发现老公有外遇后的正确挽回方式是什么

 laogongwaiyu，zhenduinvxingeryanjiuruyitiaoyugukazaihoulongli，nabushangqunanyanqu，zheileitongchuyaobushiqinlinqijing，tarenshimeifaganshoude。faxianlaogongyouwaiyuhoudezhengquewanhuifangshishishenme?laogongyouwaiyuzenme☞ wanhui ?

一、发现老公有外遇后的正确挽回方式是什么

方法一：先不必提离异，先考虑到下家中财政权

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmewanhui?xuduonvxingzailaogongliyideduanshijiannei，jiushishuoxiangxunsuliyi，haoxiangliyijiushishuowanbitongchuhedaobielingyifangdezuilixianghuafangfa，quebuzhidao，liyizhibuguohuasuanlelingyifangbale，liyijinjinsuiyidinalingyifangdebuzhengquelaichufazishen。

 yinweijicongcongliyiermeiyoufanganzhihoudeyishizhuxing，huoxuxiaohaideshanyangfeidoubeilingyifangshuawulai。bingqieqingkuangyanzhongdeshi，xuduonvrenlihunhoucaichajuerengranaizhelaogong，xiangfuhunquebeilingyifangqiaobuqi。yinci，liangzhezhijiandanxintongchu，doubibushangxiankaolvdaoxiajiazhongdecaizhengjushiquanzenyangbawozaizishenshoushang。

 faxianlaogongyouwaiyuhoudezhengquewanhuifangshishishenme?jiarulaogongyouhuigaizhiqing，hebuyikaotafancuowudejiyu，tahuijiaolecaizhengjushiquan，nanderuguomeiyouqian，neimazongrongsatuodepiqijiuhuishoulianxingmouxie。

方法二：先让自身静下心来，找铁姊妹说下借点钱聪慧来

 xianrangzishenjingxiaxinlai，zhaodaodetiejiemeishuoshuoneijiangangadeshier，ranghaoguimidechuchuxiangfa，zhongjiuweiquqiuquandehunyinduizisheneryanyetainaohuo，qinglvliyiduizisheneryanbuheli。

 haosiburulaihuozhe，hunyinyuanbenjiushishuozheizhongnanao，tingguoyiduantongchu，nenggoumairuhaikuotiankong。dangnidehaoguimirangnidetiyixingdetong，neimahebushishikan，zhongjiuzheiyineishihounengwanjiuhunyin，zuishaobuhuisunhaiguoduo。

 youyuhunyinzishenjiushishuozheizhongxiangmutouzi，bantubuguanshisheichechu，quanshiduizheicihunyindefourenhedaobie，nengkeshoudaozuizhongdeyincijiushishuoyoujiandinglixiangxinnianderen，nikeyixiangwanhuibixuyaoquexin，tasuanshiheshihezishenyishengxiangshouderen，suiranlingyifangyouxuduoyoushi，keshinidangchutiaoxuanleta，tayongyounanti，xianrujinyeburongyisuibianqueshuodiujiudiu。

方法三：要刚开始关心老公，并试着去影响第三者儿

 laogongchuguile，zhinengbennvren“yikuernaosandiaosi”，erzhenshicongminglinglidenvxingdoumingbaifanshengziji，sikaoliangrendejiaowangfangshi。

 zailinyutangde《yaomulan》zhong，jiucengxiedaohuamulanzidadangjiadeyihou，youyutaiguolaoliujiawushierhushilelaogongsunya，jieguosunyazaiwaibianyongyou1gemeinvdaxueshengdisanzheer，danghuamulanfajuelezheijianshiqingyihou，yikaishiyeshifenshangxin，keshihuanshijuecezishenlaijiejuezheijianshiqing。

 faxianlaogongyouwaiyuhoudezhengquewanhuifangshishishenme?zuixiantagangkaishidaliangdiguanxinlaogong，qinshenjitamenfengyifu，erqiebuguantaduowanhuijiatajiushizhongdengnitahuijiazaishui。chucizhiwaitahaiquqinshenjianledisanzheer，erqieyi1gejiejiedezhenshishenfenhedisanzheerzuoweipenyou。

 badisanzhejiaodaozishendejiali，zheibalaogongsunyadouhedaole，keshitaquexiangxijieshaoshuodisanzheershitaganglejiedeqinmeimei，bingbazishenzuizhenguideshipinzengjidisanzheer，ranglaogongsunyadangjianzhengren。

 zheiranglaogongwudizirong，zheiyerangdisanzheerjibururen。gengshitadecongminglingliheshanjierenyi，rangdisanzheerquanzidongchechulezheicihunwailian，waidinianshu，jinerzhengjiulezishendehunyin。

方法四：刚开始关心老公和他的体会

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmewanhui?nanshengdoushishifengudude，yinciyebixunvxingdeguanzhuheguanai。jiaruwobuyongxinguanaita，ertazishenyoushifenkongyudezhuangkuangxia，jiufeichangrongyitarulingyige1gejiduanhua。

 yingduilaogongdewaiyuexingshijian，dachaodanaojueduibingbushijiejuekunnandefangfa，ergangkaishigenggaijiaowangfangshi，fandaohuiranglingyifangduinilingyanxiangkan。conglingyige1gejiaoduguancha，laogongwaiyu，biaominglaogonghuanshiyoudianerbenrenfengcaide，keshizheileizishenjingxinpeiyangdenanshengruhejianghuigongshourangrenni?

 yinci，nikeyigangkaishiguanxinlaogonghetadetihui，jineryizhenxinshiyiyingxiangta，tahuiduijiazhonggangkaishizaochengxiuchiganheshiminggan，ruguotagangkaishiyongyoushiminggan，neifenhunyinzuishaotahuanshibuxiangyaofangqide。