吵架了老公不让分手怎么解决矛盾

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一、吵架了老公不让分手怎么解决矛盾

1、相互理解

 shouxiandexuyaozhidaozujianyigejiatingdebuyixing，lianggerenyouxiangshi、xiangzhidaozujianjiatingzheizhendeshiyijiantingburongyideshi。yuanlaiyouyigerendeshenghuobianchenglelianggerenshenzhi3gehuoxuhaishiduorendeshenghuo，zheidangzhongdouxuyaojinxingbuduandemohe，zuihoucainengrongqiadezaiyiqi，yincibicishijiandouyaoxianghubaohanyixie，mingbailezheiyidian，xiangxinhunyinshenghuohuimeiman。lianggerendouyaoxianghulijie，nilijiewo，wolijieni，zheiyangfashenghelaogongchaojiadegailvjiudadadejiangdile。

2、自我反省

 chaojialeganjueyaofenshou，chaoledouyijingchaole，xinzhongdeneiguziqijiranyijingchule，jiexialaitounaojiuyaolengjingxialaile，rizihaidejixuguoa，zheishihouyaoxianziwofanshengyixia，chakanzijiyounaxiebuduidedifang，biru：buyinggaiyichongdongjiusangmenjiukaishidale，rangrenwuhuizijishizaichaojia。

曾经有这么一段感情摆在面前，没有去珍惜。

3、主动的示好

 chaojialeganjueyaofenshou，zijikeyixianglaogongzhudongshihao，xianfangdizijidezitai，zheiyangyebiaominglenihaishixianghelaogongyiqijiangrizijixudejinxingxiaqude，zijikeyizaijiazuoyidaodacan，kaolaoyixiazijihelaogongdewei，ranhouzaimaixiexiaoliwusongjilaogong，zheiyangdezhudongshihao，xiangxinnilaogongjiuhuiyuanliangnide。

4、互相交流

 dangranlou，shangshudedoushiyixiexiaochao，ruoshiyixieguochengbijiaohongdongdechaojia，zheigeshihouni，jianyishuangfangdoulengjingxialai，keyishizhelengchuliyixia，zheigelengchulideqixianzijiyaobawohaole，denglianggerendesixiangdouchengshule，bufangzaizuoxialaijinxingjiaoliu，babicizhijiandegengdoujieshiqingchulejiuhao。