老公出轨了怎么办？教你4招有效挽回

 youqingganzixunzhezixundao，laogongchuguilezenmeban？congmingdenvrenyudaolaogongchuguihainengchenwenfenxi，yongyixieshijianhaohaodixiangxiangzijidehunyin，hezijijiujingyouheqiwangyuxuyao，nijiuhuizhaodaoshihezijidedaan。

一、老公出轨了该挽回吗

 yudaolaogongchugui，dachaodanaoshijinji，tingxialai，duoguancha，duoqingtingzijineixindeshengyin，xiangxiangzijiduihunyinheweilaiyoushenmeqiwanghexuyao，nijiuhuizhidao，laogongchuguizenmebandewenti，nixinzhongyijingyouledaan。

二、老公出轨了怎么办

1、首先要更爱自己

 yueshiyiyueaiziji，zheishiyigecongming，xinshidainvxinggaiyoudexintai。yigelianzijidoubuaidenvren，shimeiyouquanliqudedaonanrengengduohegengjiachijiudeaide。

nvrenyaoxuehuizilian、zixinheziwotigao，yaoshishichuchuxinzhongdouyouziji，bingbushiyumeidibazijizuoweinanrendefushupin。

2、学会占据主动

 laogongchuguizenmeban？waibiandedisanzhexiangbi，yuanpeizaiqinggan、shehuihejiatingshangdouzhanlinglezhudong。congmingnvrenxianghaowanhuilaogong，yingqieji“yiqishiyaren”，dachaodanao，bujinbashiqinggaodenankan，haibazijidezhangfuwangbierenshenshangtui。

3、巧建二次吸引

 gaibianziji，budandanshizhiyaogaibiannipingshidechuanzhedaban。dangranqizishifouduilaogongrengyouxiyinliyeshilaogongchuguiyufoudeyigezhongyaoyuanyin。

 lingwaiyifangmian，gaibiannihelaogongzhijianguyoudexiangchumoshi，gaibianbicizhijiandegoutonghejiaoliufangshi，shidenidezhangfuduiniyouxinderenshi，congerranshaojiqing，ercibeinixiyin。

4、寻求专业帮助

 zaimianduizhangfuchuguizheijianshi，jiarunizhendebunengkongzhizhuziji，juedetiantadixian、jingshenbeishouzhemo，bunenganzhaoshangshudefangfachuli，keyikaolvxunqiuyixiezhuanyerenyuandebangzhu，tamenkeyigenjujutishiqingjutifenxi，zhaochuzuishihenidejiejuebanfa。