怎么挽回婚姻成功率

　　zenmewanhuihunyinchenggonglv，zixunhunlianwentishi，jibenshangmeiyiweilaopodoucengjingshuoguoleisidehua，meiyitiaodouzangzhehunyinshenghuogeqiandeyinyinzuotong。ziliaoxianshi，chaochu65%delihunsusongzhong，“jiatinglengbaoli”beilieruzhuyaodaohuoxian。jintianjidajiatande，bingbushichizeshifeiduicuo，fanershidanglaogongxinfeijinsuoshi，zenyangyongsanbayaochikaiqigoutongjiaoliudesikou——zheishimeigezaoshouganqingwentidenvxingpengyouzuipoqiexuyaodewanhuizhangfushijicaozuoshouce。

　　一、编解码家庭冷暴力：男人沉默身后的三重心理状态登陆密码

　　1. yali：kunzaixintaikengdaozhongdelaogong

　　zhongniannanrenmeitianzhishaoxuyaochuli12.6xianggongzuomubiao，chao70%derenrenkehuibachuruzhichangxintaidaihuiqu。tazaiqiyebeikehuweinan、beilaobanshijiayali，huijiayihouyingduilaopo“zenmeturanyoubushuohua”dezhiyi，danaohuibennengfanyingyunxingziwofangyujizhi：chenmowuyan=fangzhimaodun=fangfanyishi。

　　changjingfenxi：laogonglianxujiabanyizhou，laopomaiyuan：“niyanlijiuzhiyougongzuozhong!”laogongxinlios：“shuoleniyebudong，hekulangfeikoushe?”

　　2. qingxushuyuan：dang“laofulaoqi”bianweishuxidemoshengren

　　hunyinshenghuojindaodiqinian，fuqiduihuajutineirongshicong“woxihuanni”bianwei“xiaohaigaijiaonaxuefeile”。renzhikexueyanjiubiaoming，zhangqixingquefashendugoutongjiaoliudefufu，naozhongyutonglixinyouguandeqianeyepicengrenqizhijiuhuixiajiang37%。

　　zhimingxingxunhuanxitong：laopoganjue“tabuzaihuwo”→jiangdijijigoutong→laogongjuede“beishoulengluo”→yigenglengdanhuifu

　　3. yulunyali：weiyuhedeshangkouhaizaichixuchuxue

　　yiciweijieshideyebuguisu、yitiaowufashanchudebiaobaiduanxin、yibishuobuqingchudongxiangdezhuanzhang……zheizhongmeibeituoshanchuzhideyulunyali，huidaobicineixinzhongxia“qingxuzhadan”。caigenikejiyixingshuoming，meijiejueshijianjiuhuixingcheng200%dehuiyijiaqiang。

　　zhenshigushi：chennvshifajuelaogongshoujishangyouyixingpengyouheyingzhaopian，zhengchaohoulaogongzhizibuti，cihoudakai“yidubuhui”fangshi。

　　二、黄金沟通术：让冰封的心再次闪烁的三步法

　　fangfayi：feichizeshihuihua——ba“nixinxineirong”bianwei“woxinxineirong”

　　cuowuzuofa：“nizongshizheiyanglengdan!”

　　“nigenbenbuzaiyizheigejiating!”(kaiqilingyifangziwofangyujizhi，goutongjiaoliumashangtingzhi)

　　qiadanghuashumoban：“woshengan(xintaici)+ youyu(shijishiqing)+ womenxuyao(shijiyaoqiu)”

　　实战模拟：

　　✘“nicongbuzhaoguwo!”

　　zenmewanhuihunyinchenggonglv，tianxiezuo“jinqixiabanlekanjiannizongshimangzhegongzuo，woshenganyoudiangudan(xintai)，xianggenniliaoyiliaowomenzuijindexiangchuzhidao(shijishiqing)，nengfouzheizhouliuyiqichuquchidunfan?(yaoqiu)”

　　fangfaer：huangjinqingtingguilv——90%dehunlianwentidoubaizaile“burongyiting”

　　操作说明：

　　buqieduan：yongdiandiantou、muguangjiechuqudaichazui

　　tonglixinyijianfankui：fanfulingyifangguanjianzi+biaoshulejie

　　liubaiyishuzaoxingyishu：shuowanmoshu5miao，jibicizhenglisixudeshijianye

　　案例剖析：

　　laopo：“zuijindenizongduozhewo”(chanshushishi)

　　laogong：“wonaliyouduo”(bianbo)

　　✘laopo：“neinijiushiduole!”(gengxinfenqi)

　　tianxiezuolaopo：“kenengyinweiwobiaodafangshiyounanti，dandequejuededajiapengmianshizhangshaolexuduo”(ziwofansheng+shijitihui)