxuewen,bixumingbaizenmexiangchu,bujinyaoyouwenrouhaiyaoyoubiaozhun,yiweichihaofuqiganqing。
dangyigenvrenfajuelaogongyoukenengwaiyushi,xuduorenhuitiaoxuanyoukuyounao,jiangshiqingfuzahua。

danshi,bushisuoyounvrendoushiyoudanliangcongtoukaishi,xuduorenhuitiaoxuanchengshouhuoshixunzhaofangfawanhuihunyin。
yiner,dajiabixumingbai,hunyinbushierxi,ruoyouzhengjiudekenengxingshi,yaojiejinquanlixiubu,buyaoqingyanfangqi。
neiyang,laogongxianglihun,womenyinggaizenmewanhuilaogongxiufuhunyinguanlian,shitalangzihuitouni?
一、保持理性,据以往的感情生活,梳理爱情问题所在
neixinbuguanduomenaohuo、duomedeqinao,yidingyaomingbaifapiqizhihouxuyaolizhi。
jiarulizhibuxiaqu,jiuxiangyixiang,yidanchaonaohuoshiduobi,neibujiujileduifangjiyuma?
xianwendingzishen,sisuohunyinlicunbucunzaihenduofenqi,tanxunwentidebenzhi,fanshengzijiyiqianshizenyangchulide。
xuduojijianglihunnvshizhifaxianduifangcuowu,quehulvelezishendewenti。
jilao,zaizeguaibierenyiqian,xiankanyixiazishenshizenyangzuochulaide。

ganqingchuxianwenti,bicidouyouzeren,bukeyiguaizuilingyifang。
wubizhaodaohunyinshenghuodewentisuozai,caikeyixiangjinbanfawanliu,mangmugenfengzuoshishibuzhengquede。
二、加强自我心态建设,要合理性要求,开展破冰行动
zaimianduilingyifangtilihunbingduanjuelianxidianhuashi,shouxianyaozuodeshikongzhuzijideqingxu。
bubinengrangduifangdejuecexianrudaohunluanheshiwang,yaobaochilixinghelixing。
zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia,qingxupingwenyouweizhongyao,youyuqingxudebodonghuiyanzhongyingxiangzishenjueceyuxingwei,zaochengjushijinyibuehua。
jishiduifangjuedinglikai,yebuyaochixiabulai、wanshangshuibuhao,huozhecaiquqitaguojidexingweilaijiuchanbuqinglingyifang,zheizhongzhihuirangduifangyufadichu,jiakuailianxideliekai。
zhiyaoduifangyiranyuanyiyuzishengoutongjiaoliu,neizheishiyigegenggailingyifangduizishenguandiandehaoshiji。

zheishihou,zijideqingxujianghuichengweiquedinghunyinshenghuoshifounengwanliudezhongyaoyinsu。keyishizhetuisongyitiaoxiaoxilaipobingzhilv,biaodazijizhenshitiyanyuxuqiu。
keyizheimeshuoxiangjinneiyangdehua:
“womingbainizuochulejuedinglihun,danzaiwomenxuanbufenliyiqian,dajiayijiushifufu。shiwomenyouhaoxiangchu,bunengrangzheiduanganqingyuelaiyuezenghen。dajiazheixienianzoulai,kendinghaiyouaiqingcunyou。”
pobingzhilvdeyigeguochengkenenghaixuyaoduocichangshi,buyaozheji,manmandelai。
zhiyaoduifangzaicilianluozishen,yidingyaobaochilengjinghexixin,buyaojigongjinlihuoshizhuyaobiaoxiandeyuyiqianbuyizhi。
shizhongjianchizijidelichang,tongshihaiyaolijieduifangdexiangfahetihui。
zongeryanzhi,buguanqingkuangzenmeyangfazhanqushi,yidingyaobaochixinlizhuangtaipingwen,lixingchulishiqing,zheiyangcaikeyinuliquzhengqugengduodekenengxingquwanjiuhunyin。
三、看准时机商谈,进行第一次沟通交流
dangshuangfangkongyuqiexinlizhuangtainingjingshi,shigoutongdezuijiashiqi。
xuanzeyigewenxinshushidejiazuoweigoutongjiaoliudizhi,keyigouqigongtonghuiyi,weihuihuazengjiaqinggansecai。
jiarutaxiangyaodakaihuihua,biaomingtakenyingduini,zheishihounijiuyinggaidakaixinfei,zhenxinchengyigoutongjiaoliu。
jiaoliuguochengzhong,weichipingjingdexintai,fangzhibaoyuanbaoyuanhe。
changshiduolijieta,sheshenchudiweitakaolv,rangtaganshoudaoneixinshenchudeneijiu。
比如,也可以说:
“womingbaiyiwangwobingmeiyoushinilingrenmanyi,woyemeishulihaobangyang,ganqingchuxianwentidajiabicidouyouzeren。wobingbuzhizesuoyouren,yijini。jiarunikaolvdaoliyi,wonenglijiehunyinshenghuoduiyunilaishuoshiyigenandian。dajiajiduifangyigejihui,yitongxiufuhunyin。nibuyaomashanghuida,liyibushixiaoshi,bixushenzhongkaolv。”
zheizhonghuihuabingfeinuoruodebiaoxian,ershiyizhongwanhuihunyindesilu。
zaiaiqingbaoweizhanzhong,youshituihouyibu,henyoukenengnengweishuangfangguanxichanshengjinyibudefazhan。
hunyinwanhuinanrenhuayuzenmeshuo,weitashizhangsisuo,neiniyejiangnenggouwanliu,henduonanshenghuirangzheileihuranlizhierkaifangdetaiduchongmanhaoqi,heguoqumengliedizhidexintaixingchenglexianmingdeduibi,tahuigengweiyongxinsikaonimenzhijiandeganqing。
四、专注于自身,令他再次看见你身上的闪光点
zheiyiduanshijian,buyaozongshiguanzhutahuodezenyang,shifouyougensheizaiaimeiguanxi,shibushijiaolexinmubiao,zheizhongdoubuzhongyaole。
zuizhuyaodeshinimenzhijiandeganqing。
rutongmayilichangshuo:“woweinimishileziji,danruguonilikai,woyirancunzaishuipingzhaohuiziji,zaicizhanfangguangcai。”
nixuyaoguanzhudeshibenren,shizijibaochilianghaodezhuangtai,yuelaiyuegengjiameili。
ruoshiyouyaozoudexiangfa,hebuchuqulvxing,zaipengyouquanfenxiangmeihaodejingli,buyaolaoshifayixiefunengliangdejutineirong。
rangtakandaonibuyiyangzhuangtai,buhuizaiwujingdacai,fanershimeiliwuqiong,neiyangtahuixiangyaogenglejieziji,xiangyaokaojinni。
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