婚姻里一个精神出轨的人，你认为应该原谅吗？老婆精神出轨能原谅吗

 jianjushiyizhonghenguguaidewupin，nenggouranglianggesuweimoumianderenyuelaiyuewuhuabutan，laopojingshenchuguinengyuanliangma？quehaikeyishi2geenaiyoujiaderenyuelaiyuemeihuakeshuo，zhizhibicizhijianyujunbieyufangyan。duocizuomengmengdaolaopochuguishenmeyisi？

有些人说，间距是一种很古怪的物品，能够让俩个素未谋面的人越来越无话不谈，却还可以使2个恩爱有加的人越来越没话可说，直至彼此之间与君别于房檐。

jiuliruzuorizaimouganqingzhibofangjianqingtudesunxiansheng，xiabianrangwomenyiqiyiqilaikankansunxianshengdeshijiyihuo。

 laopojingshenchuguinengyuanliangma？sunxiansheng2021nian37sui，yuxifuwanhun8nianyouyigetaorenxihuandeguinv，tayulaopogangwanhunshi，laopoyeshiyouyifenhenchusedexinchougongzuozhong，jinjinzhihouyouyuguinvdelailin，laopocaipobudeyicidiaogongzuozhong，huijialezuojiatingzhufu。

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 sunxianshengshuo，neishiwulunziyizaiwaimiangongzuozhongyouduolei，huijialezhixujiandaoguinvhelaopo，tazongshinengjuededaoyizhongshifangyaliyuxingfukuaile

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由于在这一段期内他与老婆在家里，除开互相缄默以外，便是为孩子教育难题和一些家庭琐事争执。

 jiuzaiqianbujiu，sunxianshengyouyugongzuozhongyalifeichangda，zaizaijiashang，jiazhonglideyixiesuoshiyoubuzhidaoruhequhelaopogoutongjiaoliu，yinciweilegenghaodihuanjieyali，tayongweixinyaoyiyaojialeyigeshengshunvxing。

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 sunxianshengbuyuanliyi，tazhihougenlaopoyebiaoshuguo，zishenyizhimeiyoujianguoneiyigeshengshunvxing，kelaopojiushuo，guannianwaiyuherentiwaiyuyiyangwocuo。

sunxianshengzuizhongshuotahaishenaizhelaopo，yincibuyuanyiliyi，wen，tayinggaizenmeban？

听完孙先生的小故事，我一时之间确实不晓得该说些什么好啦？

 youyuwocongsunxianshengdehunlianwentili，kandaoledajiadabufenrendaohunyinshenghuoguoquleqinianzhiyangyihou，suozhidaozaoyudezhuangkuang。duocizuomengmengdaolaopochuguishenmeyisi？

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 buqingchugeweiyouwukanle，zairebodianshiju《zaiyuanfang》yiqiandeyibujujiao《yujianxingfu》，jiarugeweiyoukanlezheiju，neimaniyidinghaihuijixuhaijideguojingfeibanyandehuangfuyanyan。

 huangfuyanyanyecengyouyulizhigongzuoyalibubeilaopolejie，zhenghaozheishihouyouyiweinianqingjinglidenvqianpengyou，yuhuangfuyanyanzoudehenqinmijiechu，zhihoubeihuangfuyanyanlaopolejiehou，huangfuyanyanyechadianeryulaopotaruliyidelumian。duocizuomengmengdaolaopochuguishenmeyisi？

danzhihouliangrenhuoshiyouyubicixiangaimeiyouliyi。

 yinciwomenzaihuiguotoulaizaikansunxianshengdenanti，jiarutabuyuanyiliyi，queshishiyouyuhaishenaizhelaopo，wojianyisunxianshenghebuquchudangshizhuilaopodesixu，zaicongxinhelaopotanyitan。

 jiarutanguoyihou，ruoshilaopotiaoxuankuanrong，qidaisunxianshengwanghouyusheng，douxuyaohaohaodiailaopo，yexuehaohaohaodiyulaopogoutongjiaoliu。

 laopojingshenchuguinengyuanliangma？ruolaopozuihouhuoshijianchixuli，yeqidaisunxianshengyeqianwanbiequjiuchanbuqing，gengbunengquguailingyifang，zhongjiushizishenzuocuozaixian。youyuwulunlaopolihuolibule，quanshitatiaoxuandeyishizhuxingyurenshengdaolu。