xuduoshenaideren,laidaobantujiugebendongxile。liyifenshoushi,nanrennengrenshoulaopochuguima?dabufenqingxingquanshinvrenkudewawadaku,nanshengquejiaoweidandingcongrong,xiangjiaoxia,nanrenzailiyifenshoushijiubiandegengwei“wuqing”le。chuguierlihundenvrennengyaoma?
youqishixuduohunwaiqingdelizizhong,laopomenjingchangshuo:“buxiangxintaneimewuqing!”huoshi“taweiheneimawuqing?”
fanfuzhong,nvxingyizhihaichenjinzaiyiqiandemeilizhong,ernanshengquezaoyiwaiyujueqingtililehun。
weishenmenanrenjiunengdadaozheibanjianjue,zheibanwuqing?
状况一:自然环境的危害
nanrennengrenshoulaopochuguima?wojuedexianxunwendahuoer:nimenganjue“wuqing”laiziyuxiantianxingzhuanhuachenghuoshihoutianxingpeiyang?
dabufenrendetiaoxuanquanshi“houtianxingpeiyang“,youyuyigerendegexingyingzaoguanjiankantadefazhanziranhuanjing,eryigenanrendehunyinshenghuogexinghuadepeiyang,yeyingkantadehunyinshenghuoziranhuanjing。
weihebenlaizhujianshihenenai,yexiangyaojizijitouru。danshizhihoutahuizaimaodun、fenqizhongneimawuqing?naizhineimadezisi?
xianeryanshuonanshengdejiatingguanxi,dabufendezhongguoshijiatingshizenyangxiuyangnanhaierdeni?zhibuguobianshiyongzhandouliguanlifangfahequefagoutongjiaoliu。babamamafeichangrongyiculudiluanyongzhetamenzuowei“quanweixing”dequanli,duizishendexiaohaicaiyongzhigaoqiyangdezishi,youqishiduinanhaier,yijuhuacuowujiurumenle。
dabufennianjizai25+denvshixiangchudenanrenairen,quanshizaizheileiducai、yayigandetiaojianxiachengnianrende。
家庭关系营造了她们半辈子的人格特征,因此它们在分开、外遇、离异时秉着的无情的心态,都能够上溯到她们有着着一对“无情”的爸爸妈妈,或是最少在其中一个爸爸妈妈,是极其无情的。 和老公感情不和怎么办?0元领取一次专业分析!
cizhi,jiatingguanxidehuanjingweihaideshirendehunyinshenghuobanbeizi,erhunyinshenghuodeziranhuanjingzezaojiulerenxiabanshengdexinggetedian。
xuduonvxingzhiganjuenanshengwuqing,nanshenglengdan,nanshengzongxiaihuibinanti,danqueshinengyoujigerenkeyibaituofuqiganqingcongdisanshijiaokanlaiqingxi“hunyinshenghuodeziranhuanjing”shihaoshihuai?
hunyinshenghuochulenanti,nvxingbukeyiyizhixiang“tajingranhuineiyangkandaiwo!”“taweiheneimewuqing?”,erbixuchongfenkaolv“tazenmehuiduiyuwoneimewuqing?nandaoshuoshizanmendefuqiganqingbuzuhao?huoshizishenduitadeweihaibuzuduo?”
qianmianyizhongshibaliangrenfangdaolediduideguandian,jiwonanguo,yinweiwobukenengrangninhaoguo,liangrenyiqiandegehezhinengyuelaiyueda,ermeifajiejuekunnan。
erhoumianshibalianggerenzhongjiandechengjianheyuanhenxianxianzhiyibian,dianjizhequlejiezheigerenchuxianyichangdegerenxingwei,quzhaochutahuineimewuqinglengdandeyuangu。
youyujinyouzhaoduiyuangu,ninenggouzhenzhenzhengzhengdechulita“wuqing”denanti。
meirenshiyushengjulaidewuqing,youxieshijiatingguanxideshangbadaozhidelengdan。zheijiubixuhunyinshenghuozhongairendezhangwohewomendeaichixuyuliao,zhizhitabianweiyigejiqing、zhuanyi、wennuanderen。
fanguolai,jiarutayuanbenshiyigexingqingfeichanghaoderen,danshizaihunyinshenghuozhongyouyuairendejiaozong、zisi、suoyaoerbei“cuican”deshiqulejiqing,neimatayuelaiyuewuqingyeshichuyouyin。
状况二:婚姻关系中的过多让步
chuguinanren、nanshengmingquetichuliyi、nanshengsidoubuyuanyizhongguijiazhong...nvxingganjuebierentixiandehen“jiqiwuqing”,danguigenjiediquenizijizaiqingganzhongduitarangbutaiduo。
xuduonvhaizizaihunyinguanxili,fajuenanshengbunengmanzuzishenxuyaodeqingkuangxia,tamenchangjiandeyigefangshiyeshigenjutiliyilairangnanshengrangbu。
youyunanshengzhuyaobiaoxianchubutongyiliyidehua,jinengbiaomingtazaiyizishen,younengzhengshitaaibuaizishen。dangzheiyibanfayouxiaodedeqingkuangxia,nvxingbianhuishoubuleshou,zhixufashenglefenqibianhuijinbuzhuyingyong。
danshi,zheiyizhaoshihunyinshenghuodedaodedixian,bushangpobudeyishibunengyongde。yidannvtuyongduole,nanshengbianhuifama,bianhuijianguaibuguai,suihoubianyaoshuo“lijiuli,woshougoule!”。
cike,nvxingbianhuizhujianzaodongbuan,zhujianhuangkongbuan,youqishifajuehaoxiangqueshiyaosangshilingyifangle,lingyifangqueshiyaotuoliziyile,bianhuixintai180dudazhuanwan。
cike,nvxingbianhuixiangfanrangbu:fangsinanshengdequexian,biezhunanshengdedezui,kuanronglaogongdebuzhengque...yinci,nvxingzaihunyinshenghuozhongdedaodedixianjiuzaizheiliyiciyouyicide“rangbu”zhongjianshaole。
zheileixingdenansheng,tamenbingbuhuisuibiandirenishengqi,zhixutaduiniyeyouyisisiqinggan,tabianhuiyizhiqumanzuni,lejieyouyitiantaquanbudeqinggandouxiaoqianhaoguangle,tabianhuihaobuyouyu、toudoubuhuidewuqinglikai。
zheileizhuangkuangzuisangdeshi:zhujianshinvxingzuo、nanshenghong,zuizhongquebianweinanshengzha、nvxingren。
dangnvxingyishidaonanshengduizishenmeizhiqiandonglexin,duizishenmeizhiqianhaola,tamenbianhuichixucaiyizishen,juededoushiyouyuzishen,ruobushizishenneima“zuo”,yebuhuibananshengnvechengneiyang。neijiuxinlizhuangtaihehaipashiqudexinlizhuangtaiyucitongshixunhuai,nvxingduinanshengdetuoxieherangbuyechixuzengjia。
shijishang,zheileiliyi,nanshenglizhixierizijiunengfuhexingde,keshinvxingzhuyaobiaoxiandeguoduzaiyi,jieguocongyinnixingliyibianweibinglixing,youyunanshenghuranfajuenvxingjiushizuibixuhunyinshenghuodeneiren。
weiheneimeduohenlaoshibajiaohenwenxindenansheng,zuizhongyuelaiyuehenzhahenwuqing?shijishangjiushitafajuelaopofeichangshaoweitakaolvdao,zaiyizishen,zaihunyinshenghuozhongqueshibatashoukushoulei,erbushiyigehuzhuyouaideairen。
tachibuxiaolaopodeyizhisuoyao,tayebixulaopoweizijijiyushiyongjiazhi。
laopozaihunyinshenghuozhong“zuo”shijishangyemeiyoucuo,jinjinbukeyitaimeianquangan,bukeyiyizhiyongliyizheileishilaijiechuannanshengdezhenxinshiyi,zuizhongyouyujiechuanershiquzhenxinshiyi。
状况三:早已找到新感情
meiyoubixunianjiuqing。“ruobushizhaohaolaxiayijia,sheihuineimazhenzhenyoucishuoyaoliqu?”chuguierlihundenvrennengyaoma?
shide,dangyigenanrenduiqiyudenvxingyongqingtaishen,bianhuizhujiankekelaopodegezhonggeyangquexian,jizijideliquxunzhaozuijiadetuoci。
jishiyigejiqiwanmeideqizi,yejingbuzhukeke。zongshinengzhaodaobutaihaodediqu,zhongjiu“renfeishengxian”。
yiqianyuguoyigeqiuzhuzhe,jiatingtiaojianhenfeichanghao,kanqilaiyeshiyibiaorencai,danbianshitebiedezhanhuarecao,jibianjiehunleyexihuanzaiwaibiangousandasi。zhihouyouyutawaiyushuci,zongsuanlilehun,xifudaishangxiaohai,tajieranyishen。
woxunwenta:“haohaodidejialijiushizheiyangsankai,nijuebuhouhuima?”
tashuodao:“yikaishishiyoudianerkexide,keshizishenbianshizhanhuarecao,feichangrongyilianlianbushe‘hongfencongli’,yinciyongyouxinganqingzhihou,yejiuganjueliyimeineiyangmingxianle。”
chuguinanrenquanshizaiquerenhao“lingyijia”zhihouzaizhenzhenyoucidehelaopotiqiliyi,jiarutajinjinwanxia,tashibunengsuibianliyide,zhongjiuliyidefeiyongtebiegao。
yinci,zaiyingduichuguinanrenzheiyijianshiershang,nvrenyaoxuehaofenzhuangkuangyingfuzhangkuan:shichuqihuoshimoqi,shiwanxiahuoshiyongxin,shijingshenshizhihuoshiroushen...meiyizhongzhuangkuangdoushibuyiyangdejiejuezhice。chuguierlihundenvrennengyaoma?
dongleshangbianshuoderuhechulihunyinguanxihou,tiyilaoponenggoujianjiandijiejue,yibuyibulai。
jiarugenbenyuanyinmeiyouchulidehua,jishifuhexingyehuiyicuozaicuo,jiarugenbenyuanyinbudoushizishenzaochengde,nenggouxianjiejuezishenneiyibufen,zaishidangdeqingkuangxiahetayiqiqujiejuekunnan,suihouzaishizhezhecongtoukaishi。
nanrennengrenshoulaopochuguima?ganqing、hunyinshenghuodeqingkuangquanshishifenkeguandeshier,bixuyijumeiyigerendegexing、shijideshier、jiqineishidezhuangkuangquzuoxitongxingdeshijicaozuo、jiejue。
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