女人为什么会出轨：出轨的妻子是如何走到这步的

 nvrenchuguishizaizhuiqiushenme，shishenmedaozhiletamenwangwaixunqiucijishenzhishiaiqing?nvrenchuguidexintaipouxi，nvrenweishenmehui ☞chugui ?chuguideqizishiruhezoudaozheibude?

一、女人为什么会出轨：出轨的妻子是如何走到这步的

1.情绪不稳定出轨

 nvrenchuguidexintaipouxi，nvrenweishenmehuichugui?youderenjianghuijuedeganqingmengpianshimeihaideshouhou，danzixunguwenkelisisaiteshuozheijinjinzaizhaoxunbubian。“xintaizuobichangchangzaochengrentimengpian，jibianzaijiejue'xintaimengpian'shixiankuangmohubuqing，wofaxianletajianghuiyiyangfengxian，”tashuo。

 seiterzaicibiaoshushuo，ganqingmengpianjianghuiduibuyiyangderendaibiaobuyiyangdeshier，danzheirenhedoukanzuoyiyangdezhuguanyinsu：“jiarujiniganqingbixu，nibixuhuodenideairen，yexuqutarenweileshixianzheileiyaoqiu，neijiangbeichengzuoganqingmengpian。”tashuo，mouxieganqingmengpiandeshilibaohanzhaoxuntaren，jinijuedejingpei，guanjian，anxin，chengzanhuozancheng。

2.感设计风格

 nvrenchuguidexintaipouxi，nvrenweishenmehuichugui?guoduoganairenderenbudakenengpiaobo，tashiyouxiedaolide，danxialuotehuohuade，boshiyanjiusheng。zaoyuqingganweijimianlinfenshou?

 tashuo，zheixiebixugaozhiliangganderenjianghuigengfeichangrongyiyouyuzheiyiyuanguerzuobi。tashuo：“ganshejifenggehuiweihaidajiazaipengyouguanxizhongdetihui，bingjianghuirangdajiadecunjinchidixunzhaodalianglianluo - zaizheiyangdeshiqingxia，tamenjianghuipobudeyizaiguanlianyiwaizhaoxundaliangguanlian。”

3.心态上的舍弃

 chuguideqizishiruhezoudaozheibude?zhishiyouyuzhixiqinshudaochang，bingbuyiweizhetahuizaiganqingshangjienachayan，zhenduimouxienvshieryan，zheileisheqijianghuihuihenzao。“dangnvshijuedexintaibeipaoqishi，changchanghuichuxianzuobideyuwang，” lcswdexinlizixunshiheguanlianquanweizhuanjiarhonda richards-smithshuo。

 “airenderenticunyouzhongjiubunengbaochishenxinjiankang，lingrenmanyideguanlian。fufuwubianshigoutongjiaoliutamendeyaoqiuheqidai，youyuzheizhongjianghuihuisuizhishijiandebianhuaergenggai。erbingbushizuochujiadinghuoqidainideairenkeyilejienideniantou，youguanweikaolvdeganqingyaoqiudezhijieduihua。”

 dabufennvshizuobi(huobiaoshu/zhengshitamendezuobigerenxingwei)，youyutamendeganqingyaoqiuyaobumeiyouhuodekaolv，yaobubeijuedemeiyoubeitamendeairensuokaolv。tamenhaipagudu，qingshi，meiyounulidabufenneishihou，zuobibingbushiyououyude;tamenguanniandao，ruguotarengangkaishiguanxintamen，tamenshishizaitaigudanhuomingan。

 zheijianghuitingqilaihaoxiang1gejingyuan，keshiwevorcedeguanlianquanweizhuanjiahechuangbanrenmixieerkeluosibishuo，jianyidefenzishengwuxueyoushihoujianghuishipiaobolaopodeyuangu。“henduoshierjianghuichanshengzainvxinggengnianqiqian，neishihounvshiqinshenjinglilemingxiandeqinmiwujiangerenxingwei，fenzishengwuxueshangbeibiaoshuweishengyundezuizhongjiyu，zheizhongyingjide，shengzhangjisuxingde”zantingyingye“shichangxiaoshou，”tabiaoshushuo。

4.亲密无间的害怕

 chuguideqizishiruhezoudaozheibude?nvrenchuguidexintaipouxi，nvrenweishenmehuichugui? danxinpengyouguanxiyougongzuonengliyiduozhongduoyangfangfahuihuaiguanlian。xialuotehuohuade，boshiyanjiusheng zheixieyoupengyouguanxinantiderenjianghuiyiranhuixunzhao，danbukeyiyutamendeairenqiuzhu。

 tashuo，youderenjianghuihui“danxinpengyouguanxi，zhiyouzaiduofangmiandehezuoguanxiyiwaitihuidaoxingyuwang，youyuyuairenyouguoduodepengyouguanxi，juedegenjuxingshenghuojuedeanquanxingjiehe。”

5.支配权充分发挥

 chuguideqizishiruhezoudaozheibude?youshi，nvrenzuochuguidejuecezhibuguoxiangtadeairenzhanxianzhenshichengdandeduice。“dangnvshijuedetamendeguanlianzhongmeiyouhuayuquanshi，tamenjianghuigengfeichangrongyipiaobo，” lcswdexinlizixunshiheguanlianquanweizhuanjiarhonda richards-smithshuo。

 “ruguoyigenvrenganjuetaduijiazhongguanlijuece，jingyingqingkuanghuojianglaifanganjibenshangmeiyouhuayuquan，neimabaituozheixieguanliandeyinyoujianghuihuifeichangyouhuo。shijishang，mouxienvshijianghuihuitihuidaozheizhongxirendequanlihekongzhigan。congyemimishijian。”

 ashidanduntishirenmen，zuobibingbushichongfenfahuiquanlideweiyifangfa。jianghuishikaizhanyongxintantaodeneishihoule。“dangnideguanlianyizheileifangfafazhanqushi，neimapingdingxiezuoguanlianshibushichongzulingbianbianyujinkuairangbuhexianghuguanlijueceyouweizhongyao，”tashuo。

6.钱

 tingjianzheiyidabiqianjianghuihuirangnvshizuobi，nijianghuiburongyijuedechayi，danduiyudebiaoshujianghuiburongyiwoyiweixiangxiangdeneiban。yijuguanlianquanweizhuanjiayuehangeleiboshiyanjiushengdejiaofa。

 hechangxiaoxiaoshuodechuangzuozhenanrenlaizihuoxing，nvrenlaiyuanyujinxing，nvrengengfeichangrongyimengpianshi，tamenyouzheqiancai，erbingbushiyouyutamenzouxiangshijiezhaoxunta。geleishuonvrendejingjifazhanqudechenggonghuiweihaitadegaowanjisushuizhun，zheixiangfanhuiweihaitadeaiqingyishizhuxing。

 “suizhihenduodenvshizaijingjishangdandu，tamenduiairendeyikaoshuipingjianshao。zheihuitishengtamendegaowanjisushuizhun，jianshaocixingjisu，tashizheizhonggengxiangnanrendeshengzhangjisujunheng，”geleibiaoshudao。“zheileitishengdegaowanjisunenggoutishengtayulurenfashengguanxidechongdonghuoshiyuepaodekuaile。yucitongshi，jingjifazhangongzuonenglijiaoruodejihunnvshiyincigaowanjisushuizhunjiaodi，cixingjisushuizhunjiaogao。zheileijunhengtishengletadeyaoqiu??heganduitadeairen。”

 shubuzhi，zaibanisuoyourenrenaoyiqian，guanjiandeshiyaoliuyigeleibingfeishuohuijishangdequdechenggonghuirangnvrengengfeichangrongyizuobi，gengyoujianghuizaizheileichongdongcunyoudezhuangkuangxiafuzhuxingdong。“jiarutazaitadeguanlianzhonghuodekaolv，

7.报仇

 yourenshuo，lianyuzaitamenshoushangmeiyounaonuxiangbiyinvxinghelangdamilrad，qiyechuangbanrenjianceo relationupshuo，youfeichangduodekeguanshishilezheiyidianer。tabiaoshushuo：“yixienvshizaoshouleairendesunhai，panbianhuobuzhongshi，bingjuecegenjuxingxingweituoliguanxibingrangairenlejielaiduifu。tashi'kanzhenixiaizheiyi'dejingyanjiaoxun。”

 victoria lorient-faibish，xinlizixunshi，lianjiechuangzuozhe：rewire your relationship cultureyuanyile。“qinfenxunsuquanyuquanbudeyuanqi。bubirangchuangkoupokui。shishishang，dangnijuedebuanquanxing，suiyiheshufu，meibanfabeibierenwanquanzhengfu，”tabiaoshushuo。“dangniduinideairenhuaiyouyuanqi，neimaduineireneryanmeibanfare，feichangshidangnichuzaizhangqixingguanlianhuohunyinzhong。”

8.脆化

 haowuyiwen，suizhinvshigangkaishishuaitui，tamengangkaishiganjuezishenzaoyishiquyiqianbijiaomanyidehenduozhiliangqiuwanmeixingganmiren，huopokeaihexingyuwangbianruodezhuiqiuwanmeiyejianghuishihunwailiandegangkaishi，feichangshijiaruduishuaituihesangshiyouhuolideyoulvkunhuota。

 jinguangangkaishihunwailianjianghuihuinizaiduanqineineijuedexingganmiren，dantamenduiniyijingzuodeshierdefuzuijianghuizuihouhuijinijuedegengcaogao。

9.以便增加趣味性

 jibianshizuilingrenjidongdeguanlianyehuiyoushihouyuelaiyueyoudianerwuqu，tashihenyiqiezhengchangde，danyixienvshitiqianzhunbeichaoyuemouxiefeichangdadexiankuang，jiangjidongdaidaotamendeyishizhuxing。

 yixienvshijuedezishendeyishizhuxingshenxianlejiongjing，tamendeyishizhuxingyuelaiyuenenggoufenzhehewuqu。xindeguanlianhaoxiangshizheizhongzhenfenrenxindefangfa，mimi，momocengceng，xingreqingnenggougenjushifangchulaiquanbuzheixieliaoxiaolianghaodexiongxingheermenglaizaojiu1gegaokuanbi。zheizhongnvshichangchangfenlibinggaosutazishenzheijianshiqingbingmeiyoujiansuntamenduiairendeai。