zhongnianfuqijiehunyihou,keyiweichidaochuhunzhiqiandeneixietianmeiganbingbushihenduo,zhongniannvrenchuguiyuehuididianyounaxie?neiyangdehunyinshenghuohaoxiangyuelaiyueduodeshiyiwu,shixiguanxing。yeshiyouxuduohunyinshenghuozaibierenlaikanxingfuhemu,meigerenyanxiandeenaifuqi,qishenhoudexiangchumoshiyixiazibeicipole。mengdaolaopohepengyouchuguishenmeyisi?
jinjindahuoerhuizhuangshizheileianninghemudehunyinshenghuofangshi,quanbuzhishenyuhunyinshenghuozhongderen,bianhuipingbaiwugudegaokuanbixinyoulingxidebaohuzhe,bukeyitantao,bukeyigongzhuyuzhong。jinjindahuoeryibiangengkuaidelianmian,weihubaoyangbicizhijiande“anning”hunyinshenghuo。yincihuichuxianyixiezhonglaonianyihunnvrentiaoxuanwaiyulaiduobizishenshijihunyinshenghuozhongdeqingkuanghefenqi。
yiner,zhonglaonianyihunnvrenyousangewaiyugaofengxianhuanjie,nifajuelemeiyou?
第一,夫妇长期性外地两地分居
zhongniannvrenchuguiyuehuididianyounaxie?fuqijiandehunyinguanxishiyigejiazhongdegenji,buguanliangrenshizenmedeqinmihexingfukuaile,danjiaruzhangqixingwaidiliangdifenju,feichangrongyiranghunyinshenghuofashengpinzhijiaodidezhuangkuang:goutongjiaoliujiangdi,“wuxing”richangshenghuo,fuqijiandeyilaiheyicunduhuijiangdi……neiyangbianhuizaochengyifanghuoshibicidewaiyu。
pengyouxiaozhao2021nian37sui,helaogongshiyoutanlianaidaowanhun。liangrenyesuandeshangliangqingxiangyue,qianliyinyuanyixianqiandefufu。jiehunhoudeshenghuomeimanxingfu,danweilegenghaodinenggougenghaodizhuiqiuwanmeiwuzhitiaojian。laogongyingxiangqushenzhengongzuo,youshihouyigeyuehuijiayicinaizhigengshao。
xiaozhaozaijialijiyaogongzuoyouyaozhaoliaoguinvdeyinshiqijuhenianshujiaoyuredianwenti。yinerzaifanmangderichangshenghuo,tameiyoushijianhelaogongqugoutongjiaoliu。erlaogongzaiwaidixiabanlebianhunhunee,yizhixiguanxingweixinshipinliaotianhuoshidianfanguo。danshixiaozhaomeiyouneimeduodeshijian,tayouyueduodeshierbixuzuo。
laogongjuedeshixiaozhaolengmoleta,erxiaozhaoqueganjuelaogongbulijieta。jiushizheiyangbenbianshiwaidiliangdifenjubicizhijianyouyouyixiezhengzhi。xiaozhaozaigongzuoshangpengdaoleyiweiyixingpengyoudeguanxinhezhaoliao。yincizaiyilaierwangdehuanjiezhong,bicizhijianfashenglehaogandubingzhubufazhanzhuangdaweiaimeixi,zaineiyangdetuanduifenweizhong,xiaozhaojuededaobeibierenzhaoliao,beibierenguanaidemanzugan。yincitachuguile。
zuoweilaogongyingdangmingbaizhangqixingwaidiliangdifenju,laopoyigerenzhaoliaojiazhong,zhaoliaoxiaohai,haixuyaojianjuhaodegongzuo,taxinzhongyouhenduodewuzhuheshiwang。xianghuzhijianjiuxuyaoyuyanbiaodaduogoutongjiaoliu,duogoutongjiaoliu,jibianbukeyishenpangzhaoguyexuyaoduojiyuyanshangdejiliheguanai。gengxuyaocongxifudeduozhonggaibianzhongfajuefuqijiandejiedi,jinerlijigaizhengjiazhongdenanti,quanzufenqidezengqiangheairendexinhan。
第二,工作平稳增长期
zheiyishijiandenvshengzuidanduhezixinxin,zheigeshihoudenvxing,taduinanshengdeyikaoyujiatingdejiezhu,xiangduilaishuobijiaoqingyixie。rutongyanglancengshuoguo:“wulunnidewaixingzenyang?wulunnidejiashiruhe,nidouyidingyaoyoudanducaozongrichangshenghuodegongzuonengli,huoxunibingbuchaqian,yexuyouxierengongfengni,danniyinggaiyouyifenzishendegongzuo,shidandudailainidebudandanshiqian,yeshiduliderenge。”
yigerengetezhishangqingshanggaodenvren,gengnenghuodebiedeyixingpengyouderenkehechengzan。yucitongshi,danduzixindenvren,tamenzhidaozishenxuyaodeshishenmeyangziderichangshenghuo。tamenduihunyinshenghuopinzhidexuqiuyulaiyugao,duirenzhinenglidetishengyulaiyuzhongshi。yiner,qingshanggaodenvrenpengdaochuseeryouwendudenanshengshi,tamenhuiqinpeihuijingyang。
haoguimishiyigezerenxintebieqiangdenvxing,yeshiyigeshifenqingshanggaodenvren。genjuzishendechixuqinfen,zhujianmaixianglejituangongsidezhuguanbuwei。buguanyuexin,huoshibiedegongzidaiyuquanshifeichangbucuode,yincizaihaoguimiyanzhong,tanenggouyikaozijirichangshenghuodetebiehao。
rupengdaofuqizhengchaohuoshibiedejiatingjiufendeqingkuangxia,tanenggoushuaimenerchuhaikeyizaiwaimianzuyitaofangnaizhimaiyitaofang。yincitajuedejiazhongduitaeryanshiyigeyouwennuanxingfudediqu,ruguomeiyouai,jinyouzhengzhi,neimahetasuoxunqiudejiatinghemuchabiehenda,yincitabianhuichuxianwaiyudexiangfa,qianwaiyudeyixingpengyouwubishiyouyuchusedeyouaixitadexinlizhuangtai。mengdaolaopohepengyouchuguishenmeyisi?
youshirenmendoushihuiwufashihuaihaoguimiweishenmeshineiyangdeluojisiwei,naizhiyanxiantaneiyangdeshenghuohuanjing。yincizheihelaogongdachaoyijiahou,haoguimihelaogongzhilengbaolibudiaojie,zuihoutabeitadehezuofangsuoxiyinzhu。liangrendapolelihundedaodedixian。
第三,家庭主妇
jinguanjiatingzhufushiruoshirenqun,youyumeiyouyidingdejingjifazhandulinengli。keshijiatingzhufuzeshizuifeichangrongyiwaiyude,tebieshizaizhonglaonianjiatingzhufu,dangxiaohaiqushangxuehuogongzuozhongshi,yigerenzaijiahunhunee,bianhuiyongshoujilaidafashijian。zaisuonanmianguanxinyixieyixingpengyoudeweixinpengyouquanhuoshixianliaolaixiaomoshijian,keshiyouyixiefangshishihenherende,yidanxiguanxingbeinanyigaizheng。
zhuzhaixiaoqugebilinju,meirizhichengdanzhaokanxiaohaizideshenghuoqiju。qitadeshijianjibendoushizaijialiduguo,zhangfugongzuoyehenmang,ganjuejitachongzudeqianyebuhuitaiduodeliuyilaopoderichangrichangshenghuo。yincizheiminggebilinju,zaidoumeiyouxiaohaixiangbandeguochengzhongouerhuirushui,youshihuiwanxiashoujishang。
zaiyigewuyijiandezhongwu,youxierengenjuyaoyiyaojiashanggebilinjuweipengyou。yuanbenyemeishenme,shubuzhiliangrenxianzhemeishi,shundailiaoleqilai。jiushizheiyangmeirizhongwubianchengtamendexianliaoshijian,jianjiandidezheiminggebilinjuxiguanneiyangdexiangchumoshi。mengdaolaopohepengyouchuguishenmeyisi?
2gexianghuzhijianburenshiderennenggougeshujijian,meishenmejihui。buqingchucongheshiqi,zheiminggebilinjuhuibazhongwusuiyuekongchulai,jinjinyinweidenghoushengshupengyoudexianliaoshishikeke。zhangciyiwang,liangrenbianyongyoudiyicijianmian,diyiciyongcan,diyiciyuehui,zuihouchuguilejiazhong,panbianlehunyinshenghuo。
naxiehunyinshenghuo?hunyinshenghuodaibiaozheyiwu,yidanwanhunjiuxuyaodanqiquanbujialideyiwu。hunyinshenghuoshiyigewennuandejiezhu,buguanzaishenmeshihou,doushiyouyigejiarangziyixiuxi。jinguanzhenduihunyinshenghuo,meiyigerendouhuiyouzishendelejie,keshijirantiaoxuanxieshouyisheng,jiuxuyaohuxiangxinren。
zhongniannvrenchuguiyuehuididianyounaxie?yinerzaihunyinshenghuozhong,liangrendouxuyaorenzhenkandai,danfuqijialideyiwu。nengyinweirenhejiekou,yiqiebiaozhunzuoweiwaiyudetuoci。waiyushiyigerenbixufuchuyingyoudedaijiajiaodade,youshibixuyibeizidepeichangyehuanbuhuiyiqiandexingfuhexinlai。fuqijianpengdaonantiyaodiyishijianquchuli,bubiduobi,yebubiyinzangzijidexintai,gengyingrangzishenshiquzishen。
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