女人出轨又不愿意离婚，也不愿意和第三者分手是为何？

 xiaoranhezhangfuwanhun15nian，youyigetaorenxihuandeguinv，danshirenyidandaozhongnian，zenmeyangnengkanchunvrenchugui？zaisuonanmianpengdaoyixiejianxin，chuguinanrenbianshichangyongdenanti。nvrenchuguiyoubuyuanyilihunshiweihe？

 xiaorandezhangfudoubuchuwai，lianggerenjinguancongdaxuelianaidaowanhun，taguozheimeduoqiuchun，yesuandeshangbuyi，kezuihouhuoshimeikangdeguoshijian。

 shijishangxiaorandezhangfu，bulunshicongjiashi，huoshiwaimaoshangeryan，quanshiburuxiaorande，jiulianrujindegongzuozhongquanshilaozhangrenbangzhuzhaode。

 danshisheirangneishi，liangrenshilianaiziyouni，shuangfangdouhaitaidanchunxing，quanshijiangaiqingfangdaodiyiweide，jiusuanshimeishenmeqian，jiashiyebushifeichanghao，xiaoranhaobuyouyudehuoshijiale。

 zenmeyangnengkanchunvrenchugui？danshizhangfuchuguiyihou，tadexintaibaozha，ganjuezheixieniandetouruhenbuzhi，naizhiyoudianeryiyuzhengdequxiang，tayebuzhidaozabanle

第一、不将所有的不正确推在自身的身上

 xuduonvhaizizaifajuelaogongyouwaiyuyihou，diyigeniantoubianshi，wonaerzuodebutaihao，huanjuhuashuowohaizaihunyinshenghuoneitaiqianghan，caizaochengzhangfuchugui，shidoushiwodecuo，woxiangkaizhanziwofansheng，woxiangjiuzhengwanhuilaogongdexin，neiyangdesixiangquanshipianzhide。

 dajiaconganlizhonghaikeyikandechu，xiaoranbulunshirenpin、jiajing、xiangmaoeryan，quanshihaoyutarujinzhangfude，kenengshilaopodegelingyubiziyihao，xinlingshenchushiyouzibeigande。nvrenchuguiyoubuyuanyilihunshiweihe？

 tazailaopoyanqianmeiyoulianmian，tabixubeiqinpei，yincijiuzaiwaimianzhaoleyigenenggoudadaoxinneiderenlai。yincibujiangbuzhengqueguizuizaiziyideshenshang，shiyigezhengshiyingdangmingbaidenanti。

 womenyaoxiangdisanzhe，tajiranlejiebierenshiyijingjiehun，haidisanzhechazutarendejiazhong，neiyangdenvshengzaishehuidaodeshangkendingshiyougufude，renpinyounenghaodaonaliquni？yincibuyaoweilegenghaodiqitarendebuzhengque，laichengfaziji。

第二、别再抱有希望

 nanshengjiyaoxiangdisanzhe，youbuyuanyiliyi，yaoxiangsanrenxing，shenmehaochudouyongbufangqi，xiaoranyishiyourouguaduan，youbuyuanyisheqi。

 taduizhangfuyeyouxiwang，yincicaihuiyierzaizaiersandebeilaogongsunhai，zuoweizhengshiwomenyaomingbai，buhuizaiyoutaiduodexiwang，jiubukenengyouyueduodecuican，hezhangfunenggoukaizhanshangtan，jitamenyigemingxidetiaoxuan。

 nvrenjiuyaohenqilai，buranyingxianglibuwen。shitatiaoxuandisanzhejiujianjuedeliyi，buliyijiulijitiqisusong，zongzhixintaiyaoliangchuqu。

 jiaruhuijialejiububihedisanzhelianluo，zhongguijiazhongyiqiandebiaozhunyaotanhao，baidiheizixiehaoxieyishu。nvrenchuguiyoubuyuanyilihunshiweihe？

第三、向内求

 jiangdaliangdeguanxinfangdaozishendeshenshang，duiyulaogongdexinlizhuangtaixianbuyongguan，jinyouhuifuzishenqingxu，jiangnidexinlidiaojiehaoyihou，caiyouxinliquyunying，yihoudehunyinshenghuocaikeyiyuliaozishen。

 zaiyuliaowaishangshi，bixulaogongjijizhudongdexianghupeihe，tashiwaiyudeneiyifang，yaoxiangzhongguijiazhongjiuxuyaozuochuzhenshidexingdong，erbushizuibashuoshuoeryi，congzheizhongxingdongshangkandechuzhangfudexintai，zenyangmingbaitashihaoxiangzhongguijiazhong，huoshiquanyizhiji。

 zenmeyangnengkanchunvrenchugui？zongeryanzhiyaobuyaolihun，xianyongliyide5geguifanlaikaoliang，yaoshimeiyoufeilihundeneiyibu，neilijixuanzhan，miediaohunwailian。