出轨老公挽回，真能挽回老公吗？

 hunwaiqingshihunyindefushupin，shixiandaishehuihunyingebianzouqu，hunwaiqingdefanlankunraozhexuxuduoduodejiating，jingyinghunyinbujinjinshifuqierrendewenti，shilianggedajiatingdewenti，duiyuchuguilaogongwanhuigaizenmezuoni，wonengwanhuilaogongma？zhendekeyizhennengwanhuilaogong？xiamianyouxiaobiangaosuni。

一、不要纠缠在这件事上

 duiyuchuguilaogongwanhui，zijixianlengjingdexiangyixiangzenmechuli，tanchengdigaosutanineixindeganshouhexiangfa，kantadefanying，yaoshuofuzijixiangxintadehua，buyaoqugenzong，yebuyaoyirenhefangshiquzhaozhengju，zheidengyuzinve。hunwaiqingbenshenyougeguilv，qiansangeyueshirelianqi，nihennandaduanta，zheigejieduanjingong，hunyinhuimaohendadeweixian。ganqingdeshijiandancubaoshijiejuebulede。bannianyihou，nanrenzaihunwaiqingzhonggengyuanyizhaogudaohunyindeliyi。ruguozheigenanrenhaiaijia，yaotadehunyin，yibanliugeyuedaoyinianjiuziranjieshule。

二、不要去找那个女人谈判

 xiandaidedisanzhedadoulizhiqizhuang，tahuishuonilaogongduoaita，shenzhihuibaolutamenzhijianyouduoqinmi，niquledengyuziquqiru，yinweizuodisanzhepohuaibierenjiatingdewangwangdaodeshuipingdixia。niyebuyaogongjizheigenvren，bianditadengyubiandizhangfuderenge，huiyinfazhangfudefennu，jianshaotadeneijiu。

三、不要到处宣扬

 jinguanlaogongchuguile，danduizijideshehuixingxiangbijiaozaiyi，tahuiyoujiaoqiangdeziwobaohuyishi。ruguowairenzhidaotayouhunwailianqing，weilebimianbierenshuotadaodebaihuai，tahuizhudongtichulihunzhengmingzijiyuanyoudehunyinshitongkude，meiyouaiqingde，youqishiguojiaganbu、gongwuyuandengyoushenfen、diweideren，weilezhengmingzijideqingbaishi”shouhaizhe”，erxuanzelihun。

四、丈夫的婚外情不要随便告诉家人

 youqishiniangjiaren。yilaibimianrihouzhangfuhuizhangrenjiaganga，nibudanyaoxiufufuqiguanxi，haiyaoxiufutayujiarendeguanxi；erlaipaniangjiarenchumianbaofu，dangshishichuleqi，kezijipeilefurenyouzhebing，hunyinmeiyoule，qiancaimeiduona，haidepeiyiyaofei。gengbuyaodaodanweiqunao，quzhaolingdao，zheiyeshidaozhihunyinpoliedewuxiaoxingwei。

五、不要效仿情人的样子对老公过分地好

 zheiyangrangtabushufu。keyihedisanzhelaigezhihuidejingzheng，buyaokukutiti，yaoduizijiyouxinxin，taiduyouran，tajiumengle，buzhinihululimaideshenmeyao，ziranhuishoulianzijidexingwei。

六、不要以牙还牙

 zijiyequxunzhaohunwaiqingyibaofuhechengfapeiou。qishizheishichulihunwailianwentidezuiyuchundexingjing。shiqingbiandefuza，shezurendouranzengduo，bujinwentibunengjiejue，liangrenguanxihuigengjiaehua，erqiebengaishuyuzijidequanli，rujingjifangmiande，daodefangmiande，yehuiwanquanxiaoshi。zijisunshicanzhong，haiyixiaodafang，wanbukequ。

七、不要轻易有成人之美

 laogongyoulewaiyu，henduoqingkuangxiashikeyihuitoude，buzhijiatingpolie。ruguonizhudongfangqihunyin，neimejiatingpoliebukebimian，rihouzuibuxingdeshinizijihenidehaizi。wugudehaiziqishishilihundeshouhaizhe。nideqinglvhuihailehaiziyibeizi。yaoyoujuebufangqihunyindexinxin，zheiyangbujinrangzijiyougengdadekongjianqunuliwanhuiaiqing、hunyin，erqiekeyirangbeipanzhehedisanzhechuxianguanxiweiji，shidisanzhequyusixin。

八、要学会宽容，以退为进

 zhangwolezhengjueryiweijinbi，benxiangrenshicuowudelaogongyehuibunaifan，rongyiyibuzuo，erbuxiu，yunichedijuelie。wonengwanhuilaogong，cishi，ruguobaichukuanrongdezitai，zejiaonengshitayoukuijiugan，shenjueduibuqini，burenxinzaishanghaini。zheiyangwuyihuizengjiashiqihuiguidexiangxinli。ranhou。lianggerenkeyiqizhaogehelidefangshibazijishoudaodeshanghaiheweiquxuanxiechulai。

九、最明智的做法是“出口转内销”

 hefengxiyudijiaoliusixiang，jiejuewentizhennengwanhuilaogong。huiyidangchu，naduifuqidouyouyiduanlingrentaozuihexiangwangderizi，zhishishijiandezhangyuduaneryi。jiantaodangqian，fenximaodunyuchongtudegenyou，geaoziwopiping，zhanwangweilai，tantaofuqizhongxinqihedetujing，zheiyangzuodemude，zaiyuyongjiabeiwennuandexinquhuanhuiduifangdelisanzhixin。yibanlaishuo，jiangxinbixin，yixinhuanxin，jingchengsuozhi，jinshiweikai。jinguanhunwailianshiganqingchire，dantadeneixinshizhongweizuieganhexiuchigansuorao，zhiyaojietidalao，tamenshihuixialoude。

十、利用公婆威信让他收心

 shiyongzheiyizhaodeqiantishinigengongpodeguanxibixufeichanghao，haodaogongpokeyizhanzainideyibianbangnijiaoxuntamendeerzi，ruguoguanxiyiban，yongzheiyizhaohaishiyouhendafengxiande，youkenengtamengennilaogonglianshoushunshuituizhoujiubanijiqingchudiaole。jiarunigongponenggougenniyitiaoxin，neime，nikeyizhijiezhaodaotamen，kusuyehao，nusuyehao，batamenerzichuguihepituidechouexingjinggaosulaoren，yibanlaishuo，tamendouhuixiangdao“jiachoubukewaiyang”dezuxunhekanzaisunbeidefenshangjinkenengbangnide。dangran，ruguotalianzijifumudehuadoubutingle，duifumudequanzubuxieyigu，neime，zheiyangdenanrenjibenshangyijingmeijiule，jiusuantazaizenmehuohainiyedoumeiyoudixianle。

十一、想方设法直接勾引她爹

 zhiqu“disanzhe”zuihendeyizhaojiushizhijiequgouyintalaobale，“niganweidisanzhegenwolihun，wojiuqugouyintadie，daoshihounihaideguanwojiaoma！”cizhaosuiranyinledian，danyeshibeibide，jueduikeyiqidaozhenshezuoyong。shixiang，jirantakeyiseyoubiedenanren，zuoweinvren，niweishenmejiubukeyizhuanzhaotalaobaquseyou？erqie，zheiyeshiyishierniaodezhaoshu，nilaogongsuirankeyisiwujidandizaiwaimianqupituichuguiwan，danshi，zuoweinanren，tadeqiliangzaidazongyedabudaoyunxulaopojizijidailvmaoziba？ruguotalaigansheni，nahao，zanmendajiashouxinhuijia，yaoburanjiuniwannidewowanwode，xianghuzhijiansheiyebielaigansheshei，ruguotazuodedaozheiyidian，shuomingtazhendeyijingbuzaiaini，duiniyidiandoubuzaihule，zheiyangdehunyinyouhemeiyoudouyiyibudale。