老公离婚该挽回吗？

 keyongxingwanhuizhangfuma,zhangfuliyigaiwanliuma？quanshijiemeiyoumibutoufengdeqiang，wenchongdoubudingwufengpinjiededan。chunsemanyuansuobuzhuyizhihongxingchuqianglai。zhangfudexinnengwanliuma？zhangfuyiqingbieliannengwanliuma？yongwuzhaobangniwanliunanrenxin，nidehunhoushenghuoyirannenggoumeimanxingfu。

一、处变不惊

 congguzijin，nanshengzuitaoyandejiliangjiushishuo“yikuernaosandiaosi”。tamenbujinburongyihehaoruchu，fandaohuiganjueniqueshishimanbujiangli，zhenshixianggehanfu。zhangfuyiqingbieliannengwanliuma，zuixianzishenbixuyaobaichenggaozitai，shouhaobenshendezizun，gaishangxiabanshangxiabangaigenhaoguimiguangjiegouwujiuguangjiegouwu，spameirongmeitibukeyiting。chubianbujingweichizhenjingshishouxian，shurubukeyizaishushi。

二、返躬内省

 congbenshenlaikankaolvkaolvzhangfuxubuxuyaowaiyuni？dangzhangfugangqunijindamenshi，xinhunyanerlangqingqieyiwanbankaixintengxi。danshijiaowangjiulereqingdeshiguangbeilingsuideyishizhuxingdanhua，mouxiexiaonantiyehuishiwuhuabamen，naizhilianpapadouyuelaiyuemeiyoureqing。zhangfudexinnengwanliuma，kanyixianidezhangfushifougongzuopingwen，renyeyulaiyuchengshuqi。zaikanyixiazishenshifoushuhuziwoyueshule，yaoyeculezhuirouyegengweixianzhule，fangfoqueshibianweilexutaoderenlaozhuhuang。zheishirenmenbixuyaojiqingdequjiuzheng，jiqizishendedierchun。

三、知彼知己

 zhangfuliyigaiwanliuma，yaolejiedisanzheershigenaxiederenjiqinizhangfuduidisanzheerdexintai。tashiyizhenzishengxingquwaibianzhaoxuncijixingyongyudiaojiyishizhuxingjinjinfengchangzuoxi。huanshishuodisanzheeryongyouyuzhongbutongdefengcairangzhangfuwufazibanaizhixiangyaoaishangyoufuzhifusheqijiazhong。juedaduoshunanshengyouhuiyouguowaiyudeqinshenjingli，danshitamenquebuxiangyaoliyi。hunhouchuguijinjinzaishenghuozhonggexiaozhutiquerxifushiyongyuguoshenghuode。tamenduijiazhongrengyongyouhenqiangdeshimingganjinjinyoushihouyihuideguocuo。zheiyineishihounvxingdehuodabaorongjiushishuonanshengshidebujiuyao。

四、关心体贴

 shibushinihaozhangshijianyemeiyouguanzhunizhangfule，xiguantawanqiangdemoyang，wangletazaiwaibianzenmeyangnanbunanshou。keyongxingwanhuizhangfuma，zai1gekongxianmeishidelibaitian，ranglaorenxiedaihaiziqunongcunwanzhiliuyoudajialianggeren。zuoyidianertaxihuandecai，tiqianzhunbeiyidianerhongputaojiu。suihoukanjiantadeshuangyanwenroudehetagoutongjiaoliu，tahuisongkaineixindetifang。qingdaoshenchuyongrentilaitanbai，dazirantayehuitihuinidewanliu。

五、佛性挑选

 waiyuzhenduinanshengeryan，ruguobeinizhuodaotahuifeichangdekuijiujiqihuishifendeyuanyitianbu。jiarukeyitawanhuidehuatahuigengaizheni。jitamenguoduanshijiankaolvdaobubicongcongmangmangzuochujuece。zaizheiliqineiniyebubigentazhengzhiheqiliukandai。nidezhangfuyongyuandoushinide，guanzhuzishendenanshengzuiguanjiandejiushishuoguanhaotadeqian。shifoujizhangfuyalidale，youshihoujilingyifangmouxiexiaoyiwaijingxi，rangpingfandeshenghuozengjiaquweixingdajiadehunhoushenghuohuigengxingfu。