女人出轨后，为什么会“无法自拔”？出轨女人为何不承认

 dajiahenduorendouchongjinghunyin，douxiangguoshangningjingqiemeihaodeshenghuo，zenmekanlaopochuguimeiyou？danzonghuiyouyixierenxinlizaodongbuan，jishiyongyouhunyin，tamenyehuijiangyanguangkanxianghunneichugui。chuguinvrenweihebuchengren？

 keyishuo，daodelunlimeibanfaguanshutamendegerenxingwei，zaixuduorendexinlingshenchu，conglaimeiyoubadaodelunlifangzaixinli，tamenxiangdebianshizenmerangzishenkaixin，zenmerangzishendeneixinhuodehendadedadao。

陈女士，32岁

 wojinnian32sui，youdeqingkuangxia，wohaipobudeyitanbaizishenshiyigehuainvren，jiarufeiyaojiangzishenshiyigehaolaopo，worenweizigedeliangzhidoushihuibuhaoyisi，suiranyinweiwomeiyoushenmeliangzhi。

 zenmekanlaopochuguimeiyou？woweishenmeshuozishenshiyigehuainvren，shiyouyuwochuguilehunyin，bingqiepanbianhunyindeshijianzhangda3nian，zaizheili3nianqinei，woyizhiheqingrenjiuchanbuqing，suiranzheiyiduanguanlianhenweixian，danwoqueyizhibuyuansheqi。

 erzheiyiqiedoushiyouyuwodejiarenmeifadailaiwowennuan，wolaogongshiyigezerenxinfeichangqiangdenanren，tajibenshangyigexingqiqitiansuoyouzaigongzuozhong，jiusuanshifangjiale，tarengranzaigongzuozhong。

 zhenduiwolaishuo，tadegerenxingweiduiyuwochanshenglefeichangdadesunhai，worenweitarucizuo，chedimeiyoujiangwofangzaixinli，zhiyaoshitaxinzhongyouwo，tadounanyibasuoyoudehuolidoubaizaigongzuofangmian，erduiyuwoailibuli。

 danshitaconglaibuzaihuwodeguandian，wulunwozenmehetashuodao，doubunenggenggaitaneixinshenchudeniantou，zaitalaikan，nanrenjiuyingdanggongzuoweizhu。

 wukenaihexia，wozhiyouzhaohunneichuguidenanrenweijiewoneikebeilaogongyicicifushangdeneixin。henduorenzhinengbahunwailiandangzuoduanzanxingdezhiliuzhisuo，wanleyiduanshijianhou，tamenbianhuitiaoxuanhuidaojiazhong。

 erwobuyiyang，worenwei，hunwailiancaijiushiwozhangqixingdejiezhu，youyuwohaizailianrendeshenshangtihuidaozhangfusuobukeyidailaiwodenuanyiheguanzhu。

陈女士，35岁

 wojinnian35sui，zhenduiwolaishuo，hunyinshijishangzaoyibianchengleyigewuguanjinyaodedongxi，yaobushineixinhaidiannianzhexiaohai，wohuoxuzaoyixiangzhangfumingquetichulilehun。

 wohelaogongbenlaijiumeiyouguoduoqinggan，woliangshiyouyudangshiliangrennianlingtaida，yincicongmangtiaoxuanlehetarenwanhun，wanhunyihou，womenlianggecaikandaobicizhijiandegexingbingmeiyouhenshihe，danyoubutaihaoliyi，yincizhiyouneiyangcouhedeguoqulechulai。chuguinvrenweihebuchengren？

 guoqunianzhujian，wohelaogongtiaoxuanlefenchuangshui，erzheigengshiwomenliangrendeguanlianjiangdidaoyigebingdu，pingchangdeqingkuangxia，dajiafuqiliangdehuatitaolunzhishixianyuxiaohai，ciwai，dajiashenzhiyudoubuqingchuhebierenshuoxienaxie，youdeqingkuangxia，wohaiganjuewoliangzhongjiangezheyiduhenhoudeqiang。

 zhihou，wohaizaihunneichuguizhaoleyigelianren，womingbaihunwailianbudui，keshiwomeiyoubanfa，wokewangaiqing，woqidailanmanhekaixin，zheizhongdongxi，zhangfujibushangwo，suoyiwozhiyouzhaoyigenengbangwozheizhongdongxidenanrenzaiyiqi。

雷女性，36岁

 wojinnian36sui，congnianqingqiaolidenvhaidaorenjinsishisuidenvxing，congbailitouhongdejifudaoanhuangsebandejifu，wohelaogongdehunyinyigongtaguole12nian，zhei12niandeshijian，budanzaiwodeliandanliuxialaileyinhen，yeyaowoduizhangfushenaizhedeneikexinfashenglezhuanbian。

 zhiqianzongganjuezhenzhengdeaiqingshizhongde，danzhihoucaigaoqingchu，ganqingyeshiyouyouxiaoqide，zhibuguoshizheiyibaocunqizhangduanbuyi，erwohelaogongdeganqing，baocunqixianeryijianbuguozhang，zhishi12nian，liangrenaiqingdebaocunqijiuzaoyiguoqu。

 suiranwoyijingrenjinzhonglaonianle，suiranwoderongmaoyemeileguoqule，danneikechongjingganqingdexinqueyijiucunyou，woxinliduizhangfumeileai，buyiweizhewoshibuhuizaimishangqitananren。

 dangwoaishanglehunneichuguideyigenanrenhou，wozuolezishenguoquxiangdoubunengxiangdeshi，ren，jiuzheiyang，niyongyuanyebuzhidaozishenshashihoujiubianchenglezishenzuitaoyanderen。chuguinvrenweihebuchengren？

 woheqingrenzaiyiqizaoyi1nianduole，wangwangdouhaimeiduankaihetadelianluo，shiyouyuwoduiwoduinideaihaicunyou，dengnayitianwoduitameiaideqingkuangxia，bianhuiliqutale。

 zenmekanlaopochuguimeiyou？wulunshangbian3genvxingyounaxieyuanyin，tamenyebuyingdangzuochubaoqianhunyindeshi，youyuzheiyeshiweifanshehuidaodede，zheiyeshirenherenwufarongrende，huoxutamenjinrigaoxingdehenkaixin，dandenghoutamendemingrizeshiqicande。