想要挽回老公的你，应当做些什么?

 zaihunhoushenghuozhong，jiaruchuxianlaogongchuguidezhuangkuang，zuoweilaopoxiangyaowanjiuhunyin，nigaizenyangzuoni?youderenhuitiaoxuanchenmo，xiwangnenggouganhualaogong，ranglaogongjijihuiguotou，yexuduorenhuitiaoxuanlijigendisanzheerchupeng，rangtaliquzishendelaogong。shubuzhi，buguannicaiyongruhedefangfa，jiarubukeyiduiyuzishendejutiqingkuangkaizhanmudexingdewanhui，wanhuishijixiaoguojianghuiburongyiniruoyugu，neimaxiangyao wanhui laogongdeni，yingdangzuoxieshenme?xiabianjiulaigendahuoergongxiangyixiaxiawanjiuhunyindemouxietiyi：

一、应对第三者儿，你应当做些哪些

 yingduidisanzheer，zuiguanjiandejiushishuoyaocongrongdanding、chubianbujing。xuyibaoluzijidedisanzheer，tongchangzhuangkuangxiaquanshiyinweizheiyidisanzheergangkaishixinjile，xinjiyouyuzheiyichuguinanrenxiangtongjibushangtaguishugan，yincicaixianggenjubaoluziji，laigaozhizhengshitazhangfuzaoyichuguidekeguanshishi。

 zaidisanzheerdeguandianshang，tagengxiangrenaozhengshi，tiaodongzhengshihenanrenzhijiandezhanshi，yuefanaodetamenjiajifeigoutiao，jiuduitayueyouyi。bunankanchu，disanzheerhaipadezhengshi，bingbushiyingduizhangfuchuguijiupaoxiaoruleidehanfu，yebingbushiyikuernaosandiaosideyuanfu，zhishizuoshicongrongdanding、chubianbujingdeguifushouji。

 yinci，dangdisanzheerchumuqian，zhengshizuibixudeshilizhikandai，jiazhuangnaxieyebuqingchu，zishengaizuoshenmejiuzuoshenme。keshi，bingfeijiaoninaxiexingweidoububizuo，disanzheerzheishihouzaoyixinji，lingwaitayequeshaoleguishugan，neimawoyeyingdangbangtabazheileizaodongbuanfangjinjiaoda，rangtawanquansangshixixin。

 neimaniyingdangzenyangbaozhengni?jiushishuoxiangfangfafenpeinanrenweijiazhongchixuzijintouru，ninengyixiaohaiweiyuanyin，jinkenengpumantadeshijian，shengchanzhizaochuzheizhongyingduidisanzheerjiatinggongzuo，jiazhongduinanshengzhiguanzhongyaodecuojuejidisanzheerjiandao。

 jiachoubukewaiyang，bubibashierkuozhang。zhengshizaoshoudisanzheershi，zhengshiyaomingbaideshi“rangwaibixianannei”，erbingbushi“wolidou”。keshixuduozhengshiquezuozhegenzhangfuduilimiandeshier，liruzemazhizezishendezhangfu，rangzhangfuduizishengengjiadichu，erqiegengweihelixinglaogongchuguideyuanyin。

 youhuoshiyixiezhengshipaoquheqinpenghaoyoukongsuheqingtu，xietongqinpenghaoyouyikuaierqianzezhangfudebugerenxingwei，rangzheiyinanshengmianbuquanwu，cihoutahennanmeifazaiqinpenghaoyouyanqiantaiqitoulaiweirenchushi，neimatajiuhuiyulaiyudujuebenlaideweishenghuo。

 zhengshidezheizhonggerenxingweiquanshinuhuogongxin，yizhenziluandiaosixudeyuwanggerenxingwei，keshizheizhonghaowuyiwenquanshiyuzishenzhangfuweididegerenxingwei。neiyangxialai，zongshiposhizishendelaogonghedisanzhelizaixiangtongqianxianshang，rangzishenshenxiangujunzuozhandechujing。

 yincizhengshimenwanwanbukezuobajiachousichuchuanyangdeshier，waikuosanmianyuelaonanrenhuijialedexiwangyueduoxiao。yuanbenwaiduifudisanzhezaoyijinixinyouyuerlibuzu，lingwaiyeyaoguogongneizhanzishendenansheng，zheihaowuyiwenshizaixiaoruozishendezhandounengli。yinci，nigengyingdangyaozaizheishixuehaoguanlizijidexintaibinghenanshengjieweilianmeng。

二、怎样完全避免老公的出轨想法

 jinshibalaogongwanhuihuijiahuanshibuzude，gengguanjiandeshizenyangwanquanbimianlaogongdechuguixiangfa，zhenshiwanhuilaogongdexin，zheisuanshiwanjiuhunyinzhenshiyaozuodeshier。

diyitiao，rangzishenyouzhemeilidafangdebiaomian

 xuduochuguinanrenquanshirentichugui，jiushishuohuaizhewanerxunzhaocijixingdexintaizhuangtaizaiwaibianzhaoqitanvxingde。weishenmehuineiyangni?juedaduoshudouyouyuwangripiaoliangnianqingdeqizirujinzaoyibianweile“renlaozhuhuang”，duinanshengzaoyiyouhuoliyibu，ernanshengdetianxingjiushishuozhongaizhuiqiunianqingpiaoliangdenvshi。

 ni20suishifajuetongnianlingdenanshengxiaideshi18suidexiaonvhai，ruguoni30suishifajueshenpangdenanshengxiaidehuanshi18suidexiaonvhai ，ruguonilaidao50suinifajuelaonianrennanshengxiaidehuanshi18suidexiaonvhai。yinci，xiangyaoshizhongxiyinzhuzhenidenansheng，neimawoyewubiyaozuoge“bulaoxianqi”，budanyaomingbaidabanzishen，yeyaorangzishensuishisuidikanshangqubixunianqingguojutinianji。

diertiao，yaoyuzishendenanshenggongtongqianjin

 zheierchangshuodegongtongqianjin，zhidebudanshidajiayaoyouyiyangdeyouxishijieguan、jiazhiquxiang，lingwainikeyirangzishendeshenghuoshuizhunshiyunidenanshengxiangtongzhanxianzengzhangdequshide。weishenmeneiyangshuoni?youyuxuduonvxingtiaoxuanjiehunhoujializuojiatingzhufu，budanweishenghuoweixinpengyouquanyuelaiyuefeichangzhaixiao，yitiandaowanyingduidedoushicaimiyanyouzheizhonglingsuiderichangshenghuo。

 zhangciyiwang，tamenjiuhuixianzhuganjuezishenzaoyiyushehuifazhancuowei，erzishendelaogongquezhengjingenshiqidejiaobubuduanjinbu，fuqizhijiandejianjuyehuisuizhezaocheng。yinci，nvxingjiehunhoujiarubaobaoduannaiyihou，jinkenengnenggongzuozhongjiuchulaigongzuozhong，jibianbixuyaoquanzhidejialidaixiaobaobao，haiyaoyouzishendeshenghuo、weixinpengyouquan。

disantiao，zhongjiububizuo1geyuanfu

 nilejienanshengzuifanganzenmeyangdenvrenma?yitiandaowanyibianyijianshizaizishenerpangdouyindenvxing，shinanxingzuifangandenvxing。nvxingduliangxiao，budandulichengbushangchuan，lingwaiyanzhongyeroubujinsuishizi，yinciyiyouburuyidouxiaibahuaiqingxuxuanxiechuqu。keshitamenbutiaoxuangenhaoguimiqingsu，quezhongaigenzishendenanshengmaiyuan，tamendouganjuegenzishendenanshengjiangguo，zheiyinanshenghuoduohuoshaohuigengweiqianjiuzishen。

 qishizhenghaoxiangfan，nanshengzuifangandejiushishuozuonvrendexintailajixiang。youyunanshengchuwaichuangdanggongzuozaoyihenjianxintingleile，huijialeyihouyeyaobangzhujiejuelaopodehuaixintai，tamenhuiganjuegengxinku，zhangciyiwangtamenjiuhuixianglaizhaogebuxuzishenneimaleidenvxing。yinci，meinvmendaokushuiyaojinxiaoshenwei，bubibazishendezhangfuyerengdiaole。

 wenxindejiashichuguidejiaodadechengbenfei，bulunshichuguinanrenyeba，huanshichuguinvren，shizhishangdenantiyiranyouyujiazhongdebuhemucaihuizaochengshijiandezhuduoexingshijianchansheng。xuehaohaohaodiyunyingdajiadehunyin，rangshenghuoguoyaoyou shijiyiyi，youkuailedeneishihou，dajiadeguanlianjiunenggoufeichanghaodeweichixiaqule。