女人的“外遇情节”是怎么出现的？出轨女人为何不承认

 zenmekanlaopochuguimeiyou？aiqingyuhunyinshibuyiyangde。ganqingjinjinganqing，keshilihunshiganqingjiayiwu。chuguinvrenweihebuchengren？

 henduorendoucengshuo，nvrenwaiyushiyouyuganqing。shijishangni，zheiyeshicuowude。henduorendoushiyou“waiyuqingjie”，heganqingbuxianggan，helihundetianmidubuxianggan，hexingbieyebuxianggan。

dajiachangshuo，renshengdaoluzhongdexuduoshierdoubixuzhuzhonggetianshidili。keshi，ganqingduitianshidilidexuqiubingbugao。

duitianshidiliguidinggaodeshihunyinshenghuo，bingbushiganqing。

 qingtouyihedefufu，nenggoujibaigezhonggeyangcuozhedemolian。ergehuaixiangfadefufu，jiusuantianshidilidouyongyoule，yehenyoukenengwaiyu，yeyoukenengfashenghunwailian，yehenyoukenengliyi。

 zenmekanlaopochuguimeiyou？dajiadoushuo，xuduoyijingjiehundenanrendoujuyoumingxiande“waiyuqingjie”。shijishang，yijingjiehundenvrenyeshiyiyangde。nanrenbubinvrendute，nvrendoububinanrendute。

tamenshuozishenchuguile。tamenlejiebudui，danshibuzhiruheyingduilaogong，yebuzhidaoruheyingduilianren。

 tamenxiangheqingrenfenli，youdianershebude。xianghelaogongfenli，gengshebude。tamenhenyoukenengrenweiziyifandebingbushidacuo，tamenshuozishenhaizaiyizhejiatinghunyin。

jiuyong2genianjichayifeichangdadenvrendelijing，ranggeweikanyixianvrende“waiyuqingjie”shinayangde。

赵女士，35岁，和老公情感非常好，家庭条件中等水平化。赵女士有两个孩子，大的是个女生，才满9岁，小的是男孩儿才2岁。

 zhaonvshishuo：woyulaogongqingganhenhao，womenliangdangchushilaotongxue，tanguoyichanglianai。chuzhongbiyehou，woshangleyisuozhiyexuexiao，laogongmeiyoushang。dudaxueqinei，woyoutanguoyichanglianai，hegaoxiaoneiyigenanpengyoudeqingganyehenhao。biyehouyihou，woxinzaicifanhuilelaogongdeshenshang。womingbaitayiranhaizaidengzhewo，wozhonggaoxiaobiyeshengdezhenshishenfenjiajilelegaozhongwenhuadelaogong。laogonghenyoukenengganjuewenpingbiwodi，yizhiduiwofeichanghao。

dangbeiwenjiweihewaiyu，shifouyizhidoushiyou“waiyuqingjie”deqingkuangxia，zhaonvshichiyileyixia。

 tajiang：woganjuenanrennvrenduiwaiyuqingjiequanshiyiyangdeba，nanrenxiaixiangxiang，yongyushijianhuodong，nvrenhaipa。dajianvrenhenyoukenenglianmianboyidian，keshixinlidexiangxiangdoububinanrenshao。woshangguogaoxiao，wopengjianleshimian，woganjuenvrenyingdanghenanrenyiyang。

 womenjiehunlehou，laogongduiwofeichanghao，yinweiwohenmanzu。diyigehaizichushengyihou，jiazhonglveweiyoudianergongzuoyali。jinguanneishihouyouxierenyuewo，keshiwobunengbaoqianlaogong，wobingmeiyouchulaiyouhui。diergehaizichushengyihou，woyoudianerxinfanle。zaizaijiashangwomenliangwanhunyekuaishinianle，zaoyimeilexingquaihao，woyibuxiaoxinjiuchulegui。

wenta：yibuxiaoxindaibiaoshenmeyisi？shiyoumudedehuoshibuyouzizhudeni？

 tajiang：bianshimeiliuyi，nenggoushuochengqianyishideba，womeixiangsunhailaogong。wodangchududaxueshijiuzuolebaoqianlaogongdeshi，zheiyiciheneishishiyiyangde。neishihoulaogongzaiwaishenggongchu，jiapobangwokanhaizi。yicixiabanledeqingkuangxia，woannaibuzhusichanlanda，yihulihutujiushangpengyoudeche。woganjuedaoxianzaicaixing，womenliangdoushebudefenkai，yebushedepaoxiazishendejiazhong，jiuzheiyanghaozhe。

 zhaonvshizheileiwaiyu，jiarushuoqianyishide，neijiushicuowude。bingdongsanchifeiyirizhihan，tadengguogaoxiao，yuanhuashigu，yincixinzhongyouneileiniantou。yiner，jishitalaogongbugongchu，jishitazishenkanhaizi，yingdangyehuiwaiyu，jinjinshijianwentibale。

zheijiushiwaiyuqingjie，kanqilaibujingyi，shishishangquanshijinmixiangliande。

王女士，46岁，完婚20很多年的她，早已对婚姻生活厌烦。她也是有两个孩子，都到了高校，不太太必须她操劳了。

 wangnvshishuo：hunyinshenghuofanguoyuemeijinger，wohaofanwolaogong，yinciwomenliangtiantianchaojia，yinciwojiuhuiwaiyu。danshibeitakandaoyihou，tabuyuwochaole。taqianxinwankuwanhuiwo，woturanzhijianjuedeliangzhizoubuguoqu。woyishidaozijizuoleyijianchunshi，wojianjiandihouhuile，woganjuelaogongzheigerenhuoshitingzaihuwode。chuguinvrenweihebuchengren？

 danshiwoyulingyigenanrenyepeiyuchuleqinggan，zhiyouchangchangmanzhelaogongquzhaota。wobuzhidaoweilaigaizenmeban，zhiyouxianjiangjiuyixiaguoqule。

dangbeiwenjishifouyou“waiyuqingjie”shi，wangnvshimeiyouchiyi。

 tajiang：henyoukenengduiba，wozhiqianxiaixiangxiangheqitananrenyouhui，buqingchuzheishifousuanwaiyuqingjie。neileihenshuaide、gaode、renyuanhaodenanren，woyizhihenzhuyi。keshiwomeixiangguowaiyu，henyoukenengneishihouhaipaba，huanjuhuashuopabierenhuijuewo。40suiyihou，wohenxihuanshangliaotian，yezhongxinlejielezheishijie。wojianjiandiduiyigelihundenanrenzaochenglehaogandu，huoxunianlingdale，renhedongxidoukandanleba。neishiwoyulaogongtiantianchaojia，suoyiwochulegui。yemeishenmekuijiude，rutongganleyichangmeng。xianzaidewohaizaimengli，buyuanneimazaoxinglaishi。

 wangnvshizheileiwaiyuhenpubian，duojianyuyijingjiehundezhonglaoniannvren。tamendewaiyutongchangshiyouyufuqiguanxibuhe，huoshifuqiliangdifenju。chuguizhihoubutaitaikuijiu，henyoukenenghezhangjiude“waiyuqingjie”xiangguan。xuduoshierxiangdetaiduo，yidanshijianhuodong，tamenhuiganjueyemeishenme。

 zhaonvshihewangnvshidoushiyou“waiyuqingjie”，xianjieduandetamenyebunengshuotaihouhuimoji，keshitamendeqingxingzaoyisunhailelaogongdezizun。

 shijishangxuduoyijingjiehundenvrenhenanrenquanshixiangside，xinlidoushiyougeshigeyangdeniantou。meiyoubiaozhundeqingkuangxia，henyoukenengyibeizidouburongyiwaiyu，yidanyongyoubiaozhun，nanyihuijueqitananren。chuguinvrenweihebuchengren？

 hunyinshenghuoshijishangyeshiyizhongganqingdemolian，jiarufufuyifangchulegui，jiarufufuyifangduitarendongleqing。neimahunyinshenghuoyinggaishiguobuxingde，fufudeqinggantongchanghuihuiyuhunwailian。jiusuanbuliyi，fuqijianyehuiyizhicunyouzhecaiyi。

 zenmekanlaopochuguimeiyou？hunyinshenghuozhongwanmeideaiqingshizhongzhiyouguishuyufufu，erbukeyiguishuyubieren。weilegenghaodihunyinshenghuodejianglai，qingbikaihunwailian。