分手前怎么挽回婚姻的

　　fenshouqianzenmewanhuihunyinde，zaiaiqingshijieli，fenkaihuoguanxibianqianshixuduorendouhuiqinshenjinglidekuchu。ruguonishenaiderenzhujianshuyuanni，naizhixiangfenshoushi，nishibushigandaowuli、jiaolvqingxu，naizhibengkui?shijishang，wanliunanrenxinbingbushibutaikeneng，zhongdianzaiyufangshizhengqueyufou。

　　jinri，wojiangcongzhenxinshiyi、keguan、zhixinglisangeweidu，weinintigongwugehaoyongtiyi，bangzhuzijizaicihuodetadeneixin，rangnimendeganqingzhongjianliming。

　　tiyiyi：lixingfenxinanti，bingfeiqingxubuwendingjiuchanbuqing

　　bushaorenzaimianduifenshouhuoganqingweijishi，diyifanyingshiqingxushikong、buyiburao——chixufaxinxi、tongdianhua、zhiyilingyifang，naizhidiweikenqiu。danshi，zheizhongxingweizhihuirangduifanggengweishuyuanni。

　　weiheqingxubuwendingjiuchanbuqingshixiao?

　　nanshengfanganbeiposhi：guoduodejiuchanhuirangrengandaogongzuoyali，xiayishidixiangtaoli。

　　dijiazhiganshinisangshiyouhuoli：ruguonibiaoxiandeguoduyilaihuodiwei，tazhihuijuedequeshaozixin，congerjianshaoduinidexingqu。

　　nantibeiyangai：qingxuhuafanyinghuirangnimenwufazhenzhengchuliwenti，fandaojiazhongjiedi。

　　zhengquezuofa：lizhifupanzongjie

　　linshilengzhan：jitayixieshineikongjian，yeweizijishizhangsisuo。

　　pouxifenshoudeyuanyin：shijiaoliuwenti?yulunyali?haishizhangqifenqijidian?

　　fangzhichize：buyaoyiweizeguailingyifang，lixingkandaitazaiganqingzhongdebugou。

　　“zhenzhengyiyishangdewanliubingbushikenqiu，ershitongguotazhongxinaishangni。”

　　tiyier：tishengziwojiazhi，shitazaicibeinidadong

　　nanshengbuhuiyinweinide“qiqiu”erhuiguotou，dankenenghuiyouyunide“genggai”erzhongxinyijianzhongqing。xiyinfazegaojiewomen：dangnizhenzhengbiandeyuelaiyuehao，tacaihuizaiciguanxinni。

　　怎样提升自我价值?

　　zishenxingxianggengxin：huangefaxing、xuexichuanda、jianshensuxing，shitayanqianyiliang。

　　fengfuduocaibenzhi：nianshu、suzaochaojijineng(rupengzhi、paishe、chuantongleqi)，rangnideshenghuogengyouhuoli。

　　shejiaoquanzikuozhan：bubifengbiziwo，hepengyoujuhui、lvyou，rangtakandaonidanduyuzixin。

　　为何提升自己合理?

　　jiqitadeduzhanyu：ruguonibiandeyuelaiyuehao，tahuiyiduhuaiyi：“tashifouyouxinyixingpengyou?”

　　dapotadeqiwang：tajuedenihuidiluo，erniquehuodejingcai，zheiyanghuishitazhongxinsikaozishenjiazhi。

　　“bijiaohaodewanliufangfa，jiushirangtazhudonghuiguotouyueni。”

　　tiyisan：zhongjianxinren，yongshijixingdongqudaifuwuchengnuo

　　lianggerenfenshoushiyouyuxinrenwenti(ruzhengzhi、panbian、jiatinglengbaoli)，neiyangdanyidekoutoushangzhiqianshimeiyouyongde。nanshenggengzaiyixingwei，erfeiyuyanxinxi。

　　怎样重建信任?

　　rencuo，danbufanfuzhiqian：zhenxinchengyibiaoshiqianyi，danshibuyaoyizhiqiangdiao“duibuqi”，fanershiyongshijixingdongzhengshigenggai。

　　weichiyizhixing：jiarunidayingjiangdizhangkongyu，jiuxuyaozhenzhenzhengzhengweitasuiyi，erfeizuishangshuozhegai，gerenxingweiyiran。

　　fenshouqianzenmewanhuihunyinde，yongsuoshijidianxinlai：liruzhunshifuyue、duixianchengnuo，rangtaganshoudaonidewendingxing。

　　错误的做法：

　　chixujieshishuomingbianbo：“doushiwobuhao”“neiniyeyouwu”→zheiyanghuishitagengdichu。

　　guoduoquyue：songli、jingchangguanzhu→henyoukenengranghaizijuedeniyizhizai“huilu”ta，bingfeizhenxinshiyigenggai。

　　“zunzhongshiyizhuanyiwachuangjiande，bushikaoleishuidelaide。”

　　tiyisi：shengchanzhizao“shushidu”，bingfeibushigan

　　henduonvxingfenshouwanhuishifandezhuyaobuzhengqueshi——nengrangduifangbeiganyali。liru：

　　“nijiujinghaiaiwoma?”(poshibiaotaifayan)

　　“kebukeyipengmianliaoyiliao?”(jingchangguidinggoutongjiaoliu)

　　“nishibushixihuanqitaren?”(caijihezhiyi)

　　zheizhongxingweinengrangduifangganjue“henizaiyiqifeichanglei”，congergengjiaduobi。