挽救婚姻之最愚昧的沟通交流方法——冷暴力

 wanhuilaogongbingbushizongronglingyifangwulun，lingyifangjiubidinghuihouhuimoji，xiangyaofanhuizishendeshenpang。yebingbushishuoyunyongshenpangderenduiqishiyajiunengtahuilaolaoshishijiufan，zhonggui hunyin 。yixielaopoyouyuduilaogongdebuzuzhangwo，zaiwanhuiaiqingdequanguochengzhongfanlemouxiebuyaofandebuzhengque，chanshenglezaicisunhai，zuihoudewanhuilaogongxiachangbujinrurenyi。wanhuizhiluyituozaituozoubushangzhongdianzhan，daodilaopofanleshenmeguoshini?

一、挽救婚姻之最愚昧的沟通交流方法——冷暴力

 wanhuiaiqingshizuiguanjianyinsu，wojuedezhineng1ge，xianliao。zuikaishilianqingshiyouyuliaodaolai，zuihoutichufenshouyouyuliaobushangyikuaier，erzuizhongwanhuiqudechenggongqueyouyouyuliaodaolai。

 fufuzhangqixingmeihua，jiuhuichanshengxintaiwenti，xianghudejiaoliuzhangaiheduihenduoshierdekanfabianhuahenda，erlingyifangchanshenggenggaidanduifanghaiyaoyuandipaobu，neibianchanshengshuobailede“nibuxingwodebufa，niwozhijianshiqujunheng”。

 bingdongsanchi，feiyirizhihan。ruguoniguanniandaodehunyinchuxiannantishi，wojuedezaoyibingbushiyitianliangtiandaozhidele，jiarutiaoxuanzaicilengbaolixialai，bubafenqideguanjianzhaochuqu，zongshibadajiadejianjuyuelaiyueyuan，zuizhongniangchuliyidebuxing。yiner，zuixianyaorenkedajiazhongjiancunyoudefenqi，suihouzhaodaoyuangu，yongxixinchuansongchengxin，zhongxinqidonggoutongjiaoliuhehuihua，xuehaoqingting。

 biru，dangbicizailengbaolijiaozheqingkuangdeneishihou，ninengbofamouxiewenhedegequ，suihouyongpingjingdeyudiaogenlingyifangshuo：“qinaidede，laipeizhewoyongxintinggequhaome?”dangtaxiangyaozuozhelaideneishihou，“renmenliaoliaoba，wohenaini。”zailianqingzhong，nvxingshibixubeizhengqueyindaode，nanshengyingdangzaihunyinzhongyejuyou1gelingzhelingyifangdegongxiao。

 xuehaoqingting，tingtashuohua，bubijitiyi，wennibixunaxie，erbingbushijiaoyutaruhezuo，nanshengquanshiaimianzide。dangqingtinglelingyifangdeniantouhou，yichengxiangdaidegaozhilingyifangnideniantou，qingqingchuchudigoutongjiaoliu，qiewuyingyong“xintaizhanshu”，ranglingyifangcaishizuiyumeidefangshi 。biru，zaitagennibiaoshuzishendeniantouhou，niyingdangtanbainideyaoqiu，niqipanbeiai。

 wanjiuhunyinzuiyouxiaogoutongshiganqingdehuxiangjieshou，buqujueyushuodeshisha。goutongjiaoliudeshijixiaoguobuqujueyujiangguoduozhangshijian，erqujueyulingyifangduirenmenshuodehuashibushihelidedafu。kanjianlingyifangshuohua,yongyanshenjiaoliu。suihouzhenduisuotingjian、guanchadaode，jiyushiduerjianjiemingledefanying，biru：“yuanlaizheiban……”“shi……”jiqidiandiantou，ranglingyifanglejieniyizhizaiting，yehuiranglingyifangtihuidaobeizhongshi。

二、挽回老公的全过程中将会易犯的过失

 mohubuqingshilideyoukuyounao。yingduichuguinanren，tebieshizaishizheixiexingzishouhuanyingdelaopo，zaifajueyiqiannagezishihentanbailaogongjuranganlepanbiandeshi，mengrannuhuochongtian，changchanghuichezhumouyijianshijielidalilaiyoukuyounao，ermeiyicidachaodanaozhihou，nanshengyijiuchugui，pinciduole，shijianzhangle，nanshenghaihuiyi“hunyinpolie”weiyou，zainidetoudingmomingqimiaokouqilaiyigemoxuyoude“zheyangmao”。daoneishihou，niminglejietachuguiyouwuzaixian，quemeifaboquzhoubianrendelianmin，hailuoxialai1ge“hanfu”dezuixing。

 xiangbicilaorenmen“kongsu”。yeyouderendaoyikuernaosandiaosidoumeifadadongzhangfuhehaoruchuyihou，jiuhuijiangzhangfuchuguidezuixinggaozhiguojiazhengfu、popobabamama、jiedi，xiangdedaozheizhonglaorenmendexiezhu，qidaitamenlaiquandaolaogonghuiguo。kezheileijiduyinsideshieryaoshizailaorenmenzhongjianchuanchuhou，yidinghuishengcheng“dajiazuzhanshi”。henxianzhu，guojiazhengfuyupopozaiduidaichuguinanrenzhizhonghaowuyiwenhuichanshengmaodun，jiusuantamendouhenliangzhi，danquanjiedehuajiaofayedabuyiyang，kezainanshenglaikan，bazishendeyinsibaohugongbule，shuobailedezizun、mianbudoubeisidiaole，tamenjiuhuigengweimingmuzhangdandequzhaoqingrenfalaosaoqu，zailaorenmenyizhengpian“wenhuajiaoyu”shengzhongtanchengxiangdai，dengshengxiangyiguo，haihuidaohuilaifanyaoniyidakou。

 duidisanzheershiyi“taotianzuixing”。yixielaopozaifajuelaogongchuguile，jiuhuitoutoudizhaoxunyanzangzaizhangfushenhoude“nvxing”，suihouzaimotoutadexingji，zhaoxunjihuiyudisanzheerhudui，youdenaizhihaihuisuishenxiedaiqidagu、bayimabaotiaoruleideqianquxiaojichunao。nenggouhaowuyiwen，disanzhehuizaizheiyineishihoufangdefeichangrouruo，tabidinghuibaozhengmabuhaikou、dabuhaiji，jinizhangfujiandaotabeinidudadeqingkuang，jiqinizhangfudeweihuchongdong，suihouzaichizenidezheileihanfugerenxingwei。guohou，nizhangfuhuilikebangtabanxinjia，huanyigediquzangqilai，neishihounibudanzhaobuzhedisanzheer，yexulianzhangfudouzhaobuzhe。