欲擒故纵——出轨后的回归

 chuguinanrengaizenmeban？tashijuedaduoshunvxingzaichuguinanrenhoukaolvdaode1genanti，weilebaobao，xuduorenhaihuidianjizhewanhuilaogong。

一、理智

 chuguinanrengaizenmeban？zailejiezishenlianrenchuguiyihou，juedaduoshunvxinghuiyizhibulexinlideyuwangyunaonu，tamenhuiyoukuyounao、nuhou、dadonggange，shenzhiyoulihunle，zaikanbudaozheiyibeipanzhe。kejiaruo，nidebulizhi，nidejiyuliyibugengshijiledisanzheer1gezhuanzhengdingjidejiyuma？yingduiwaiyunan，nvxingbixuyaolizhi。

 lizhidicongbenshenlaikan，xiangzhenanxingzenmeyaowaiyuni？dangnanrenxiangyaoquyigenvhaihuijialedeneishihou，wanbanxiaiyutengxi，danshijiaowangjiulemianbulehaihuiyoumouxieniwei，dabufen7nianzhiyangweijiyejiushunlichengzhangdechuxian，nanshengdegongzuopingwen，nvxingyigerendaihaizibianchengrenlaozhuhuang，fajuerenshengdaoludezhuiqiuwanmeizaina？yincinanshengbiangangkaishizhaoxunxindecijixingjinerzhengshizishenhuanshiyoufengcaide，shirengrannianqingde。zuoweinansheng，yiban heshenpangdedixiongxianliaodeneishihou，dabufenchangyouguohunhouchugui，meiyoudeyefeichangshaoqueyexiangguo。

 chuguilaogonglaopogaizenmeban？xuduonanshengjuedewaiyuyouhunhouchuguideyizhengshizishenfengcairengran，yiner，nanrenwaiyujianghuishinvxingzaoyiguangyinyiburangqisangshixingquaihaole。duoshengchanzhizaomouxiexiaoyiwaijingxi，rangpingfandeshenghuoyibukuzao，jianxinhunhoushenghuohuigengxingfu。

二、若即若离

 yiqianyouguo1gediaoyan，juedaduoshunanshengyouguowaiyudeqinshenjingli，danshitamenquebuxiangyaoliyi。youyuhenduorendoulejie，meirenkeyitidaixifuzheiyiyingxiangli，conghuidenanshengdoulejie，hunhouchuguijinjinzaishenghuozhonggediaoji，shiyongyuwanshua，erxifushiyongyuguoshenghuode，jiaruyoumaodunyebukeyisheqizheiyijiazhong。

 churuzhichangzhong，nanshengmianbuleyaojiaoji，xuduonanshenghuifengchangzuoxi，waiyuyewukebimian，youmouxienanshengwojuedebingbushixiangyaopanbianlaopopanbianjiazhong。zaichuguiyihou，tamenxinliyefeichangdekuijiu。kanjiantarenwaiyufangfohenfengliuyunshihuanle，danshizhenshidaozishenwaiyule，renhequebuxiangxiangxiangzhongneiyangxingfu。yineryeshixuduochuguinanrenhouzhuihuimojide，tamenbuxiangyaozaicifasheng。

 chuguilaogonglaopogaizenmeban？yibufennanshengdelaopozaibuzhibujuezhidaochuguilaogongdekeguanshishihou，bianhuomaosanzhang，shiyuanbennenggouxiaoshihuawudeshieryishunjianshengji，meifajiejue。wojuede，zheixienanshengjinguanwaiyule，danshitamenduijiazhongrengyongyouhenqiangdeshiminggan，jinjinyihuideguocuo。zheiyineishihou，yaowanhuilaogong，nvxingdehuodabaorongjiushishuonanshengshidebujiuyao，tabingbushiwukejiuyao！

三、生产制造热情

 nanshengzaiyinyouyanqianyibuxiaoxinwaiyule，danshitamenbingfeibuailaopobuxihuanjiazhongle，duijiazhongduilianrentamenxinhuaikuijiu。duizheixienanshengeryan，hunyinshenghuoshizheizhongshufu，tamenqidaisuiyi，zhuiqiuwanmeiwujuwushuwujushudeyishizhuxing，yizhiguidingduifangjitamensuiyi。suiyiguanledeta，dangnimeiyoubiaozhuntadehua，tamenjiuhuiyoushijianjiandichulemouxiegui。yinweimeirenlieguanta，lianrendoumeiyoudizhi，tajiuhuiyuxianyushen。zheiyineishihou，qinrendetishikanqilaizhiguanzhongyao。dangnitixingtazheimoyanghuijinihentongchu，yehuiduijiazhongbuliangyingxiang，neimatamenjiuhuiyuelaiyuelaolaoshishide，duizheixienanshengeryan，shizuigaiwanliude。

 waiyuzhenduinanshengeryan，zhibuguoxianglaiqiaoqiaopeichangyixiaxiatadexintaizhuangtai，tamenruguobeinizhuodaotahuishifenkuijiujiqihuishifenyuanyitianbu，yincinijiarubatawanhuidehua，tahuigengaizheni。zhenduiwaiyunan，renmenbukeyiyigunzidasi，zhongjiuyeyoufeichangbufennanshenghuanshizuigaiwanliude。huoxurenmenyaokanqing，waiyunanshichangchangwaiyu，huanshibuzhibujuedeyihuiwaiyu。zhenduineileibawaiyuzuoweijiachangfandenanshengeryan，shiqianwanbukekuanrongde。

 nvxingyingdanglejie，nidezhangfuyongyuandoushinide，pengdaohunhouchuguiwaiyuzheizhongshiqing，buchao，bunao，diandaoweizhi。guanzhunanshengzuiguanjiandejiushishuoguanhaotadeqian，yishizhuxingdereqingtunqu，liangrenchangyouyiwu，gesanchawudeyejilingyifangmouxiexiaoyiwaijingxi，rangpingfandeshenghuobuneimakuzao，dajiajianghuixiangyouxingfudehunhoushenghuo。