教你如何挽回老公的心

 zenme wanhuilaogongdexin ?meigenvrendouxiwangzijidehunyinxingfumeiman，dandang“disanzhe”chuangruzijiyuanbendehunyinshenghuo，zonghuiyoubiaoxiandecuoshoubujihuozhezuochupianjixingweideshihou，yincihuishiyongyixiecuowudefangfalingjumianjiajuehuashenzhizuihou“disanzhe”shangweichenggong，qishizheishihoujiuhaobiyichangzhanzheng，xiangyaobawaidijituijiubunengziluanzhenjiaohaiyaoshiyongzhengquedecelvejikezaizheichanghunyinbaoweizhandangzhongshengchu。neimejiexialaihexiaobianyiqikanyixiahuazhenqingganzhuanjiazongjiechulaidesizhaoguanyuruhewanhuilaogongdexin。

一、找出并改正自身问题，适当学习第三者的优点

 nishifouyouxiangguonilaogongweishenmehuichugui?zhendezhishitayigerendewentima?suhuashuodehao“yigebazhangshipaibuxiangde”。yaozhidaozhiyoudangyigenvrenbunengmanzunanrendexuqiushihou，tacaihuizaiwaimianzhaoqitanvrenlaimibusuoqueshide。

 renzhenxiangyixiangnishifouyoujiyutayigejiatingyinggaiyoudeganjue，shifouyoujiyutananrenyingyoudezunyan，shifoumeiyouzhuyizijidedabanrangtaxiangshoumeideganjue...cangyingbudingwufengdejidan，yexuzhengyinweiniqueshaozheixiecaihuirang“disanzhe”youjikechen。

 zenyangwanhuilaogongdexin，zheishinijiuyaochenjixuexi”disanzhe“shenshangdeyoudianle，congerwanhuilaogong。erqienibunengmangmudiquzenghenta，zhengyinweitayounimeiyoudecaikeyibanilaogongxiyinguoqu。

二、扩大交友圈，重塑自己的魅力

faxianlaogongdexinyijingbuzainishenshang，buzaizheigejiale，nizonghuixiangzhezenyangcainengwanhuilaogongdexinni?

 qishinikeyirenzhendikanyixiaziji，rijianfahuangdepifu，zouyangdeshencai，qiaocuidemianrong，shixiangxia，yigerenzhidongzaijiazuojiawudehuanglianpoheyigejidongdedalijiatingzaiwaiyoubushifengcaidenvren，tahuizenyangxuanze?meilishinvrendeziben，dongdejujiadetongshiyeyaoxuehuidabanziji，bingqieyaokuodazijijiaoyouquan，rangzijishenghuogejufengfuqilai，xiangtazhanshizijimeilirengranjuda，zuihoutacaihuibeinidemeilixiyinhuilai。

三、坚守自己正室的地位

 youhenduonvrenzaimianduilaogongchuguideshihou，bushixiangzheyaozenyangwanhuilaogongdexin，ershiyiweixuanzezhudongtuichujiunengranglaogongcunyoukuijiugancongerhuixinzhuanyihuozherang“disanzhe”juedexiukuierlikaizijilaogong。qishinicuole，huoxukeyirangnilaogongyoukuijiugan，danbijingnixuanzezhudongtuichubingqieduifangjiranxuanzedang“disanzhe”jiuyijingduibierendekanfabuhuizhongshi，tahuiyongyixiehuayanqiaoyubanilaogongdekuijiuganyangaiguoqu，ranhoushunlichengzhangdeshangwei。

 suoyiyidingyaojianshouzijizhengshidediwei，rangduifangzhidaonicaishihenilaogongyiqizouguofengyu，jinglirenshengderen，nicaishitaweiyideairen，ruguozheishinilianzijidediweidoufangqidehua，zhendejiuluobaile，zhendekenengzaiyemeiyoujihuikeyiwanhuile。

四、控制自身情绪

 henduonvrenzaizhidaozijilaogongchugui，douhuixuanzequhe“disanzhe”sibihuozhehelaogongdachaodanao，qishizheizhongqingkuangnvrenyouqingxushihenzhengchang，danshinishifouyoukaolvguozheiyangzuodehouguo?ruguoniquhedisanzhesibi，“disanzhe”jiuhuijiangnizheizhongxingweiniuquzhihouzaigennilaogonggaozhuang，congerjiashennimenzhijiandemaodundian，tongshiyehuirangnilaogongzainihe“disanzhe”zhijianzuoyouweinan，huoxudaozuihoutahuiweilebushanghaishuangfangerxuanzezijilikai。

 jiaruniquzhizenilaogong，zheiyangzhihuirangnimenliangrendemaodundianyufajiazhong，manmanditajiuhuijuedetazijichuguishizhengquede。yincizaiguanyuruhewanhuilaogongdexinzheigewentishangnibixuxuehuikongzhizijideqingxu，yexukeyixuanzepingxinjingqidihenilaogonggoutong，buyaozairangqingxushidaojumiandaolebukewanhuidedibu。