令天蝎男出轨的女人是如何的，一位已婚女人的纠结

 zaiyiduanhunyinshenghuoqingganzhong，aiyouduoshen，qingyouduoqie，meikushangjihuitongchangburongyigaoqingchu。juxiezuonvrenrongyichuguima？keleishuitangruoliuduole，neikexinhuoxujiubeinisile，hunyinshenghuohuoxujiujieshule。lingtianxienanchuguidenvrenshiruhede？nanrenchuguishinvrendeyinyouhaishitazijidebujiandingbijiaoduoni？nvrenchuguilenanrenyaoruhezuoni？baiyangnvchuguijilvyouduoshao？

 zainanaodehunyinshenghuozhong，fufuzongshihuiyushangyixiedanxindexinwozi，huihuranyingduiyixiepingchangxiangxiangbuchudebiequ。youyixiebiequyibeiziyewangbule，yueluoleiyuebiequ，quezhiyouzishenjixuxiaqu，meiyousheikeyixiezhuzishenbaituo。

weishayizhizaiyeshenrenjingdeqingkuangxiaqiaoqiaoliulei？weihezainiyanqian，wozaiyemeiyouwailuguoweixiao？

 bingbushiwodeyanleiduo，niyinggaibiwoqingxiya。chukaiwoyuni，meiyoudisangerennenggaoqingchuwoxinzhongdebiequ。wodounengxiangsheijiangsuneiyiduanduantongchudejiushi，wodounengqunazhaoxunneixindekuanwei！

 juxiezuonvrenrongyichuguima？zaihunyinshenghuozhong，youhenduoshangxinderen，douyiqianyouyumouzhongshiererzaochengguozheileigantan。hunyinshenghuohuoshiyuanxianneiyigehunyinshenghuo，danshizuixihuandezheigeguniangqueaishangletaren，zaoyibuhuishidangshineiyigebazijidangzuoshangpinderenle。

 youhenduofufuyiqianbabicizhijiandangzuoleshangpin，yiqianlishishuowoainiyishengyishi。yihanzhihoumeiduojiu，yigerenjiuchuguile，zaihunwailianzhongaishanglelianren，yaoxiangliyi。

01、应对出轨的痛楚，很多人不清楚要不要离婚

 zaimeimanhunyinjiazhongzhong，haofufuyidingshigengjialejiedeguanlian。jinyourucicaikeyichixutigaobicizhijiandexinyoulingxi，caikeyigengqianglumianduijianglaidekankankeke。

 yihandeshi，youhenduodejiatinghunyinkanjianhenxiangxifeichangxingfu，shijishangbingmeiyouneimaxiangxihexingfukuaile。youtaiduodefufu，budanmeiyouzaihunyinshenghuozhongtigaoqinggandexinyoulingxidu，jiulianxinlaidouzaoyimohubuqingle，jiulianbicizhijiandemianrongdouzaoyibiandeyuelaiyueshengshule！

 zaihunyinshenghuojiagouxiadeganqingzhong，meiyouleishuidetouru，fuqiguanxihenyoukenenghuiquefaxiefenwei。leishuiqueshinenggourangfufujiandaobicizhijianneikeqingliangtongtoudexin。danshihaiyouxuduoqingkuangxia，leishuiyehuiwuxiao。

rutongzheixieyijingbeihunwailiansunhaizhederen，tongchangdouguodehenbiequ。tamenxianglihun，youshebudeliyi。

 yiqian，tamenhaipaxiangxiang，duizishenhenhaodelingyibanjuranyehuiwaiyu。tamengengwufaxiangxiang，chuguiderenjinghuixiandeneimawuqing。haoxiang，buguanwozenmeyoukuyounao，nidexinlihuoshijinyoulianren，zaoyimeilewodeyingxiangli。

 xuduobeihunwaiqingsunhaiderenxiqujiaoxun，haoxiangjinyoujiena“yunshi”defenpei。benrenweiqingganzaoyiwuguantongyang，nenggousilexinlikai，queyouzongshijiangyaofenkaideshihoucaiganshoudaowunai，yuanxianzishenbushedeliyi。yinci，zhiyouguoyitiansuanyitian。nanaozhe，tongchuzhe，jianchibuxiezhe，buzhidaonatianhuiaotingzhi。

zaiyiduanhunyinshenghuozhong，rangyigerenzuitongxin、zuiwuzhudeshiershisha？

 yinggaishiyingduilianrenwaiyushi，yingduihunwailianshideneixiedanxinhetongchu。buqingchuziyigaibugailihun，buqingchuhainengfouxunzhaoanweizijideyuanyin，buqingchujianglairuheyingdui。

02、出轨的人重归，还非常值得谅解吗

 dabangeyueqianshoudaoleyiweinvshiyueduzhezhichudeyigenanti：ninshuohunyinshenghuozhongyigenvrenzuiwuzhudeqingkuangxiashishenmeshihou，woshifousuanwukenaihewunaiderena？

 jiujigeweijiangyijiangzheiyishiliba，woliangliaoqi8cile。zheiyilizishiyiwei32suidenvxingyingduihunwailianshidetongchuhedanxin，tawobuzhidaogaizenmexuanze。

 tajiang：2geyueqian，waiyusanniandezhangfuzongsuanhuijiale。tadelianrenhetafenshou，jiajileleqitanansheng。takuzhexiangwozhinengrenlecuo，shuosannianlaibiequwole，xiangyuwohaohaoshenghuorizi，yidinghaohaoaiwo。

 wobenyingkaixin，kejiukaixinlebushangyitian，jiucongcikaixinbuqilaile。wokanletadeshoujishang，tayiranhaizaiheneinvrenqiaoqiaolianluozhe，jinguanfenshou，kehuoshiyoudianaimei，changchangwenbierenheshiyoushijianchigefan。yaobushiweilegenghaodi7suidexiaohai，woqueshibukenengzaiyuanliang。

 wohuranhenhouhuimoji，sannianqianweihemeihetaliyi？wohouhuimojidangshishashadedidengtahehaoruchu，houhuimojiaishanglefuxinderen。

 sannianqianba，zidatachuguizhihou，dajiachaojiahenshucijia。tashuodaowozulantazhaoxunganqing，shuowojinzaoqushilehao，jitamenlianrenrangzuo。neishihouwowangbudiaoxiaohai，jiuyouzhetale，zhixubuliyijiukeyile，qitabuhuizaiguanta。

 congneiyihou，dajiajiujibenshangmeiyoushuizaiyiqiguo，wohaijidehenqingxi，sannianjinyouwuzhudesanci。neihuoshitayulianrenzhengchaodeqingkuangxiayaowokuanweita，yaowopeita。pingchang，jishiwoxianyinqin，tayebuzailiwo。

 tayuqingrenfenshouzheilianggeyuelai，wozhujiankanqingchuletadetianxing，tabuzhiwoxihuan。wohentongchu，meirizaoshangquanshikuxing。zaixinli，woliangdeneiyiduanfuqiguanxizaozaoyishengshule，wojiujingtugeshenmeya？

 meimeihuadengchushang，wobianxianglihun，jiuxiangduozheta。wobuyuanyishitazaipengwo，taquemawojiadanbo。meimeidaodabaitian，woyoudanxinliyi，pasangshijiazhonghexiaohai。zaiqiyeli，wozhuangzheshenmeshiqingdoumeichansheng。fanhuijiazhong，wobiantongxinliulei。

 shijishangyinianqian，woneixinyeshiyounanshengle，womendoushihunwaiqingren。tashiwomenpengyou，biwoxiao6sui，haimeiyouwanhun。tatengwo、zaihuni，taxiangwoqiuguohun，wohaijujuele。xianzaiwojiuzaixiang，jiarutazaidulangmanqiuhun，wohuoxuhuitongyita。

wogaizenmezuoa，.wo32sui，woyaobuyaolihuna，xubuxuyaojiajilepengyoua？

03、为了更好地一个不在意自身的人凑合，不值

 wonenglejienideqingxu，nidequetingwukenaihe，keshiniyelinshishiquhunyinshenghuodezongtimubiao。yingdangtebiezhuyibubixiaoji，bubimangran，xunsuxuanze。

 xiangyixiangsanniandebiequ，bingbushimeiyigenvxingdounengjianchibuxiexiaqude。sannianlai，nidejialichedijiushiniyigerenzhichengdianchulaide，zheiyidianhenbujiandan。

 zainidexinli，hunyinshenghuoqingganmeiyishimeiyikedoudaishangtongxindeganshou。2geyueqian，nizongsuandengdailetadezhonggui，xianglaiyezongsuanxuehuilehunyinshenghuoheganqingdeguanlian。nidengdebingbingbushisunhainidezhangfu，zhishiyizhongjianchibuxiedezerenganyuxinnian。

 niyizhizaibaochizhelihundexiangxi，zhixingzheduijiazhongdeyiwu。zheidangzhongdegudan，yebingfeisuoyounvhaizidounengchengdande。niyeyoucuo，niwaiyushikeguanshishi。nidangshidequeyingdangliyi，erbushiwaiyu，zheiyeshizishensunhai。

 keshixiangfanjiang，nizhangfuchuguizaixian，guanjianzhizezaita，meiyouni。genghekuang，waiyudenirengranzaishouhuzhehunyinshenghuo，rengranzaizhaoliaozhexiaohai，yexuehuihuijuelianrendelangmanqiuhun。jinguanninyoucuo，danbinizhangfudecuoxiaodeduo。yiqieyiwubenyingtadanfu，tayewubidanfuyiqiejieguo。

 qingganzhongjiuzheiyang，dajiachangshuoyuhexiongzhangbunengjiangu。niyinggaizaoyixiangdonglezishenyuanyideshisha，jinjinquefaleyigeyuanyinbale。wojiniyigeyuanyin，nixiangyixiangshifouzheicishiqing。

 zainizuijiannan、zuinanguodeqingkuangxia，shijiujingshisheinijianchibuxiexiaqudexinyang？nineixinhenqingxi，shinidehaizi，haiyounidezheiweilianrenpengyou。bulunshishei，neiyigeshiyongzheniderendoubushinizhangfu！

 nizhangfuzhinengweihaini，liqutashizuishouxuandexuanzexiang。jiusuandanshenyibeizi，yebizaitashenpangchiruhuozhuhaoxie，neijiushianwutianri，yongyongyuanyuan。youguanjianglai，nizijihexiaohaicaisuanshizuizhongyaode，nideyihoushizuiyouxianxuanzexuanzexiang，xiaohaishidieryouxianxuanzexuanzexiang，lianrenshizuizhongxuanzexiang。

 nizijisuanxiajiumingbaile，nijiuzhidaobuguanruhezuo，liyiquanshibukebimiande。eryiqiebuliangyingxiang，shinizhangfuzishendanfu。

04、真正的爱情两人在一起的较好的原因，婚外恋并不是感情

为何写这一实例呢？

 ziranyouyuangule，neishihouwoquantadeqingkuangxia，shishishangshiquanhebuquanlide。rangtatitiaojianbaohuziji，jianjiandigenggaizhangfu。yinweiworangtawangdiaolianren，bubidangebierentanduixiang。

 danshitadouhaimeititiaojian，tazhangfuyouchuguile，huoshineinvren，jinjinneinvrenzaoyijielehun。tajiaojizishenzhaolegeyuanyin：nibuxiangwopeng，wobunengbazijimensiba。

 taziyidouxiangnengtong，mingquetichuleliyi，daishangxiaohaizhudaoniangjiaren，zhibuguoshixianzaidouhaimeili。talaogongbuxiangyaoliyi，qutaniangjiarenguixia2cile。huoxu，zuihoutakeyibazhangfuzhigai，huoxutamenzuihouyiranhuiliyi。zhihoujiarutalilehun，wodouhuixietadeshili。jiarumeixie，neibianshimeiliyi。xianjieduan，zheiyishiliyejiuzhiyouxiedaozheier。

 yibaneryan，yeshenrenjingshideqingkuangxia，luoleideyouxiurencaishiduiziyizuichengxinderen，caikeyiyingduizishenneikezuichengshishouxindexin。libiannongnongdedanxinyubiequ，quemeiyourenyounengkuanwei，jinyouzishenlejie。

 xuduobeihunwailiansunhaiguoderen，tamendouyiqianjinglizheileidanxin。bujinfashengzainvxingderenqunzhong，nanshengyingduizheileiyouyubujuedeguochengzhongtongchanggengtongxin。

 zhenzhengdeaiqingliangrenzaiyiqidejiaohaodeyuanyin，yeshihunwailiancuihuihunyinshenghuodezuishizhideyuangu。chuguiderenaishanglelianren，jiuxiangdangyufourenleziyihebanlvdeyiqian。lingtianxienanchuguidenvrenshiruhede？nanrenchuguishinvrendeyinyouhaishitazijidebujiandingbijiaoduoni？nvrenchuguilenanrenyaoruhezuoni？baiyangnvchuguijilvyouduoshao？

 xuduoqingkuangxiahenduoren，huiyinweizishendezizun，weilegenghaodiernvdeshengzhangertiaoxuanqianrang。meiyiciduihunyinshenghuodeqinfenwanliu，quanshifeichangzhideyidingde。danshihuangejiaodulaikan，yiqieyijianshidouhuiyougechengdu。

 youhunyinshenghuozerenganderen，burongyiwaiyu，burongyimishangtaren，gengburongyifangqizishendejiazhong，yebuhuiqucuihuitarendejiazhong。

 zheixiesuoshuodelianren，zheixiesuoshuodezhenzhengdeaiqing，daozuizhongbuguoshixuweidedaicheng。ganqingyizhidoubukedianwu，hunyinshenghuozishizhizhongdoubixuyiwuyuzhongshi。

 juxiezuonvrenrongyichuguima？zaiyiqiehunyinshenghuozhong，zizerenyudandangquanshibibukeshaodejibennengli。jinyouwukuiyuzishendelian，caiyouzizuntaolun“ganqing”liangzi。jinyouwukuiyuzishendejiatinghunyin，caiyoutiaojiantanxingfukuaile。meiyigejialidounenggouxingfukuaile，bikaihunwailian，shizuishouxuandexuanzexiang。