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一、 重视另一方的意向。

 ganqinghuangsiliusha，zhuadeyuejinwailiuyuelaiyuekuai。tichufenshou，nifanyingyuemenglieyuebukeyixiyinlingyifang，fandaofeichangrongyijiaqianglingyifangliqudeguannian，dajiazongqidaibeinengshitarennengzhongshitamendeniantouhetihui，zheiyuanyuyurendebenxingdejichuyaoqiu，lixinglumianduitichufenshoubujinnengranglingyifangjuededaonidekuanhongdaliangerqiehuibuyouzizhudijianshaoduinidefanganxintaizhuangtai；nizuochugoutongjiaoliule，lingyifangyehuiduinizuochuyidingdeyijianfankui，zheizhongyijianfankuijibianbukeyijinxiaogulv，haikeyizuoweinijiejuekunnandehelicanzhao。

二、适度的冷藏，为大家的矛盾降热。

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三、 提升自己，把本身的缺陷改掉。

 tishengziji，babenshendequexiangaidiao，shiwanhuiaiqingmiji。zailengzangguanliandeshijianli，nibixugaibiangerenquedian。taduinideweimanshinibixuzuochudegaibian，nibixugaibianbingtishengziji，tahuiguanniandaonizongsuankenrenqingzishen，nizongsuannenghenxiadingjuexinrangzishenbianweigengqiangderen。ertigaozebaohan2gecengmian：waizaihebenzhidetigao。yijuhuacengjingjiangguo：weiyounigaibianlezishen，yiquanxinshengjidewaimaojijishengshulingyifang，ranglingyifangbeidongjinengdijienanidegaibian。gangroubingjihuizhiquanburendouxinxinqilai，huizhimimanzhegengmeilidongrendeyouhuoli,zheileirangrenlingrennanwangdefengcaihuilingnizaiciduoqulingyifangdeningshideyanguang。

 yuanyiwanhuinanpengyouma？dangniyiranwangbudiaoduitadexiangnian，neimanidecankaodaanhaowuyiwenshizhinengyigezi——“xiang”。jiaruxiangwanhuiaiqingdehua，nijiugengyingdangkeguandezhaodaonigennanpengyouzhongjiandaodiyouyushishenmeyuanyinerzaochengfenshou。wanjiuzhongtu，nizongyaozaijiyiliduizheiyiduanyiqiandeqingganyouyigehenqueliderenzhinengli，cainenggougaoqingchudaoneishihoutayunijiaowangdeqingxu，caihuigengrenshiziji，mingbaishenmefangshi caikeyizhenshizaochengwanjiudeshijixiaoguo。