挽回咨询：怎么挽回二婚夫妻的婚姻

　　zenmewanhuierhunfuqidehunyin，ruguonizuishaohenidelingyibanfenkaiguoyici，buranniyongyuanbuhuigaoqingchuaideshenceng。jiarunihenideairenyiqianduanjuelaiwang，bingqiezhengzaisisuo“fenshouzhihouzenmewanhuiwodelaopo”，huoxunikenengmianlinyitiaomanzhanglumian。hunyinshenghuoliangdifenjushiyiduanfuzadeqingganlvtu，tashichanghuipeiniduiganqing、goutongyugerentishengyongyougengqingxiderenzhi。zheiyiduanditoudejieduannenggoubangzhunilejiehunyinshenghuoduinidehaochu。tahaiweinintigongleyigexindekaishi，bingshinizhongxinranqiheqizixieshougongduyushengdexiangwang。yiner，dajiaweinintigongyixiejianyi，shoubashoujiaonizailiangdifenjuyiduanshijianhouheqizihehao，bingbangzhuzijihetagengweiqinmi。

　　shenmeyuanyinzaochengfenlichulai?

　　ruguonigaoqingchuzaochengguanlianshuyuandeyixilieshijianzhihou，shuliheqizizhijiandewentihenyoukenengjiurongyiduole。yixiashuyuyixiechangjiandezaochengfufuguidinglinshiliangdifenjuhuofenjudezhuyaoyuanyin。

　　1.欠缺勤奋

　　hunyinshenghuoxuyaochixuchengnuo，rutongzheigefangzihuocheliangyiyang。jinliangzijintouruhuanweisikao，huayixieshijianpeibannidelingyiban，rangtamengandaozishenhenteshu，bingbiaodanideganshouhekanfa。buran，niyulingyibanzhijiandegehekenengyinfahulvehewufayanyudezenghen。zuihou，zheiyoukenengchengweifuqiganqingpoliedeyigebeihushidezhuyaoyuanyin。

　　2.缺少沟通

　　suoyouguanxideqiantiquanshigoutongjiaoliu。mangliuderichengfenpei、qianqueqingganbiaoxian、qianqueshangxi、qianqueyuairengongxiangrenshengqifu，douyoukenengdaozhijiedi。zheileijiedihuisuizheshijiandetuiyierkuozhang，zaochengwuhui，jinerdaozhifenkai。

　　3.凌虐或蒙骗

　　chuguixingweiherenhefangshidelingnvetongchanghuidaozhiliyi。danmouxieqingkuangxia，airengenjumingquetichuliangdifenju，jizheiduanganqinghefancuowuyifangyigejihui。

　　4.贷币难题

　　qiancaiyoukenengshizaochengguanxiehuadezhongyaoyinsuzhiyi。zheikenengshiyouyuweibiaoshudeqidai、huijishoujinhuolingyibandexiaofeixiguansuozaochengde。zairenheqingkuangxiadoukenengchuxiancaishuiwenti——jishizhiyouyifangyoushouyi，huoshishuangfangdouzaigongzuozhong——yuangugezhonggeyang。gezhongwentitongchangshiyouyuzichanguanlibudanghequefacaiwuyucesuoyinqide。

　　yidanninongqingchulezaochengliangdifenjudezhuyaoyuanyin，nijiukeyiqunulijiangnidenvrenhehaoruchu。

　　liangdifenjuhouwanhuiqizideguanjiansuozai

　　nizhudongyaoqiuliangdifenjuhaowuyiwenshanghaidaonidenvren，danneinixianzaiguanniandaoletadebiyaoxing。ruguonixiangyaoranglaopofanhuiniderenshengzhong，womenxuyaohuodetaaiyuzunzhong。yixiashiyixieduiyuruhehuodetazhongshidetiyi。

　　1.尝试改变自身

　　“youshi，womenzijiderenjijiaowangbuchenggongshiyinweihezijidehebulai。”

　　nikenengyouyixiediqurangnidenvrenjianjianshuyuan。womenxuyaofansizijinalizuocuole，bingjichutianbu。dangtazaoyitihuidaozheiduanganqingdebeishangshi，nimeibanfabitajieshounibenlaideyangzi。bingqie，nikongzhibuleliangdifenjudedaodejieguo。fanguolai，nikeyizuonikeyizhangkongdeshier，jiejinquanlirangtamenfuhexing。

　　迅速提醒

　　zaibuduanwanhuiqizideguochengdangzhong，qingchudilejiezishenxiangcongzheiduanganqingzhongshouhuoshenmeyouweizhongyao。danbiewanglejitashijianyukongjianrangqizijinazhuyi。

　　2.duoyidiannaixinbingnuli

　　zenmewanhuierhunfuqidehunyin，youqianrushen，rangtayouzheshizhangjijizhudongkeguankandainiyunimenzhijiandeguanxi。ninanyichengshoucaolvxingshi，fangengduodeyichang。yucitongshi，yaobuduannuli。rangqijianjiandiyuanliangni，bingsikaozailiangdifenjuqineitazairichangshenghuozhongquefalenaxie。jilao，shijianjinglishijiejuewentilianggeyinsu。

　　3.共享你的情绪

　　jiranyijingkaishirenshidaolaopodecunyouyouduoyouqi，nisinianta，xuyaoxiubupoliedeguanlian，neijiushizhebiaodanideqingyiba。jijizhudongdejiaoliunenggouweinimenzhijiandeguanxidaxiajianshidejichu。zaicigoutongjiaoliubicizhijiandeniantou，fujiannimenzhijiandeguanxi。ninengzhiqian，jiyuyouqing，bingshinizaihuderenzhidaoweishenmexiangtahuijia。

　　shishangbozhuwangxiaoyuanfenxiangletahunyinliyudaodewenti。zaitihuidaobicizhijianzhijiandejulimanmanfangdahou，fuqiliangquedingnuligaishanlianggerendeguanxi。taxiedao：“dajiabaozhengbicizhijiantanchengdigoutongjiaoliubicizhijiandexiangwanghehuanxiang。yikaishiyouxieganga，danzheidequebangwomengenghaodilejiebicizhijian，bingzaijingshenshanglajinlejuli。”

　　4.聆听并改正

　　dajiafenshouyuanyinzhiyiyexushinimeitingtashuohua，doumeiyouzuncongtaanshizhe。yexutaxiangyaonigentashuoniaibuaita。yexutaxiwangnijitadaixienaxie。

　　youshi，henshaoyourenzhidaochuleshenmewenti。rangqiqingtu，zuoyigehaodelingtingzhe。taqingtushi，buyaoqingyihaijihuochulitadewenti。fanguolai，renkenibuzhengque，zhiqian(ruguonimeirencuodehua)，tongshixiangtabaozhenghezhihouburongyizaicifasheng。suoyouzheixiedouhuirangtashiqishiqudedongxizixinxin，gulitafanhuiniderenshengzhong。