男子出差回来发现妻子出轨，我出差后发现妻子出轨怎么处理？

 “waiyu”yici，buqingchushashihouzhujian，zaishehuishenghuozhongzhujianhuoyuexingqilai。wochuchahoufaxianqizichuguizenmechulibijiaohao？woyebuzhidaoshixiandaishehuidesixiangjinbuduiwaikaifang，huoshishehuijingjifazhandelingyizhongjixing，haoxiang“waiyu”bianchengyizhonglisuodangrandezhuangkuang，bingqiezheigezhuangkuangxianjieduanyuelaiyuejilie。gushihouyaobeijiyuyanxingde“hongxingchuqiang”，rujinyebianchengyixienvxingxianbaidezichan。nvrenchuguilihunhoudejiejuyounaxieni？

你还是敢公出吗？

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感情比但是热情吗？

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 lejiezishenzangbuzhule，xiaominyejiutiaomingle：zailiangnianqian，tamendefangdaichedaiyalifeichangda，limouweilegenghaoditigaozijidexiaoshouyeji，laidaoyidigongchule2geyue，yejiushizaikuaiyigeyuedeqingkuangxia，xiaominchuguilediyigenansheng——taguoqudenanguimi。

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生活需要热情，但并不是放肆

 shijishang，zaixiaominyongyougennanguimichanshengdejianjiedeqingkuangxia，biaomingtadechongdongdabailekeguan，tagenwangmoudelianaiyebiandeyuelaiyuebuchunzhen。zheiyiqie，wangmoubeimaizaiguli，yirujiwangdishenaizhezishendelaopo，zheiduitaeryanshiqueshicanren。nvrenchuguilihunhoudejiejuyounaxieni？

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fuqixiangchubingbuyidingduomedemingxiande“feifan”，niyanliyouwo，woyanliyouleni，jiushizheiyangpingdanrushuide，zhenbang！

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