出轨后的女人生活表现：女人出轨以后，夫妻生活时会有什么心理？

 liangnianqiandahuodedianshiju《huijiadeyouhuo》libiandehongshixian，chuguihoudenvrenshenghuobiaoxianyounaxie？bianshiyouyujinbujinmeinvdeyouhuo，luoruleailidexianjing，keshitadeneixinyiranshenaizhelinpinrude，tabuyuanyiliyide，buyuanyijiandaozishendefuqiganqingpolie。chuguinvrendebuliangyingxianghuigengbijiaoyanzhong，xuduonvxingchugui，huishiyuanyuduibierendeai，erbushixing。liangdifenjulaopochuguizhengzhaozenmekan？

 zuizhongshihuidaojiazhongdengdaideshijianjianjiandidanhuayiqie？huoshiyidaoliangduangezougejieni？buguannayizhong，tadexinlizhuangtaiyidingfashenglejiaodadezhuanbian。

xiabianlejieyixiazhei2genvxingzaiwaiyuhou，duifuqixingshenghuoshishenmeyangdexintai？

一、我是婉拒的，如今的我只想离异

 chuguihoudenvrenshenghuobiaoxianyounaxie？xiaowuhelaogongbingbingbushilianaiziyou，zhishizaibamadejihuaxia，xiangqinyuehuijieshide。youyuliangfangbabamamazaoqianjingliyixieqingfen，yincihenqidaikandetamenxijieliangyuan。

 zaibamadecuicuxia，lianggerencongcongdijiehunle。yizhaobabamamadejiaofa，“tashigehenhaodenanhaier，woyijingbangnijiangtongguanle，bulejienenggoujiehunhoujianjiandizhangwo，qingganquanshibixuzhujianyangchengde。”

wanhunyihou，xiaowucaifajuetashoushangyouhenduotajieshoubuleledequexian。

 tashiyigefeichangdianxingde“baomanan”，meiyigeyuezhengdeqiandourushushangjiaodaomama，zishenzhiliuyidianlinghuaqian，danshirichangshenghuozhichushiyibihendadeshuliang，youshiyaotaoqian，zhinengzishentaoqian。

 meiyicixunwentaxuyaoqian，tadouyanfandishuo：“bujiuqianbingbushijiguoqulema？ruheyaohuaneimeduodeqianni？xiangyaonizishenwenmanaqu。”

xiaowuyiduziqi，tadegongpoyekanbuqita，laogongjihuquanshibangzhejiaponeili，yiduzidebiequbuzhidaozenyangqingtu。

 yicipengyoujuhuishang，pengdaoledanliantashijiniandelaotongxue，tazhidaotahuodebutaihao，chixushudaota，rangtakaixingaoxing，taquanbudebiequdoushuolechuqu，neixinqingqingsongsongduole，yucitongshiyeduiyanxiadezheigerenzaochenglehaogandu。

 zaijiujingdezuoyongxia，lianggerenfashengleguanxi，keshiguohoutajiandingbuyidishuohuidengta。huiqulezhihou，tazaoyijuedinglihunlele，keshibabamamahejiapodoubutongyi，tazhiyaoxiangbaituozheiyishengu，jizijidexingfukuaileyingyongyici。liangdifenjulaopochuguizhengzhaozenmekan？

laogongyaoxiangzhongyuan，taquanshijujuejieshoude，youyutabuyuanzaihetayourenhedelianxile。

二、我选择躲避，心里感觉很内疚

 xiaohuizhiqianshixiaohua，rongmaochuse，yushengjulaibianshigejiaren。jibianzaoyiwanhun，fengcaiyeyidianbujiang，shenpangyijiuyouhenduozhuiqiuzhe，keshidoubeitajujuele。

laogongdaitafeichanghao，lianggerenyemeiduojiujiuyongyouaiqingdejiejing。

 keshiyongyouxiaohaizhihou，juedeyiqiedoubianle，tayuanxianfengzichuoyuedetixingzhujianzouxing，tayuanxiannenbaizhengjiedeliandanerzhujianqiban，jianjiandidetazhujianyuelaiyuezibeile，erlaogongyitiandaowanmangdebuxiangwanglai，chedimeiyouzaiyitadexinlizhuangtaizhuanbian，tabiandegengjiabuzixinle。

 yicigongsizuzhidujialvyou，tayuanbenyaoxiangliudaojiazhaoliaoxiaohai，keshiyouyuhaozhangshijianmeiyouchulaisansanbule，jiubaomingcanjiale。

 lvyoudeqingkuangxia，yigeyangmutayijiudenanhaizizaiduxiangtagaobai，shuobuzaiyitazaoyiwanhun，zaitaxinlitarengranshiwanmeiwuquede。haojiumeiyouduguohuayanqiaoyudexiaohuiyixiazichunxindangyang，yishiguiluanshenmijiufashengleguanxi。liangdifenjulaopochuguizhengzhaozenmekan？

 huijiahou，taganjuetebiehouhuimoji。jiandaolaogongyuerzi，yeshiganjuecankuidewudizirong，muguanghaipamianduilaogong，zaodongbuan、zishenchize，nanyishihuaizishen，rujindeta，yebuzhidaogairuhexuanzele。

hunyinshenghuobixuzhongshicaikeyizhangqi，yidanwaiyu，hunyinshenghuobianhuifashengwufaxiubudeliefeng，liyikenengshiyouxuan。

 chuguinanrendabufenshiroutichugui，youshijiushiweilenengdadaozishentouhuandexinlizhuangtai，tadeneixinmianhuoshishenaizhezishendexifude。

 chuguihoudenvrenshenghuobiaoxianyounaxie？erchuguinvren，haoxiangshiqueshiruguobuaile，tadeneixinyidingduijizhehenduobumanyi，caihuiciwaizhaoxunxinlingjituo，nvxingdewaiyudaliangdeshilaogongjingshenchugui，yidanchansheng，jiunanyiwanliu。