谈恋爱女朋友出轨了能原谅吗？如何聪明处理女朋友出轨？

zaizheilijiezoukuaideshiqi，ganqingdeshenmiganhechixuxingyezaijiakuaihaofei，ruhecongmingchulinvpengyouchugui？waiyuzheigeciyulaiyujingchang，zaiqingganzhonghenduorentiaoxuanlechaosanmusi。gangchuduixiangshi，nidenvpengyouchuguile，nishibushinengquyuanliangzaicidajiazheiyiduanqinggan。nvyouchuguilenengyuanliangma？

waiyushiyuanzexingwenti，bukeyuanliang。yiduanqingganshibushijiannanshibushinengzaicizhangjiuxialai，zuizhuzhongdebianshienaideliangrenduibicizhijianshibushizhongshizhongcheng。jiarutamenganqinglizuizhongyaodedaodedixiandoukeshoubushang，neiyihoutahaowuyiwenhaihuijixuduidajiadeqinggangengweibugaoduzhongshi。jishinikuanrongletazheiyicitazhihouyiranhuizaicifashengde。yincijiranchuguilejiumeiyoubixuzaiqukuanrong，zairangzheiyiduanbenjiumeiyoujieguodeqingganjianchixiaqule。

原则性问题不可原谅

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对情感不得不忠

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nvyouchuguilenengyuanliangma？yiqiandexingfuyezhiyoushizhuiyi。zaiyicidekuanrongzongshirangnichanshenggengzhongdesunhai。yinciruguonifajuezaichuduixiangshinvpengyouchuguijiuliyingshijishangfangkaishouzheiyiduanqingganrangdajiabicibicizhijiandesunhaidoujiangzhizuishao。yexuzheiduinieryanshiyigehuaidejieguo，danzheiduidajiadeqingganeryanyeshiyigetimiandidejieguo。

当断则断决不宽容

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