出轨后女人怎么挽回婚姻

　　chuguihounvrenzenmewanhuihunyin，hunyanchengzaizheduiyuweilaimeihaoshenghuodepanwangjijihua。danyoushihou，shierbingbushidechangsuoyuan。dangnimendehunyinlaidaoliangdifenjudechengdushi，niyexuxiangyaozhidaozenyangzailiangdifenjuhouwanliunidelaogong。jiarushuangfangqingyuanfuchuqinfen，xiubupoliedeguanlianbushibukeneng。lejieduifangdeaiqingyuyanzhenduifujianzheifenganqingyouweizhongyao。ganqingwenzibiaodaledajiayuyanhejieshouaidechayifangfa。genjuyishidaozheixiechayi，dajiakeyizaihenshencengmianshangshangzaiciqudelianxi。

　　yexunimenlihunle，ganjuezheihuiduidajialaijiangshizuihaodejueding，danhoulainiyijingyishidaorichangshenghuochuxiankumen。danshi，zaitansuohezhangfufuhexingyiqian，sikaoyixiazheileiqipanshibushichengzhi。pingguyixianideqingxu，ruguonijuedehezhangfuzaiyiqideqipanzhenshicunzai，neimejiuquanliyifudiqushixianzheigemubiao。benwenjiangbangzhunikuaisudiranglaogongfanhuiniderenshengzhong。

　　liangdifenjuhoulaogonghuilaima?

　　zheigedaanhenyoukenengqujueyuyulaogongdeguanxileixing、zaochengdajialiangdifenjudeqingkuangyijiniyaoweizhongxindianrancongqiandeguanlianfuchuleduoshaoqinfen。

　　hunyinshenghuoshiyizhongfuwuchengnuo，airenfuwuchengnuogongduyisheng，dankaoyankenengqiaoqiaodifasheng，zaochengwujiehexinlaidequeshi。zaizheiyangdejianxindeqingxingxia，fenlichulaihaoxiangshizaisuonanmiande。yinci，jiarunidelaogongquedingxuanzelihun，bingbudengyunimenzhijiandeguanxiyiqiedoujieshule。

　　mouxieqingkuangxia，liangdifenjuyexukeyirangfufuhuankouqi。bikaibicizhijianyexunenggoubangzhunidelaogongcongbutongjiaodukandaishiwu，bingaixinidepeiban。

　　yinci，yaoxiangzhidaozenyanghenidelingyibanzhongguiyuhao，zuihaoshixiangqingchu。dajiawubixiangyaojijizhudongdichuliwenti，bingnuligaishannimenzhijiandeguanxi。jingxialai，renzhensikaoyixianaxieshinengrangnimenzhijiandeguanxibiandegengjiangu。buyaojizhefujianguanlian。shendusikao，jianjiandiranqidajialianxidehuomiao。

　　pouxidajiaaiqingbuchenggongdeyuanyin。guojiyanjiufajue，taizaowanhun、jiaoliuwenti、sanguanbuhe、lingyibanlingnve、minzuzongjiaochabie、meifagongchuyijiquefaaiqingshizaochengliangdifenjudezhongyaoyuanyin。

　　liangdifenjuhouwanhuizhangfude12geqiaomen

　　dangniqipanfujiannimenzhijiandeguanxi，bingzaifenshouzhihouzhongxinzaiyiqi，nikeyijianliai、rentonghezhongshi。yixiashiyixietiyi，yexunenggoubangzhunishiqiyiwanglvcheng。

　　1.更改我的观点

　　nidelaogongnimenguanxilideyixiewentiquedingwangjiguoqu。gezhongwentihenyoukenengheni、nidelaogong，huoshuangfangxiangguan。gaibianyigerenlaogongdeniantoubingbushinisuocaokong。danshi，ruguoxiwangnidelaogongzaifenchuanghouzhonggui，zuizhuyaodeshinizuochudiaozheng。niyaoshibugaibianzijidexiangfaheganshou，jibianyunilaogongzaiciqudelianxi，niyekenengbunengduinimenzhijiandeguanxizuochutaidadegaibian。

　　yinci，changshicongjijizhudongdecengmianduidairenhewenti。yidanniyingxianglejiaodu，hezhangfufujianganqingkenengbiandegengrongyi。keshi，yidingyaobaochinidegexing。jilao，genggaijiaodubingbudengyugaibianyigerendedutezhichu。

　　一定要记住

　　jiejinquanlifangzhizhongyanjiusu，yinweizheigehuirangnigennidelingyibanyishidaolezuoweifufuyongyuandouhuibuchenggong。

　　2.表现出了重视

　　youshihou，fufujiuhuikaishibabicishizuolisuoyingdang。zainaonuhuojusangdeqingkuangxia，takenenghuiduilingyibanpinxingbuduan，bulijieduifang。meirenxihuanbeimieshi。yinci，ruguoniyizhiduinidelaogongbuheli，neimejiujianjiandijiuzhengnibuzhengque。rangnidelaogongtihuidaoniduitadegaoduzhongshiyuzunzhong，yinweitaranqilenimendeai。jinguanruci，yeyaojideqidaizhenidelaogongyejiyunixiangtongdezhongshi。

　　shishangbozhulinyanfeichangxinshanglaogongduiyutadezhongshi，jiqizheileizhongshizaibicizhijianzhongdezuoyong。tajiang：“tazunzhongwo!woxihuantakandaiwodefangshi，woshuodemeiyijuhuaduitaeryandoufeichangzhongyao。tahuiqingtingwodemeiyitiaodianping、jianyi、xuanzeyuqueding，erqiezaibiaodayijianhuoxiangwomenbiaoshutayexubutongyideyuanguyiqian，huishenzhongkaolvwoshuodeyiqie。wohenxinshangzheiyidian，wowufaxiangxiangruguotabuzunzhongwo、butingwodehua，wokeyiduomedebushufu，duomedexiaochen。

　　3.清楚沟通交流，正视问题

　　zhongxindianranyouqingdoushiliangdifenjuhouwanhuizhangfudeguanjiansuozai。hezuoshiyiduanganqingdejiben。dangairenbuhuizaitaolunlingsuidesuosui、tihuihuolixiangshi，tamenbianhuibicizhijianshengshu。zheinengrangtamenwufagantongshenshoubicizhijiandetiyan，jinerdaozhifuqiganqingpolie。yiner，zhongxindianranzuikaishirangtamenzoudaoyiqideyouqing，zhenduifujiannimenzhijiandeguanxi、xiufugoutongjiaoliuyouweizhongyao。

　　weilenengzhongxindianranhunyinshenghuodehuomiao，bixunulihezhangfukaizhanjijizhudongyouxiaogoutong。gongxiangnidexiangfaheganshou。zhengshiwenti，xunzhaoduishuangfangyouxiaodejiejuefangan。gongtongjiejuemaodunyeyouzhuyudajiajiazhonglianggerendeganqing，cujinbicizhijiandelejie。

　　4.耐心的等待，为他时长

　　zaifenchuanghouhezhangfuzhongxindianranaidehuoyanshi，jinliangjilao，jiyuqiuchenghenyoukenenghuishideqifan。niyulaogongliangdifenjukenengjiushiyinweidajiabicihuoqizhongyifangduilianggerendeganqingguodushenchen。yinci，kaolvdaofuhexingshi，bubijiyuqiucheng。jinidelaogongyixieshijianhejinglisisuoruhezhongxinkaishizheiduanganqing。duodiannaixin，bingnulijianchibuxiedenuli。yaoqingchunidelaogongkenenghaixuyaoyixieshijiansisuocaikeyihuini。zheinengrangtazhenglisilu，bingqiezaizaicijianlilianxiyiqianchuliwenti。

　　5.停止抱怨

　　chuguihounvrenzenmewanhuihunyin，zaishituhezhangfufujianguanliandeguochengdangzhong，nigengbuyuanzuodeshiqingjiushibuduanmaiyuan，bingxunsuhuxiangmaiyuan。yinci，qianwanbiechizele。zaijialimianyingzaoyigerangsuoyourendoujuedebeijingpeideziranhuanjing。tanxunxianghuzhijianchengdaojiyu。ruguonikeyiweichizheiyangdexiguan，nihenkuaijiufaxianzhoubianchongmanzhexingfuyukuaile。shangxilaogongdeshanxing，huianweitaranqidajiaganqingzhongdelanman，bingyouzhuyucujinganqing。

　　6.听她讲话

　　quanxinquanyidiguanxinyigerenyiweizhenigaoduzhongshibingzunzhongta。yinci，ruguoniyizhimangliuyuyigerendeshijiemeiyouguanxinnidelaogong，yincixianzaishishihougenggaizheiyangdeqingkuangle。hunyinjiushilianggerenronghe，yincinidelaogongyuannilingtingta，jiuhaobinixiwangtanengqingtingniyiyang。fujiandajiaganqingzhongdexinlai，nengtongguoweinidelingyibanchuangzaoyigeanquankongjianbiaoshutamendeqingxu，erbuyongdanxinbeipingding，bingjijiqingtingtamen。zheixiebuzhoukeyijidaditigaonimenzhijiandeguanxi。