女人出轨后，男人为什么会抗拒“夫妻生活”？女人四十出轨后的表现

 xingfukuailedehunyinrichangshenghuodabufendouleisi，zhangfutengxi，xinlichuguibishentichuguigengkepashiweihe？babamamaguanzhu，xiaohaixiaojing，kedaomeidehunyinzeshigeshigeyang，meiyigerenwanhunshi，douqiwangweilainengguodemeimanxingfu，keyibaitoudaolao。nvrensishichuguihoudebiaoxianyounaxie？

 shubuzhi，xuduohunyinzhong，guozheguozhejiuyongyoujiedi，gezhonggeyangmaiyuansuizheweizhi，zheiyangyilai，jiatingjiufenyuelaiyueda，shenzhiyouchanshenglengbaoli，bijiaoyanzhongdehaihuijixuwaiyu，danquanbudehunyinfenqizhong，guishuyunvrenchuguizuibijiaoyanzhong。

47suidejianglaoxiansheng，hunyinjiuyushangletongchu。

 liangnianqian，jianglaoxianshengquyidizuoyigegongchengxiangmu，xiangbudao，sigeyuehuijiahou，fajueqizichuguile。nanrenbeinvrenchuguizheijianshiqingjizhengle，neineixinhuigenghaoguoma？zheileiqingxufangdaosheishoushangyechengbuxiaqu。

 xinlichuguibishentichuguigengkepashiweihe？jianglaoxianshengwanhunfeichangzao，bingqiegongzuozuodeyetingbucuo，kandaijiazhongdezerenganyefeichangzhong，jinjinyizhiyilai，gongzuozhongmang，zishenjiaojiduo，zaifuqishenghuoshangjiuganjueyouyixiexinyouyuerlibuzu，renyidandaozhongnian，nanrendangranhuiguoshaoguofuqishenghuo。

 danshizheiyewufazuoweinvrenchuguidetuociba，rangnanrenyebunengjinxingzheiyikeguanshishi，nvrenbeikandaohunwaiqinghou，yizaidekenqiunanrenkuanrong，bingqiedangchutadenanhaizhengchuyuchuduixiangjieduan，jiarucikeliyibiranduihaizidehunyindaozhiweihai，jianglaoxianshengyinerxuanyongleweiquqiuquan，zheishimeiyoushuopo。

 nvrenzerenweinanrenkuanrongleta，richangshenghuoyouhuifuzhengchangleningjing，danshidangnvrenchangshihenanrenguofuqishenghuoshi，nanrenbennengfanyingdejujuelenvren，shijishangnanrenneixinzaoyimeilenvren，jinjinmeiyouzhuyaobiaoxianzailianbu。

zhihou，jianglaoxianshengzongsuanjiangleshuoshihua，nvrenchuguihou，nanrenzenmehuidichu“fuqishenghuo”？guanjianyou3dian。

第一、感觉尤其恶心想吐

 hunyinzhong，nanrenduinvrendeaishijishangbansuizheshijiandebianhua，huizhujiandezangzaixinli，zhenduiqingganneijiushizhenqing，shitashengmingzhongzuizhongyaoderen，jinjinwanhunduonianyihoubuhuizaixiangtanlianaishineibanzhanxianziwo，qingganrutongjiuyiyang，yuezhangxiangqiyuenong。

 shubuzhi，jiarunvrenzaihunhouchugui，bulunshishaziyuanyin，nanrendoubukenengjiena，budanzairentishangdichuyunvrenchupeng，neixinyehuifeichangdedichu，rutongrendebennengyiyang，nanrenhuiganjuenvrenyouqiexinxiangtu，meibanfajiena。

 neidangranzaifuqishenghuoshangbutaikenenghaiyouchupeng，neiyangdeqingganzhongjiulemeiyoujieguo，jinguanyishibuliyi，danzhongguidexiachangyebuhuiyoubudeshanzhong。

yincinvrenqianwanbiezaihunhouchugui，neidengtongyushifenbugushen，jiejuxianeryijian。nvrensishichuguihoudebiaoxianyounaxie？

第二、内心有黑影，断开的红线始终修不太好

 nanrenneixindoushiyouyigenhongxian，zheihongxianbianshiyitiaomeifaqijidexian，hunyinzhongdenvrenyidanpengduandiaozheiyigenxian，neinimendehunyinjiubukenengyouhaojieguo。

 zhenduinvrendewaiyu，nanrenneixindeyidaokanshizenmeyezoubuguoqude，jibianyishikuanronglenvren，neizaixiamianderichangshenghuoyehuirangnanrenchixudexiangdaonvrenzuodeyijianshi，neixinyouheiying，youqishijiarunvrenzaiguidingguofuqishenghuoshi，nanrenneijiushikendingdehuidichu，zheiyeshinanrendebennengfanying。

 yinciquannvrenwulunshishenmeyuanyindoubuyaozaihunhouchugui，burongyiyouhaodejieguo，budanwufadedaoxingfukuaile，fandaohuirangxiahoubanbeizihuozaibeitongdangzhong。

第三、从此想不起来以前的幸福

 rendeguannianjiuzheiyangde，yigerenzuoyibaijianhaoshier，dingbushangtazuoyijiancuoshi，tarenzhinengjidenidebutaihao，wulunniyiwangyouduomehao，douganjuenishigeeren。

 yiyangdedadaoli，zuoweinvren，wulunniyiqianneimedechuse，duomededegujiajiaju，duomedededuinanrenhao，yidannvrenchugui，zheizhongdoushihuiyishunjianfuzhidongliu，nanrencongcixiangbuqilainvrenyiqiandexingfu，nengjilaodejinyounvrendepanbian，neishiyiwaidaonei，congrentidaoneixindoushihuiziranerrandedichunvren，gengbietifuqishenghuo。nvrensishichuguihoudebiaoxianyounaxie？

yincinvrenhunhouyidanwaiyu，neixiangdangyuduansonglezigedehunyin，yexunaxiedoushihuiwufadedao。

 jieyu：xinlichuguibishentichuguigengkepashiweihe？hunyinyuanbenbuyi，liangrenderonghebenshenbianshiyizhongyuanfen，zaihunyinrichangshenghuoshangdoubixubiciyiqidequqinfen，jiaruhunyinchulenanti，bushiyigerendecuo，yongyoufenqijiuxuyaoquanliyifudequchuli，bingbushiyiweidemaiyuan，neibanyagenbingbushichulidefangfa，youqishinvren，hunyinguodezaibushunxin，yebunengyouhunwaiqingdexiangfa，neibanzhinengjinidehunyingengzaogao，yidianwanliudekongjianyemeiyou，youyunvrenchuguimeirenhuikuanrong，gengbietinanren。yincinvrenchugui，yidingshidoumeiyouhaoxiachangde，hunyinyaodongdezhenxi，jiaruqueshibuhao，yexuyaohaijidehepingfenshou。