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一、 尊重对方的意愿。

 aiqinghuangsiliusha，zhuadeyuejinliushiyuekuai。fenshoushi，nifanyingyuejilieyuebunengliuzhuduifang，fanerrongyiqianghuaduifanglikaideyishi，renmenzongxiwangbeinengshibierennengzunzhongtamendexiangfaheganshou，zheiyuanziyurenxingdejibenxuqiu，lizhidimianduifenshoubudannengrangduifangganjuedaonidekuanrongdadubingqiehuixiayishidijiangdiduinidedichuxintai；nizuochugoutongle，duifangyehuiduinizuochuyidingdefankui，zheixiefankuijishibunengjinxiaoyilv，yekeyizuoweinijiejuewentideyouxiaocankao。

二、适当的冷冻，为你们的矛盾降温。

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三、 提升自己，把自身的缺点改正。

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