女人梦见自己出轨是什么意思，女人如何做到自我保护，有哪些办法？

 jinqichixufashenglexuduolingrentongxinde“nvshishouqinhaishiqing”，nvrenchuguizuijiandandeshibiefangfashishenmeni？qixianbeichengzuozuizhengjiedeqianchidapaimingxingzhang，jiekailerendebenxingzuiyinandeyimian；suihoushialibabaguanliceng，yeshiyiduilingrenmudengkoudaide“shencaozuo”。nvrenmengjianzijichuguishishenmeyisi？

henduorendouhennaonu，keshinaonuyihouni？

youmeiyourenkexueyanjiuyixiazheigewenti：

1.weishenmenvrenyizhibeizheizhong“xingbushizhe”suoshang？

2.duiyigenvreneryan，fangfanyishijiujingyouduomenan？

fangfanyuweiran，caisuanshizhenzhenzhengzhengduice，jinyouqiangliekangyimeiyousikao，zhinengrangsunhaiwujiezhidichanshengxialai。

youxierenshuo，zhenzhenzhengzhengdeduicebianshirangzheishijiedeerenshaoyixie，genggaideyingdangshinanxing。

 nvrenchuguizuijiandandeshibiefangfashishenmeni？keshiwoyidingyaoyaozhuzhongyixia，youyulishirenwendeyuangu，zheishijie，nvshizaixuduoqingkuangxiabianshichuzailieshiyingxiangli，zaineiyangdeqingkuangxia，nvshizenyangziwobaohu？

dalanghenzhongyao，keshijiaohui“guowangdexinyi”jianbielang，yehenzhongyao。

zuixianyaocongjiechuanzheizhong“xingbushizhe”de“xinlizhuangtaicaozong”zhaoshuzhujian。

 shehuixinlixuefajue，zheizhongsuoshuode“xingbushizhe”doushiyouxiangside“xinlizhuangtaixinaoshu”，dayueyou4zheileizhaoshu，qidaiquanbudenvhai，yidingyaodong！jinyoujianbielezheizhonglaogongdezhaoshu，nicaibuyibalangdanglaolao。

1.权威性光晕

 dajiafajue“xinglveduozhe”tongchangquanshiyouzheyidingde“shehuiziyuanzhe”，tamentongchangyouyizhong“quanweixingguangyun”，rangnvxingyouyizhongrenzhipiancha，ganjuezheiyangderen，shibutaikenengsunhaizishende。

 liruzhangyunyongtadedapaimingxingguangyun，eralibabaguanlicengyunyongtadeshehuizhenshishenfen，zaiguowai，yiqianyouyigexqlejibaimingmeishaonvdeyishinasaer，wangwangzhangqixingnenganranwuyang，bianshiyouyuxuduoshouhairenshuo，zheiyi“xingbushizhe”kongzhizheizhongnvshengjianxin，tashiyimingyishi，yishimeiyoucuo，tazuodeyiqiedoushiweilegenghaodirangnikanbing。

 tamenhuishiyongzheileiguangyun，bazijidegerenxingweihelixing，lirurangnilaipeichang，shiyinweiqiyedeshichangxiaoshou；nizaoshouxingqin，yeshi“yunyongnvshiyoudian”，yiqieshiweilegenghaodi“gongzuozhong”。jiaruwobuzuo，jiubiaomingnibushihenqinfen，nibushihenqinfen，bianhuisangshigongzuozhong，huoshisangshiyiqiejiyu……

2.社会发展证实

“xingbushizhe”zuinashoude，bianshijinideleisilaishuodongni。

 nvrenchuguizuijiandandeshibiefangfashishenmeni？liruyoumingde“xingbushizhe”aipositan，huiyongbiedemeishaonvlaizhengmushouhairen。zheiyidianhezhangdezuofahenleisi。zaiwomenjiandaozanmendeleisiyejienalezheileisuoshuode“neimu”deqingkuangxia，dajiajiujiyichansheng“congzhongxiaoying”：jirandajiadouneiyang，weihewoxianghuijue？nvrenmengjianzijichuguishishenmeyisi？

 liruzaizhirenyuanchangshang，xuduonvhaiyikaishidoupianxiangyuhuijuelingdaodexingqinfan，keshikanjianbiedenvhaide“renqitunsheng”，tamentongchangyehuizhujianyaobaibuding，ganjuezigeshifou“tebiemingan”，“taijiaoqing”？

 zaiwodezixunzhong，haiyudaoguoyoudenanshangsihuirangbeitahuyoudeshuxiabangtaquzuobiedenvhaideshuodonggongzuozhong，shouhairen，bianchengweihuzuochangzhe。

3.贪得无厌对策

 quanbude“xinglveduozhe”doushanyu“fucongxingceshi”。tamendoushihuicongyigexiaoguidingzhujian，ruguoniyunxulezheizhongxiaoguiding，tamenbianhuichixushengjitamendeguiding。

 liru，zaialibabaanzhong，shouhairenshizaitaifengtianbeishangsiqiangzhiguidingsuitonggongchude。zheiyiguidingyouyixietaiguo，danconggongzuozhongshijiao，haoxiangyouyouyidingdehelihua；nvhaitongyile；suihoulingdaodangnvshengshuo：“niqiaoworangnisongguolaiyigemeinv。”erqieguidingnvhaichixuyinjiutaohaoguke。zheiyeshidangzhongyoujihuaxuenvhai，erqiezuodeyufataiguo。nvrenmengjianzijichuguishishenmeyisi？

youshuo，weishenmenvshengtongchangnanyihuijueni？

youyu“xinglveduozhe”huiyongerzhongcaozongshu。

 yizhongshiweixieliyou：weixieliyoufeichangjiandan，bianshishili，jiarunitingcongwo，wojinihaochu；ruguobutingcong，neimeniaixidezuoyejiumeiyoule。

 yizhongshizhuangcanzhuangmeng：xuduo“xinglveduozhe”shifenshanyu“yuyanbaoli”，tamenhuigennvshengshuo，jiarutabufuhetadeguiding，neimatabianhuipengdaohendadebubian；tayeyouduotongchu。lirutamenyaoshuo：wozhendehaoaini，wozhishixiangbaoyibaobale，baoyixia，wobianliqu。

tamendemaicanbianhuijiqixuduonvhaizide“shengmuxin”，yidanfangyubeitisheng，xiamiantamenjiumingmuzhangdanle。

4.沉淀成本

 henduorenmeifamianduixianshizhongdesunhai，yincibianhuixiangduguiyiyang，bujinbuhuilikailingnvexingdeguanlian，fandaochixuzijintouru。liruyigewanhun10niandenvxing，yongyouxiaohai，laogongzheishiwaiyu，neimazheizhongnvxingbianhuirenweizhei10niandeyishengbeihuidiaole，tadiyigefanyingshiyaoxiangxiubuguanlian，neiyangtaderenshengdaolujiuguibiledaobi。

 biliyinvrengengkeliandeshizheixiebei“xingqianglve”denvxing，tamendeguanliancongyikaishibianshiwentide，keshidangnanrenchengnuotamenyixiequanyideqingkuangxia，lirurangniqian，rangnijinshengdejiyuhuoshixuweidibiaodaaiyizheixieyinyoudeqingkuangxia，tamenqidaizishenbeinvedelijingshilingrennanwangde，tamenjiuxuanyonglerennai，danzheizhongjiushiyizhongxiangxiang，zuizhongtamenfajue，jiadeyeshijiade，buguannizenmehuozaimengli，niyijiuyaoyingduishiqing，neibianshizheigerenbingbushibenren，jinjinyitoumengshou。

yinciwojuedequanquanshijiedenvxing，yidingyaogaoqingchu，yiqieguanliandouwubiyouzhongshizheiyibiaozhun。

nvxingwubiyaodaodedixian，dajiabubiquzhituzheixiebushuyuzanmendewupin。

 jiaruyigerenchangshishinifangqinidedaodedixian，neimaniyidingyao“bu”，jiaruyinernishiqugongzuozhong，zaoshoulesunhai，neizheiyisunhaishijishangshihaikeyichengdande，youyuniyaogaoqingchu，zheiyishishangnijuyoudeyiqiedoushipingzhengtishilihuodede。

 nvrenchuguizuijiandandeshibiefangfashishenmeni？ninengfajue，zheishijiezuizunjingde，shizhongshizheixiemingbai“shuobu”，shanyu“shuobu”deren。