如何奉劝婚内出轨的女人，出轨的女人如何与情人彻底断联？

 doushuohunwailianjinjintanhuayixian，jibianrucihenduorenhuoshiduihunwailianchongchizhexiangxiang，nvrenchuguiduiqingrenzhenxinma？naizhiyigenggaodechengbenhuodeyishidehunwailian。danshihunwailianjinjinwanhuozifen，zaifenbugushendehunwailianzhongjiuhuiguiyuchenji。ruhefengquanhunneichuguidenvren？

zheileiganqingcunyoushifenmingxiandequedianheboruodian，zhenzhenzhengzhengzoudaozuihoudegailvtaishao。

 shijishangxuduohunwailianbicicongyikaishidejuede，laidaoyiqidechuxin，jiqiduiyiduanganqingdezhudaodiweiheshijianduandebuduanzhangduyemeiyouquedingdedingyi，naizhijiushizaidianjizhexiantaguozheiyiduanganqingqi，biedequanguochenghejieguobenbianshimeiyouzhengtiguihua，naizhishizouyibusuanyibu，zuizhongdexiaoguoyeshianranshouwei。

 nvrenchuguiduiqingrenzhenxinma？yidanshencengcidaochuguidezheileiwoxuanzhong，jibianyikaishinidoukeyiqingxingderendedanao，dianjizhezishenhaikeyicaozongyiqie。danshiqingganzheileiwupin，suoyourendoubukeyilixingdekandai，ziranxuweiyiwai。

 yidanheyixingpengyouzhenzhenzhengzhengdejiuchanbuqingzaiyiqi，zuihouyiyizhongbusunhaizishenhuolingyifangdeqingxingxiacongzheizhongguanlianzhongchoushen，zhiyoushuochengshifenkunnan。

neimachuguinvrendaodishizenyangbaozhengheqingrenwanquandefenshou？

35岁的安女性

 wojinnian35sui，zaiyinianqianlejielelianren。zaiwomenxiangchulejiugeyueyihou，woxinzhongdeneijiuhekuijiuyizhiyaowoliangzhizoubuguoqu，neixindiyeshixinjingdanzhanhaipabeilaogongfajue。

 conghunwailianzhong.womingbaizheileiqingganbujiaoqinggan，zhishiyizhongxianghuzhijianshuaxinyandeganqing，shifenfengxian。zuihoudewomenjiuhaoxiangwanzhuomizang，haipabeilingyigerenshuaxinyanjinlai。renyouwozenmexiangbanfahuoshimeifawanbi，zhizhidajiabicizhijianshuaxinyandaoluohuochunqingdechengdu，caisuandeshangzuihouwanquanfenshou。

 xiangdangnianyeshiyinweihelaogongzhongjianyouyupoxizhijianyizhifashengzhengzhi。yinweijiatingjiufenyizhizaiebian，xiwanghunwailiankeyichanshengwoyaodeguanhuaizhongai。

 keshizhidaojiazhongchaiqianfeichulaizhihou，wodejiapojuecejidajiayibufenqian，shiwomenzishenqumaifang。neiyangjiububiwozaiyigejiazhongbian，yizhimaodunchixu。jiapodoubuqidaiweihaidajiafuqijiandeguanlian。neiyike.wolejie，sheicaisuanshizuiaideren。suizhebicizhijiandejiatingjiufenyejiuhuaweiwuyou，guozhenjiarenbicizhijianquanshibujihende，yinciwoxianheqingrenfenli。

 danshizheigeshierbingbushiyouzishenjuedingde，hunwailianbianchengwomeirizuichouzuidanxindeshier，youyuwoganjuezigemuqianderichangshenghuofeichanghao，wobuyuanyiyouyuhunwailianweihaiwodejiarenrichangshenghuo。wogengbuyuanyirangzhangfulejie，yinciwozhixiangjinzaodewanbi。danshizheiyinandianshibixuliangrenlaichulide，neigerenguoduanbutongyifenkai。

 tajuedezaidajiaganqingenyuanzheiyinianli，wohualetaxuduoqian，hekuangtayelejiewojiachaiqianfeifenlehenduoqian。yincitakanzhewoguoduandexintai，juecejiejixiangwoqiaozhalesuoyixiejinqian。zheishiwogengweirenqingletadezisihekongbu，keshiyinweiwohuijuetongyita。

 weixielejiaozhangyiduanshijian，tahuoshibuyuanfangshou。naizhiweixiewobuhuichuqianbianhuiquzhaowodelaoban，zaibaibanwunaixia，woyezhinengzishenxiangbanfahetawanquandewanbi。yinciwozhiyouhetaweixinliaotian，zaixianliaohuanjiezhongchouqutaweixiesuoyaojinqiandezhijiezhengju。

 yinciweilegenghaodihetawanquandefenshou，wozhiyouxiangqizheizhongfangfa。zuihoutajiandaosuoyaojinqianmeiyourenhedeqidai，naizhiyedanyouwojingbao，duiyuwojinyouyanfanhetongchi。zheicaisuandeshangwanquandejieshulehunwailian。

 jinguanwogenneigerengaoyiduanluohunwailian，keshimeiyicixiangqiwohunwaiqingdeshier。xinlimianbulehaihuijixuyouhaipa，youyuwohuoshihaipatahuifanyaoyikouwoyikou，wanyitaqueshibuxiyiqieyaozhaowodelaobanbiaomingyiqie，neimawogaizenmezuo？shibushibianhuisangshizigedejiazhong，sangshiwodelaoban。

suoyiwodexinlihuoshiyitiandaowanchuyuchoumeibuzhan，hunwailianzhendeshizuifengxianseguanlian。

29岁的杜女性

 wojinnian29sui，zaoyishisangehaizidemama。heshangbiandeneiweinvxingduibi，worenweizishenhaiku。fandaoyanxiantayouhenhaodezhili，fandaoranghunwailianzaimeiyousunhaijiazhongdeqingkuangxia，zuihoufenshou。zuishaoxianzailaijiangmeiyouweihaidaozishendehunyinshenghuoyujiating。

erwodejieguoqueyulimiandeneiweinvxingjieranbutong，youyubeikandaowoqianshedaoguoduoderen，sunhaidaoguoduoderen。

 woshiyimingjiatingfunv，yinweiyitiandaowanyangyuzheisangehaizideshenghuoqiju，zaizaijiashanglaogongduiyuwoyoushiyeshishilengshire。yincimianbulexinlihuichuxianjiliaohebiequ，yuanbenwojihuyemeiyouwaiyudexiangfa。youyuworenweiwoaiwozheiyijia，yinweiwoailaogong，wogengaiwodesangehaizi。meiriderichangfanmang，wojibenmeiyouneimeduodeshijianqukaoliangzheizhongganqingwenti。

 zaiyicibujingyidejiyuzhonglejieleta，taderechenhezixijiqiduiwodedingyue，yaowoxinliyongyouyixiewennuan。jianjiandidewozhujianyikaozheizhongganjue，zuihouzouzaileyiqi。

 shijishangbicizhijianyesuandeshangjiaoweijinshende，tayeyizaiqiangdiaohuiweihuhaobicizhijiandeganqing，niweihuhaowo，jueduibuhuirangsuoyourenlejiebicizhijiandehunwailian。yinerwoduitashishifenderenkeheyikao。

 danshiquanshijiemeiyoubutongfengdeqiang，zhishizhongshibaobulehuode。dangwomendehaizibujingyizhengzhongjianshuomuqinyizhiheyigenanrenpengmianxianliao，tamenbianchengwohunwailianpuludeshishifenyuangu。yinciwodelaogongzaoyizaitoutoudizhuizongwo，guanchawo。

 dangwoyuhunwailianderenzaiduyouhuideqingkuangxia，beilaogongdangchangdaidao。zuoweiyigeyouzizundenansheng，meifajienalaopojitamendailvmao，yinciyinuzhixia，laogongheqingrendaqilaile。zhongjiulianrenjuededaozishenliquciqiong，yinciyizhimeiyouruhehaiji。

 huijialehoulaogongyizhimeifajienazheijianshiqing，hekuangtaweilegenghaodisangehaiziyoubukeyiliyi。danshi，taduiwozaiyemeiyouqingyi，yitiandaowanbudanlengchaorefeng，naizhijinzhiwoaijintayidiandian。yuanbenwoyiweiwodehunwaiqingjiushizheiyangwanquandezhongduanle，danshizhizhiyicilaogongshoudaogonganjiguandianhua，.wozhidaoyijianshideyanzhonghouguo。

 yuanlaishilianrenbaojingle，tajianjulaogongdebaoliqingxiang，zuihoulaogongbeijuliuleqilai。woyiweiwulunchuxiannaxie？bicizhijianyiqiandeqingganshizhenshide。yincishifenzixinxindeqidaitachexiaoneiyangdejianju，wojijidadianhuajileta。

 xiangbudao，taduiyemeiyouyisideganqing，duizishendegerenxingweidoumeiyouyisidekuijiu。jinjinlengdandeshuotaburongyirangzheigeshierjiushizheiyangmeiyouxiawende。yeshihouhuimojiyuwojiuchanbuqingzaiyiqi，tingzhetazhihoudeyixieyuyan，.woganjueyuanxianzheigerenshizheibandekehen。yiqiandehuayanqiaoyubuguoshixuweieryi。

tahuoshimeiyouchexiaojianju，zuihoulaogongyehuodeleyidingdechufa。

 zheiyiciwodehunwaiqingsuandeshangwanquandefenshoule，danshihunwailianchadianerhuilewodejiaren，huilewodehunyinshenghuo。yaowocihoubudanyaojienalaogongdelengdan，gengyaojienadajiazheiyijijikeweidejiazhong。

 jinguanlaogongmeiyouyuwoliyi，womingbaitajiushixiangjiangwozuoweisangehaizidejiezhu，youyuxiaopengyoumenhaixiaoshilibulezishendemama。laogongjibenshangmeiyitiandouburongyihuijiale，chukaihuijiatanwangyihuierxiaohai，hewoshibuhuiduoshuoyijuhua。

 hunwailianyaowodehunyinguanxiwanquandemeilewendu，yemeilewangridehuanleqifen，yexuwoyishengdouxuyaoweizheigeshierhuihen，weizheijianshiqingqitourudaliangdechengben。

42岁的陈女士

 jiaruheqingrenzhennengwanquanfenshouyeshiyizhongbaituo，danshiyidanheqingrenzouzaiyiqi，mianbulebianhuiyixinbukeyieryong。yinweiwogaoqingchu，hunwailianjinjinzishenweilegenghaodiganshouyixianeileiqingdiaoheshenmigan。zhenzhenzhengzhengwanquandaobie，huoshibixushijian，huoliheganqingdeshifangchulai。

 womenlianggezaiyiqiyiqianjiuxieshanghao，bicizhijianjiaruwufachixuzouxialai，xianghuzhijianbubijiuchanbuqing，bubizhanxianziwo，hepingfenshou，cihouqiaoguiqiaoluguilu，bubibayiqiannanwangdehuiyihuihuai，yebubidiaonanbicizhijian。

 zhongjiuwomenlianggequanshiyoujialidechengnianren，buguancongwaijiedeyingxiang，huoshiduibaobaodesunhai，dajiadouwufarangzheijianshiqingbeibierenfajue。yincixianghuzhijiandexiangchushifendangxin，buzhangyang。zhizhidajiawanbiyihou，yemeiyousuoyourenfajueguobicizhijiandeshier。

 wangwangganjueyingdangdaofenshoudeqingkuangxia，shiyouyudangranbicizhijianbingmeiyouliyidezhunbei，jinjinyouyuxianghuzhijianshangxi，xianghuzhijianganshouyixiahunwailiandeshenmigan，jirandanxinweihaijiazhonghehunyinshenghuo，neimajiuyingdangzaoliduan。

yinciwomenjueding，cihoubuhuizaijiuchanbuqing。

 henxianzhunanshengbaozhengle，tazaiyebuhuijijilianxiwo，doumeiyoutantingguoqitayouguanwodexiaoxi。jibianwoyouyuguoyusinian，haihuijixujingchangdedajiaota，tadoushihuijiandanmingledegaozhi:bicizhijianzaoyigaoyiduanluo，bukeyisunhaileshuangfangdejiazhong。

 shide，womenfenshoule，bingqiefenshoudetebieliji。meiyoubeiqinrenfajue，meiyouweihaidaohunyinshenghuoyujiating。jinjinzaiwodeneixinli，woqueyizhizaisinianzheta。ruhefengquanhunneichuguidenvren？

 jinguanhunwailianjianhaojiushoushizuicongmingdejuece，jinguantazunxunlefuwuchengnuo。danshidangtazheibansatuodeliqu，dangtachongfendebuyushiwoyiqieguanliandeqingkuangxia，wodexinlibujinjinshishanggan，daliangdeshiyiyibushe。

 neixinliyizhiganjuequeshaolenaxie，renyourichangshenghuodequanbukaixinhejidongdoutianbumanyi。yincidajiaweimingshangzeshiwanquandefenshoule，keshiwodeneixinlihaoxianghaimeiwanbi。

 jinguanzijiyegaoqingchu，weilegenghaodibasunshangjiangzhizuishao，zhiyoufenlicaisuanshibijiaoheshidefangshi。kewoneixinlideneiyifenpanwangheainianbuzhidaoshenmeshihoucaikeyiwanquanwanbi。

bubiduihunwailianyizhixiangxiangdehenhao，yidanheqitayixingpengyoujiuchanbuqingzaiyiqi，zhongjiushiwufachijiude。

 conghunwailiandefashengdaoshuailuohuoshibixuhaofeiyidingdeshizhangheshijianjiqiganqing，yinciyaoxiangsuibianfangkaishou，yulingyifangdaobie，bingmeiyouxiangxiangdeneiyangfeichangrongyi。

 jiaruhunwailiandeneigetashiyouzhenduixinghequanyixingyouyitiejin，neimazheixiehunwailianzhinengrangbicishenxianzaiganqingkunjingzhong，zuihouduihunyinjiatingheairendesunhaichengbenshiwufawanhuide。ruhefengquanhunneichuguidenvren？

 yucitongshi，jiaruhunwailiande2gerenqunzhong，youyigerenguoduanchechu，lingyigerenbuyiburao。neimabianhuizhongjiutongguiyujin，zuihoubenshendeshengyu，zichan，jiazhong，hunyinshenghuodoushiyouhenyoukenengzaiyishunjianwanquandesangshi。

 buguanhunwailianshiyouyuyishideqinpeihuomilianerzaocheng，huoshiyouyujinjinyinweizhaoxunlanmanerzaocheng，zuihoudoushiyiwanbihebuchenggongjieshu。

 yincizuoweiyimingyihunnvren，jiuxuyaodanfuqilaopodeyiwu，jiazhongdeyiwuhemamadeyiwu。gengyingdangdanfuqiyigeairenzaijiatingshenghuozhongshiyanderenwujiaose，buyinggaibahunwailianzuoweizishendejiemenpin，bukeyibahunwailianzuoweizishenduirichangshenghuodeqidai。youyuhunwailianzhiyourangzishenshenxiandaoqiongtumolu，yehuirangjiazhongyishunjiantanta，genghuirangxiaohaihebabamamazaoshoujiaodadesunhai，yehuirangzishendelaogongchengdanpohuaixingdeyanlidaji。

 nvrenchuguiduiqingrenzhenxinma？yiner，bubimilianhexiangxianghunwailian，hunwailianjinjinyibeidujiubale，zhongduleguoshenbianhuisangshiyiqie。