dangnishenaiderenkaishiduinilengdan,huozhenimenzhijianchuxianlefenqi,niyexuhuigandaofeichangjiaolvhewuzhu。wanhuilaogongdexingaizenmezuo?keshi,ruguonixiangwanhuitadexin,youyixiefangfayujianyinenggoubangzhunikuaisudidachengmude。xiamianjiushiliugejianyi,meigejianyidoubaohanzheguanjiandedian,xiwangnengbangzhunizaiwanhuinanrendeguochengzhonghuodechenggong。
一、了解彼此的需要

zaiwanhuiguochengzhong,lejieduifangdexuqiuheqiwangshifeichangzhongyaode。nixuyaolejietaxiangyaoshenme,xuyaoshenme,yijitaduinideqiwangshishenme。
tongguoshenrulejietadeneixinxuqiu,nikeyigenghaodimanzutadexuqiu,rangtaganshoudaonideguanhuaiheqingyi。tongshi,niyebixumingquezijidexuqiuheqiwang,buyaoweileyinghetaerfangqizijideyuanzehesixiang。
二、建立信任与尊重
zaiwanhuiguochengzhong,jianlixinrenyuzunzhongshishifenzhongyaode。nixuyaorangtaganshoudaonidechengyihejuexin,rangtazhidaonishiyigezhidexinlaihezunzhongderen。tongshi,niyexuyaozunzhongtadeganshouhexiangfa,buyaoqiangjiazijideyiyuanjita。tongguojianlixinrenyuzunzhong,nimenzhijiandeguanxihuigengwendingyujiankang。
三、维持积极的心态
weichijijidexintaishiwanhuiguochengzhongfeichangzhongyaodeyidian。nixuyaozhanxianchuzijidezixinhedulixing,buyaoguoduyilaita。
tongshi,niyexuyaojijidibiaodazijideqingganhetihui,rangtalejienidexinlixiangfaheganshou。bunengrangxiaojideqingxuyingxiangnidexingdonghejuece,yaobaochileguanhezixindexintai。
四、造就浪漫的氛围
wanhuilaogongdexingaizenmezuo?langmandefenweinengzengqiangdajiajiandeganqinglianxiheqinmigan,rangnimendeguanxigengwendingyujiankang。nikeyitongguogezhongfangshilaichuangzaolangmandefenwei,biru:weitazhunbeiyidunlangmandewancan、jihuayicilangmandelvxing、songjitayifentebiedeliwudengdeng。

ciwai,niyekeyizairichangshenghuozhongchuandachuduitadeguanhuaiheqingyi,biru:changchangjitafaxinxihuodadianhuaguanzhutadeshenghuo、zaixuyaobangzhudeshihoushenchuyuanshoudengdeng。tongguozaojiulangmandefenwei,nikeyirangtaganshoudaozheifenaiheguanxin,jinerrangtazaicihuidaonidehuaibao。
五、学会沟通和解决问题
goutonghejiejuewentishiwanhuiguochengzhongbibukeshaodeyibufen。nixuyaoxuehuiyuduifanggoutong,lejiebicidexiangfaheganshou,bingzhaodaojiejuewentidebanfa。
zaigoutongguochengzhong,yaobaochilixinghelixing,bunengrangqingxuguanlitamendexingwei。tongshi,niyexuyaoxuehuiqingtingtadeyijianjianyi,zunzhongtadexiangfaheganshou。tongguoyouxiaodegoutonghejiejuewenti,nimenzhijiandeguanxihuigengwendingyujiankang。
六、接纳结果并向前走
zuizhong,nixuyaojienajieguobingxiangqianzou。jinguanniyijingjinlezuidadenuliquwanhuitadexin,danyoushijieguobingbururenyi。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia,nixuyaomianduixianshibingxiangqianzou。
buyaoguodujiujieyujieguo,ershiyaozhenxizheiduanjinglibingcongzhongjiqujiaoxun。nikeyicongzheiduanjinglizhongchengzhangbingfazhanziji,weiweilaideguanxidiandinggenghaodeqianti。
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