妻子出轨后，做丈夫的应该怎么做？怎样消除老婆出轨阴影

zenyangxiaochulaopochuguiyinying？tianxiazhida，qianqibaiguai。renshangyibai，geshigeyang。qizichuguilehaojuhaosanzenmezuo？

 jinrijiandaoyigeweixinliaotianjilujieping，shifuqiliangzhongjiande。youyigejiaoqiandenvzi，waiyuhou，jingranneiyangkengpianzhangfuyuanliang，zhendeshimeishenmedixian！

zheimingnvzidezhangfulejieqizichuguihou，zaiqinqijiayigerenhejiu，yinci，zheimingnvzikaishileyujujingong：

“laogongwozhenshishebudeni，nixiangzhezanmendeyiwang，nixiangyixiangwohuaiyunshiyuejinishengdexiaobaobao……”

 kanlaogongwudongyuzhong，zheimingnvzizhujianweixie，“laogong，nimeiqingyuanliangwo，wobuhuole……”qizichuguilehaojuhaosanzenmezuo？

jiezheyouzhujianjilaogongjiayoudaqi，kengpianlaogong，“laogongburuanruowuneng，laogongyouxionghuai，jianxinlaogongkeyitingguoqu……”

zhiyoushuo，zheinvde，zuihentian！ganlejianbukedeshi，jingran“xiangxinzijidelaogongnengtingguoqu”。

zenyangxiaochulaopochuguiyinying？taihuikengpianleba。

buqingchuzheiyizuolaogongdegaizuoheganshou？tamenshifouhuizhongyuan？

neima，qizichuguihou，zhangfuyinggaizenmezuoni？

一：各奔东西，和平分手

 xuduoqizichuguizhihou，jibianlejieganqingbuhuizai，yebuyuanyihezhangfusipolian。yincizuoweizhangfuyexuyaoyouyigechongfenzhunbei，jiaruqizizaoyigaohaotiaoxuanle，neimaniyebubidachaodanao，gengbubiwanhui，youyucishitadexinzaoyimeiyounideshenshangle，qiangzuowanhuizuizhongzhinengrangbicizhijiannaodegengweibugaoxing，yincifangtahuiquba。qizichuguilehaojuhaosanzenmezuo？

二：坚决维护自身的自尊

 youyixieqizichuguihouhaimanhengwuli，tamenzishenfancuowule，haizhenzhenyouciguidingyaogennifencaichan，zhiyaoshiyoudianerzizundenanshengyexudouwufarongren。yincizaihelideguochengzhongyexuyaoquchunidenanshizizunchuqu，bubiranglingyifangdelejiagedihaimaiguai。

三：想办法挽留妻子

 zenyangxiaochulaopochuguiyinying？jiaruniyexiangwanliuqizi，neijiuxuyaoxunzhaonimenhunyinpoliedeyuangu，xiangbanfalaitianbu。jinguanzheiyeshixiaxiace，danyeshimeiyoubanfadefangfa。