出轨女人回归的心理学：女人“偷情”，就一定是为了“性”吗？

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 nvxingxiangduixingyunanxinglaijiangshiyigexinlizhuangtaiyufamingan，nvxingbujinjinyaohuodesixiangshangdedadao，haixuyaohuodeshenglixueshangdedadao，yiyangnvxinggengyiyuzaoshousunhai，nvhaidexinsibijiaobijiaomingan，huiyouyuyijianxiaoshierquxiangxuduoshier，neicishijiuyufabixulaogongdeshouhou。

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 laogongchongfenkaolvyihoudezhangjiufazhanqushi，jiuxuanququyidigongzuozhong，qiahaolaogongdeqiyeyaozaiyidisheliyigekaochadian，kanyixiayidishibuyizuomaimai，shifouyoufeichangduodekehuziyuan，jiarulaogongquneiligongzuozhong，meiyigeyuedexinshuijiunengshenggaoxuduo，nianmohaihuijixuqudefenhong。

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 wopingshiyaozhaokanxiaohai，daiwaquchengchebingbufangbian，youkenenghuiyizhidachaodanao，neiwoyulaogongpengmiandeshijianjiuyuelaiyuedi，liaotianhuatiyeyuelaiyuedi，youyuwomenbuzaiyiqirichangshenghuo，buqingchushuangfangdexiankuangruhe，laogongyaowoyoujishiyaogentajiang，tahuixiangbanfachuli。

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 kelaogongyuefaneimezuo，wobianyuefajuedegudu，jiandaoqitanvxingshenpangdoushiyoulaogongshouhou，keshiwozhiyougulinglingdeyigeren，woyaolaogonghuijiagongzuozhong，kelaogongyizhiyaowozaidengdeng，dengdaidengzhewojiukongzhibuzhuzishenkumendexinli，jiulejieleyigenanren。

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 womingbaineiyangzuobudui，womingbailaogongsuozuodeyiqiedoushiweilegenghaodijiazhong，taweizheizhongjialifengxianlexuduo，laogongduiyuwoyizhiquanshiguanzhuyiyuyanbiao，zuochuneiyangdeshier，yinweiwohendanxin，kewodexinliqueshishifendegudu，woxuyaonanshengshouhouzishen，laogongdadaobulelewozheizhongdeyaoqiu。

 nanshengyeshiyouzishendejiazhong，wolianglejiebicizhijianzhiyoubaochineiyangdedidiguanlian，wobuyuanyisangshiwenxindejia，nanshengyiyangyebuyuan，lijingyiduanshijiandeshenzhongkaolv，woxianhenanshengjingchuguanlianzaicihuidaodaojiazhong，jiudangyijianshiconglaimeiyouchuxianguo，wonenggengweideduilaogonghao。

 chuguinvrenhuiguidexinlixue？dabufenmeiduifufudoushiyouyuenaicaiwanhun，keenaiyihoumeiyouzudangzhuwaibudeyinyoubianhuiyouxierenwaiyu，jinerrangzheiyiduanfuqiganqingpolie，aimuxurongshirendebenneng，danjirantiaoxuanwanhunjiuxuyaoyizhizhuzheileibennengfanying，rangziyiduihunyinguanxizhongshi。