不想分手，挽回女友的话怎么说才最正确

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一、认下不正确

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 jiaruyuanyiwanhuinvyoudehua，jiuyidingyaojienanvhaidekushui，jienanvhaiduizishendebaoyuan。bingqiezaijienabaoyuandeshiganwanbukeyifuyanleshizheshuo：haohaohao。zhishichengxinchengyidehuigai，lizainvhaideshijiaofenxizishendebuzhengquedian，neiyangnvhaicaikeyixinlizhenshidexuehuifangxia，yekeyirangnvhaiganjuezishenchongzubeizhangwo、beiai。

二、软硬兼施

 xiangwanhuinvyouyidingyaoruanyingjianshi，zuixianshuoyixienuanxinqinghua，xiangnvhaifadiasichanlanda，nenggoufaxinxiyekebiaodazishendexiangnian，haikeyiyingyongkuroujirangnvhaihenbuxiaxinlai。

 nvhaiyourouguaduanqiexiaihuayanqiaoyu，nanshengnenggouzaiduoyixienvhaidehaotinghuabiaodaduitadeqinggan。“ruan”dekuroujiyongwanyihou，yaoshidudecaiyong“ying”duice，liruturanchuxianzaitayanqian，caiyongyixiexiangjinyulengkuzongcaideyanyu，liruwojiushiburongyilikainide，woyidingyaotaohuini。zheileiyanqingjuneidegushiqingjieyanyukeyirangnvhaineixinxiaoluluanzhuang。danyidingyaoruanyingjianshi，zhinengxianbianruannvhaixinlidefanganganqing，zaixuanyongyingduicelaibiaodazishenxinlidejiandingbuyi。jinjibukeyiyongyixiepianjideyanyurangnvshengganjuedanxin。

三、筹备将来

 meiyigenvhaidouqidai“yuandeyirenxin，baishoubufenli。”yuanyiwanhuita，jiuyidingyaojitajianglaijitaqidai。zaigoutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhongzaiduozhihoudezhunbeihezhengtiguihua，banvshengfangjinzishendezhiyeguihuazhong，neiyangdeshuochuquhuirangnvhaidexinlitianmanqidaikeyixuehuifangxiayiqiandegehe。huoxu，zhengtiguihuadejianglaibukeyiguodukuadaqici，yiqiebixuyikeyibaochiweijiben，jiaruweilaiguihuahanyouqipiandechengfen，neimabujinwufamibunvhaihaihuibatayuetuiyuelaiyueyuan。