离婚后，如何挽回老公？

 dajiadoushuohunyinshiaiqingdefenmu，dequeliangxingguanxizaihunqianhehunhouhuichuxianhendadebodong，zaizheigeguoduqiliyouhenduorenxuanzerentonggeaidefangqileyiduanhunyin，dangzijidelaogongjuezefenkaizijideshikewanhuilaogongdexinqingshizenmeyangde，lihunhouwanhuilaogonggaizenmebanni?jiexialai，youxiaobiangaosunizenyang wanhuilaogong ，ruhewanhuilaogongba？

一、换位思考，了解彼此

 zenyangwanhuilaogong，fuqiguanxiruojiruolizaimouxiecengmianlaijiangjiyiweizhenimenzhijiandeganqingchuxianleyixiewenti，lianggerenshenghuozaiyiqineimejiu，youxiewentiyeshihenzhengchangde。xiangyaolihunhouwanhuilaogongdexin，conghuinvrenmianlinzheileihuanjing，changyinihuanweisilvyixia，duozhanzaiduifangdejiaoduxiangwenti，ruxunenggouzanzhunigenghaodongdeduifangdexiangfa，dongdeduifangxintaidefuqiguanxinengligengxiediao。

 qiejizailaogonggangtichulihundeshihoushiqulizhidechaonao，zaizheigeshihoubufanglengchuliyixia，xiangrangzijilengjingyixia，huanweisikaoyixiaruguonishinilaogongciketadezhenshixiangfashishenme，yexutaweibishibuainile，henduorendehunyinpoliebingbushimeiyouganqingle，henkenengshiyishichongdongzhixiadekoutouzhikuai。

二、学会宽容，堵不如疏

 henduorenhunhoujuedelaogongduinimeiyouzuichuneimehaole，danqishihunyinheaiqingshilianghuishi，jiehunyihoulaogongshenshangdedanzihuizhongxuduo，tabiyaoyingliyangjiayebiyaochengdangjiatingyiwu，guranniyefeili，ranzemeigerendouyouzijidexiangfa，wanhuilaogongdexinqingxuehuikuanronghedongde，duitahaoyidian，tayehuidongdedaide，huigengainide。

三、注重沟通，切忌伤人

 fuqijianjiaoliubibukeshuo，jiaruliangrenxiangduiwuyan，neirucidefuqiguanxiyeshimingbufushi。xiangyaowanhuilaogongdexin，goutongyeyaojiangqiuxiaoli，youxiaogoutongshizengjinfuqiganqingzuijiadecuihuaji。zaipingchangxiangchuguochengdangzhong，jiusuandamayeyaoliuyibunengcaidaoduifangdixian，yidanchaochuleiqufuqiguanxijiuhenyoukenengshoudaosunhuai，biedeyouxieganqingweixidejiqiaonizhaoyangbiyaoxiaodeyixiede。

四、经营好婚姻家庭

 ruhewanhuilaogong，hunyinjiating，erzhexiangfuxiangcheng，hunyinguanxixiediao，jiatingshengchengyuanyehuigaoxing;jiatingguanxihemu，hunyinganqingnenglibushouyingxiang。xiangyaowanhuilaogongdexin，rangtaduinihao，nvrenzuijiaconghuidejingyinghaojiating，duitadejiarenhao，rangquanbujiatingguanxixiediaohemu，ruxutahuigengainide。

五、提升魅力，注重修养

 conghuinvrenxiangyaowanhuilaogongdexin，yibandoubuhui‘zhengmianyingdi’!tishenggerenmeilizheishiliuzhunanrenxinhenhaodeyigebanfa。meiliderongmaonanrenguranxiai，danshiwanwanbiefuqiandegandaozhiyaomeisenengyinyounanren。chumeisewai，piqi、pindemeilidengdengdoushinvrenxiyinnanrendezhishengmiji。yigeconghuidenvren，xiangyaoliuzhunanrenxin，yidingxiaodeshikebaochizijidemeili。

六、寻求帮助，专业介入

 ganqingdeweihuhexiufubingfeijiandandefenfenhehe，ganqingshijingbuqijicizhetengde，youqishizaipoliezhihouzaiqufuhehenduorendouhuiyinweishenzaiqizhongerbuzhidaoruhequzuo，haikenengshideqifan。zaizheigeshihouxunqiuzhuanyeqingganrenshidebangzhuhejierushihenyouxiaode，qingganzhuanyerenshidefengfujierujingyankeyibangnibimianhenduowuqu，kenenglihunhouwanhuilaogong。