妻子出轨后的婚姻还能幸福吗？选择原谅的男人过得幸福吗？

 shuodaowaiyu，henduorendouxiangqiyigejieguobianshiyiliyishouwei，qizichuguihoudehunyinhainengxingfuma？danbingbingbuyidingdechuguinvrenhou，doushihuilaidaoliyideneiyibu，youyixienanshengmingzhidaozishendexifuchuguile，rengranhaihuijixutiaoxuankuanrong。neiqizichuguihou，tiaoxuankuanrongdenansheng，tamenrujinguodexingfukuailema？chuguihouganqingbiyuanlaigenghaoshiweihe？

老先生

 wohexifuzaiyiqi10shunianle，wozhendeshihenaixibicizhijiandehunyinshenghuode，ketazhenduiwomendehunyinyizhiquanshihuaizheyigebuwenbuhuodexintai，wozhendeshibuqingchuyinggaizenmebanle？tazhiqianpanbianguowomendehunyin，wokuanrongguotayici，kerujintayouchuguile。

 shuoshihua，tadiyicichuguideqingkuangxia，jiazhongquanbuderendouxuyaowoxuanzehetaliyi，dantagenwoshuo，tawaiyujinjinyishidebulizhibale，qiuwoyuanliang，tazhihoucongcibunengle。woneishihoukandaowodehaizihaixiao，keshiwoduitayeyouqinggan，jiuxuanyongleyuanliang。

 qizichuguihoudehunyinhainengxingfuma？dajiazhihouyeshiyouguoquleyiduanfeichangxingfuderizi，huoxushiyouyutaganjueduiwomendehunyinjuededaoyouqineijiudeyuanguba。jiazhongquanbudeshier，tadoushihuiqingxidefeichangdehao，zhenduiyeshifeichangdeguanxinheguanzhu，wodangshihaiganjuewoyuanliangshiduide，womenkeyineiyangdekuailexialai。

 kebingmeiyouxiangqi，woyuanliangbuguoshiyiniandeshijian，tayoupanbianlewomendehunyin，chuguileyigebitabianxiao8suidenansheng。xianzaiwoqueshiganjuewodangshiyuanliangbianshiyigecuowudejueding，ruguowodangshihetaduandeyichenburande，xianzaiwoyebuhuibazijiderichangshenghuoguodeyitahutude。

孔先生

 wojinguanshuokuanronglewodelaopo，danwozishizhizhongdouganjueneixinyouqidenanshou，meiyicihetazhengchaodeqingkuangxia，wodoushibaneiyangdeshiernachulaieryanshi。bingbushizijitiaomaobingzuo，yebushiwohenxihuantiguoqu，danmeiyicihetazhengchaodeqingkuangxia，wozhendeshimeiyoubanfacaozongdezhuzishen。

 woheqiziwanhunyeshiyou15nianle，wozhendeshimeiyouxiangguowodelaopohuipanbianwomendehunyin，zheizhongshierqueshijiushiwomeiyoubanfayiliaohuodede。dangshihuozhitawaiyudeqingkuangxia，woshixiangguoyaohetaliyide，dantaneishiqianxinwankudeqiqiuwo，woyishijianyejiuyourouguaduanle。chuguihouganqingbiyuanlaigenghaoshiweihe？

 woneishirenweiwoliangjieletayihou，womenderichangshenghuoyiranhuixiangzhiqianyiyangde，danmeiyouxiangqiduibuqi。dajiadeaiqingjibenjiumeiyoubanfafanhuizhiqiandemoyang，yidiandianxiaoshiqing，dajiadounenggouchaonaoshengyouqideqiangda，naizhichaowanjiayihou，haihuijixulengbaoli。

 nenggoushuocheng，dajiarujindehunhoushenghuoqueshimeiyoubanfafanhuiguoqule，meiridounaogebuduan，ertawaiyudeshier，yehaoxiangyigenciyiyang，zhazaiwodesangzili，gaodewofeichangdenanshou，buqingchuziyijiujinggairuhedequduidaita。

陆先生

 woqizichuguile3nian，woyebuzhidaozijidangshishiweileshenmekuanrongde，huoxuyouyuxiaohaihaibixutazheiyimama，huoxushiyouyudajiadezheizhongjiazhonghaibixutazhaoliao。danwoliangjieletawaiyudeshier，dajialiangrenyejihushimeiyoushenmeganqingle，guodehaoxiangwairenyiyang。

 zaiwohexifudezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuozhong，wozhendeshimeiyouganlenaxiebaoqianwodelaopodeshier，woduitahaikeyishuochengfeichanghaode，shiwozheigerentailaoshibajiaole，burongyishuoxieshenmehuayanqiaoyu，buzenmehuihongwodelaopo，yinci，tayejiutiaoxuanpanbianlewomendehunyin，tiaoxuanchuguile。

 huozhitawaiyudeqingkuangxia，wozhendeshijuededaoyouqidezhenjingde，youyuwojihuyemeiyouxiangguowodelaopohuishirucideyigenvren。tahaigenwoshuo，tadeairenhuihongtagaoxing，huihetajianghuayanqiaoyu，jinguanshineiyang，dantayejihuyemeiyouxiangguoyaogenwoliyi。chuguihouganqingbiyuanlaigenghaoshiweihe？

 wohoubianhuoshitiaoxuankuanronglewodelaopo，dandajialiangrenrujinchedishifenliwuzishuide，yinweiwobuyuanyihetashuizaiyiqi。dajialiangrenrujinzheizhongyewanwanquanquanshiweilebaobaobale，zhuyaoshixiangrangxiaohaiyouyigewanshandejiazhong，huoxuzhihoudajialiangrenyeshihuilaidaoliyideneiyibude。

 qizichuguihoudehunyinhainengxingfuma？waiyutiaoxuankuanrongdehunyinshenghuo，shuoxingfukuaileshijishangyeshiburongyide，youyuwulunzenyangshuodouhao，sunhaizishizhizhongquanshichanshengguoqule，jiusuanshitiaoxuanlekuanrong，danyehuibianchengzishenneineixinzoubuguoqudeyidaokan，gesanchawudehaihuijixucizishenyixia。